Exhibitionists, what's your favorite thing to do while others watch?

[Myzyri 38]

Long ago, my wife and I were watching a porn movie (porn REALLY gets her going). The guy came inside the girl and then went down to eat his own cream pie. She asked me to do that. I begrudgingly did it and I didn't enjoy it. However, we were at a club one night and we got frisky. I end up cumming inside her and, out of nowhere, I was overcome with an intense desire to eat her out. So, I did. I loved it. We tried it again at home and I hated it. I don't know what it is, but when others are watching, I just love going down on my wife after cumming inside her.

 

As for my wife, she's a little more reserved. Her favorite thing to do is to suck my dick or jerk me off while others watch. Last time we were out, we were sitting on a couch at the club talking to another couple. The other guy reached down and started rubbing his wife's crotch. My wife unzipped my pants, pulled out my cock, and started jerking me off. Then she went down and just started sucking. After we left, she was like, "Yeah, I'm doing that EVERY SINGLE TIME we come to a club. I just LOVED feeling peoples' eyes on me while I sucked your cock."

 

So, exhibitionists... How do you like to show off while others watch?

[BabeAndApe 70]

Orgasm marathons!

 

Once of our kinks is orgasm control and forced orgasms. Babe is extremely fit (think bikini or fitness model) and her orgasms could be described as "hulking out." When she cums she cries out, thrashes, tears at the sheets, and every muscle in her body flexes and becomes distinct. A hitachi magic wand and a combination of progressively large butt-plugs and dongs causes her to have repeated and increasingly intense orgasms. Our record is 14 in 51 minutes. She is happy for days afterwards says it has the added bonus of being better core and posterior workout than her actual workout! When in public we've done less ambitious sessions: 5-6 orgasms in 20 minutes. People tend to stare rapt. And I've been chatted up by a few ladies afterward.... We'd like, at some point, to invite people to put their mouths and hands on her, and to kiss her, when we do it. We've also discussed having a gentleman or two stand in for the dongs in the interorgasm "recovery periords." Sometimes I do that, anyways.

[couplers 4,652]

I'm not really an exhibitionist, but in the right situation, a place where everyone is naked, I like being naked. I'm fit and will walk holding a towel, but not cover myself or lie on a chaise with my legs slightly parted. If people, men or women look, or even stare I like it. But I've never had sex in front of strangers, although again in the right situation I wouldn't mind. Probably it would be considered a good performance.

[EastInWest 1,524]

Oral, in either direction. I think I was 16 or 17 the first time I got head with an audience and have no hesitation about it at all and enjoy it.

 

Mrs. E has always liked topless sunbathing but has started getting more comfortable and excited about showing off her body in general. She used to want to put her arms over her breasts in almost any situation but lately she's gotten to where she's fine stretching out and relaxing when we're around other playmates.

[luv2was 117]

... So, exhibitionists... How do you like to show off while others watch?

I never quite thought about "V&E" (Voyeurism & Exhibitionism) in quite those terms, so I find this an interesting question. I've put off addressing this one, because I was not that sure how to respond. It hits pretty much on target for me though, as I identify with V&E as a favorite kink of mine.

 

To answer your question directly however, I'd have to say my favorite thing to do while others watch is to simply put on a (good) show... one that gets them excited too. I know that sounds pretty vague, but I think for true (dedicated?, die-hard?, committed? [pun intended]) V&E enthusiasts, that is all that it really is about.

 

Putting on a good show depends on quite a lot (all the usual things that lend towards good sexual performance, either as a couple alone, or with an audience). The situation plays a big part. But how my partner responds to me is the biggest part. People can usually spot a fake performance, which defeats the purpose entirely.

 

From what you have shared, I'd be inclined to say that you and your wife understand all this completely. ... My only additional comment would be: Try not to question it... just enjoy it!

 

At the risk of hogging bandwidth, and droning on too long (something I know I am guilty of), I'll share a few other thoughts and experiences. As I said, this is a favorite topic of mine. (Plus I am taking a "rest day" today, so I have time, for a pleasant distraction.)

 

:-)

 

Regarding "eating creampie", I guess I was lucky, as I was introduced to it when I was young. I quickly found it to be a major turn-on. My first ongoing lover (lasted about 3 years) was my age (22) and quite the little minx. I was young, horny, and eager to please (and wanted to get laid on a regular basis).

 

I cannot recall if I felt squeamish the first go 'round, but after that first time I've never really looked back. She would like to fuck first, and I would get-off rather quickly (as most young men do), so I'd then go down on her (at her request / instruction), which she enjoyed immensely. All her thrashing around to that would get me recharged again by the time she pushed me away (several of her orgasms later). I'd be rock-hard by that time, so we'd fuck again. This was a pretty common routine for us, we both loved it, and felt quite satisfied afterwards. On longer sessions (all morning or afternoon), we'd repeat this, to where I'd cum a total of 3 or 4 times. (Oh to be young again! LOL)

 

The main thing though is that it is a huge turn-on for me to see my partner get excited (and thoroughly satisfied), and if that means tasting my own cum, I'm OK with that. ... I've never been confronted with a situation as to whether or not I'd eat another guy's cum out of my partner's puss, but I believe it is something I'd do. It may depend on the situation & chemistry at the time.

 

I would also like to share some of the better "Exhibitionist" experiences I've had.

 

My favorite was the most recent. It has been about 8 years now, but it was a time when webcams were getting more popular, and "social" sites were supporting them better. My partner at the time was a bit reluctant at first, but we put on some anonymous (never showed our faces) cam shows on a popular "Adult / Swingers" site. She quickly found out she was really into it, and we got rather elaborate about it. I recall one time we had over 1,000 viewers, so that was a fantastic turn-on for both of us. ... Most importantly though, she stole the show! I was (literally) just along for the ride. I've been lovers with about 2-dozen women, and none of them ever responded to me putting my cock in her the way she did. Her response was real, and quite convincing. No doubt a lot of folks got-off watching us, which for a true exhibitionist is the grandest reward. (Her response always worked wonders for my excitement, on cam or off.)

 

My next favorite took place in the late 90's. Long before I got my first webcam, and a few years before I put up a profile on an "Adult" site. I was only just newly introduced to the term "Swinger" (though the concept had been in my mind for quite some time). My partner then (for about 2 years) seemed reserved, but over time I discovered that she had quite a playful streak. I was not as closely identified with my V&E nature at that time, so I did not recognize how much we had that kink in common.

 

Anyway... I was living in the Kansas City area at the time, and it was cool weather. We decided to do some star-gazing by putting a double-bed sized inflatable mattress out on her suburban patio, which was in very clear view of any of her immediate neighbors. I thought nothing of it, and was expecting a very innocent experience. She could be fairly quick on the trigger however, for getting all hot-and-bothered. (Women in their 40's, gotta love 'em!) Next thing I know we are fucking in a double sleeping bag! In retrospect I think she had it all planned, even if subconsciously. I already knew she'd had some experiences with sex in public places, where "you might get caught". Had any of her neighbors looked onto her patio it would have been obvious what we were doing. When done we simply got up naked, and we moved everything inside. If anyone saw, I never knew it. It was certainly a turning point in that relationship. One that I always recall quite fondly.

 

My last story here is very similar. It was about 2006, just about the time I was getting more into webcam stuff, but not all that active in it yet (as it was a fledgling scene then, by my observation). My partner then (for about 3 years) was fairly vanilla about sex most of the time, but occasionally she surprised me. The biggest surprise was one evening we were lounging in her back yard in a hammock. Not one of those easy "mesh / sling-type" hammocks, but the kind with a larger rope web, and sticks on the ends, which are a lot easier to fall out of. We'd done this before, so the balancing act of snuggling up together in it was familiar. She lived in a fringe neighborhood, part suburban, part light industrial. Yards were big. Where we were was pretty much out of sight to the street, but had any of her neighbors walked out into their yard, they likely would have seen us. It was mild weather, and a pleasant evening for Austin, TX, so we were clad in shorts and T-shirts.

 

We started fooling around a bit. It was dark, but light enough to see someone in a yard a few lots over. I probably initiated it, just as some casual fun, expecting to finish inside. Next thing I know we are half-naked and fucking in this hammock. It was quite comical really, trying to make adjustments without falling to the ground. Probably would have made a funny scene to a movie. Again, if anyone saw, I never knew.

 

:-)

 

From my experience and observation, I'd say that V&E men outnumber V&E women by at least 20:1... so again... I say: Try not to question it, and just enjoy the good times for what they are.

 

Be Well... Have Fun!

 

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[agreatguy 269]

We both knew we were exhibitionists before we ever were in reality. During our first club outing we were getting turned on by the surroundings. She was rubbing my cock through my pants and eventually unzipped me and had me fully exposed. The seating was a bench type with cushions. I told my wife to get on her knees on the bench and suck my cock. She looked at me like "Really?". I simply said " I'm not asking!". She complied with a smile. I pulled her skirt up to expose her to our audience and felt her pussy. She was dripping wet. Later we grabbed a bed and fucked like we were brand new lovers in heat.

 

Nothing turns her on, or me, more than performing oral and even better when others watch.

[Shaul.Kassia 21]

My wife and me like to play with each other in the back seat of a taxi. She take off her panties and I finger her pussy. She jerks me off and BJ me. The taxi-driver goes crazy looking through the rearview mirror.

[robaval 220]

In a London couples club bar area, sitting on round banquet seating without out a table. Julie sitting on my lap, skirt hiked up, legs spread facing towards the other people on the banquet seating and at tables and on bar stools , me finger banging her soaking wet pussy until she climaxed. Robb