Is it bad to have too many pictures on a profile?

[2NoLimit 95]

Is there a benefit to just having a few pictures?

 

We are very adventurous and like to show that on our profile. We also, believe that pictures speak louder then words. But we have noticed that most couples just limit themselves to just a few pictures (On that same note because of the lack of pictures, we also, noticed that most just don’t look like there pictures). We would appreciate any constructive criticism on our profile pictures, if it’s not too much trouble...like what to keep and what to remove, and why. English isn’t our first language so apologies for any grammatical errors, but feel free to point it out if you see any on the profile.

 

SDC: 2NoLimit

warning this profile contains sexual acts (no not close ups) We are more aggressive on that site, SFL kinda have to be.

 

SLS: 2NoLimit (seems like more educated couples on this site then SDC, but not as many couples like SDC)

 

Thanks in advance

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Our first thought was no, there's no such thing as too many pictures...but you have too many pictures (56). Cut that in about half and you should be good to go. There are more than a few pictures that don't bring anything to the party (example: 3rd picture that's B&W is too dark and too much like the much better 1st picture) Some of the shots are repetitive like the 4th and 5th picture at Bliss Halloween, just one is further back than the other...the further back one is a better shot, pictures 13 and 15 (either is fine, but both are not needed), and pictures 38 and 42 (we like 38 better), pictures 45 and 49 (49 is better). Some just aren't needed (pictures 9, 23, 24, 30, 31, 37, 53, 55, 56) Pictures 21 and 22 should be closer to the start, they are good pictures of the two of you.

 

Hey, you asked...just edit down to the really great pictures (pictures 1, 10, 22, 38, 39, 40, 44, 49 are our favs, but that's just us). Shoot for less than 30 really great pictures and swap them out as you get new great pictures.

 

Oh, and she is absolutely STUNNING...we'd do you.

[2NoLimit 95]

OMG thank you so much for that, exactly what we’re looking for, and thank you for the compliment ?

 

Will go over your list with my husband during the week.

 

Cheers,

[Judy39 145]

Great profile and pictures - I'm sure it works very well as is, but 10-20 selected pics would be more effective than 56 as a conversation starter. After all that's what the profile is for - to serve as a teaser, not as a complete book of all possible angles and perspectives.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

I'd rather see a few pics that really look like the couple than a ton of pics that force me to pick and choose. One thing I've noticed, too, is that the more pics a couple has posted the more likely there will be bad shots. So we'll start off looking at a profile thinking "yeah they are hot" then a few pics in get hit with a pic that's a bad angle and it's like "well is that a bad angle? Or were the other ones just really good angles?" In the end, some live interaction whether via camchat or actually meeting seems to go further for giving you an idea of what you are dealing with than a ton of pics (IMO).

[2NoLimit 95]

Never thought of it that way Judy39, makes perfect sense. Thank you for that.

 

We have done the video chat before, and we have concluded that we would prefer to just meet in person. From our small experience with live cam (Skype & Facetime) it just hasn’t appealed to us, and noticed two things, 1st couple the cam did them no justice they were way hotter in person (some just don’t look good in cam or pictures), 2nd couple we tried, looked great on cam & pictures, but in person...we’ll not so great.

 

I know SLS doesn’t have the options on how important looks are to you like SDC does (other then writing it down on the profile). We have it as medium importance on SDC, we find more attraction in the personality’s then the looks (this we learned from our cruise), and meet some wonderful couples, that after the cruise we looked at there profile and said to ourselves...WOW we would have never agreed to meet them. We also meet some really hot couples that when they opened there mouths nothing but arrogance came out, and it was a total turn off for us.

[Judy39 145]

I agree, videos seem like hard work for little benefit. I declined requests for video chats in the past, even those that came from people I was attracted to (and subsequently met, and had a great time with).