Rude or over keen

[Newcouple17 101]

We have no real idea about certain expectations regarding swinging/swapping.

 

So on the verge of giving up on meeting anyone on our first visit to a club and with us both being rather hot and a tad flustered, we were approached by a very attractive couple. It was late, so there was limited talking/interaction, but we both felt the click and after a brief discussion we all headed back to our hotel. Thankfully they took the lead and a extremely fun and tiring night was had. They stayed for virtually the whole night and numbers were exchanged, obviously they were our first swap couple and clearly we were not theirs, so here's the question:

 

Do we wait hoping for a call, do we call them and if so how long should we wait or do we just put it down to experience?

 

We're aware this is a stupid question, but there does seem to rules about most things?

[CB&DD 218]

You could always send them a text and say thank you for a nice night and see where the conversation goes from there.

[Newcouple17 101]

You could always send them a text and say thank you for a nice night and see where the conversation goes from there.

 

Yes, yes thats exactly what we should do......I think my minds turned to mush! lol

Thanks

[adamgunn 1,460]

Yes, go ahead and make contact. They'll know you had a great time, they might be worried because it was your first.

[Newcouple17 101]

Yes, go ahead and make contact. They'll know you had a great time, they might be worried because it was your first.

 

Yes we've now just sent a short but very sweet txt.

[Guest]

Call or text.

 

They are probably sat there wondering if they should call or text you.

[Newcouple17 101]

Call or text.

 

They are probably sat there wondering if they should call or text you.

 

We txt them yesterday and after a few too and throws they called us and we had a four way conversation over the phone. They were waiting for us to make contact with them to give us space and not appear pushy, but want to meet up with us again.

[rjmax2003 21]

Yeah!

[lnw 145]

Way to go! We try to drop a short note telling them how great it was. But there are times we hear nothing like it never happened.

[Newcouple17 101]

Way to go! We try to drop a short note telling them how great it was. But there are times we hear nothing like it never happens c.

go. We also wonder about timing to reconnect but usually the next f at or so we will send a short note telling them how great it was. There are many times though that the other couple disappears no matter how much fun we all had.

 

Yeah we didn't want to come across badly, but we did want to make contact and confirm that we had a fantastic time....just in case there was any doubt at the time! Also after discussing the night we are keen to meet up again.

Aparerently they would have messaged us sooner, but knowing that we are new didn't want to scare us off as they want to meet up with us again too.

All in all I think we got extremely lucky bumping into them, seeing as we were really only going to the club for a look around and neither of us were expecting anything to happen!

[EmilyMoore 20]

From the moment me and my hubby are swinging, we are having a better relationship and sex life. We are way happier than before. There are a lot of do and don't but trust me once you try and have good partners, you will ask for more and more.

[Fla-swing99 136]

We agree with many on here. We say send a nice but simple text to them. You can end it with maybe something along the lines of "we'd love to see you guys again. Let us know if you guys are interested". Or maybe "if you want to get together again, let us know".

 

Just something simple but let's them know you guys are interested. If they reply, great. If they don't then at least you sent a simple text telling them you guys enjoyed your time with them and then move on.

[Sunday 119]

From my experience, a text or two is exchanged the next day saying how hot last night was -- which seems normal to me, if it was. Then, it seems like it's the girls stay in contact and plan the next encounter.