sillyquestion 16 Posted December 10, 2017 Hi guys, I have a (probably stupid) question I need to ask. From your experience of swinging, does vaginal tightness change after a woman has been with a thicker (girthier) guy? I'm of average size myself and I've done some googling and found mixed results. Some say that theoretically there shouldn't be any change, that it doesn't work that way. Others have anecdotal evidence of their partners having larger exes and their vaginas being looser as a result. Will being with a significantly thicker guy cause a woman's vagina to feel looser to an average sized guy thereafter? I'm sure plenty of you have experience in this regard and could answer one way or the other? I understand that a woman can do kegels and clench on your penis, but I'm talking about the default tightness I guess, without clenching. Have any of you been with women whose partners were significantly bigger than you and still found them to feel as tight as women who have not been with larger guys? Thanks so much for any replies, I'd love to be able to clear this up in my mind from people with first hand experience. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
SW_PA_Couple 4,024 Posted December 10, 2017 Good question. Answer: In a word, no. Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest Posted December 11, 2017 I don't think a women's vagina gets bigger by sleeping with well hung men. But I do think some women have naturally big vaginas, where a certain few have naturally small vaginas Quote Share this post Link to post
Newcouple17 101 Posted December 11, 2017 This is something I've never even considered and I'm rather sceptical?? Obviously there are bigger/thicker guys and yes I can definitely confirm that you can most definitely feel the differences at the time? I have also heard the not rather nice 'finger' rating, but nothing about any lasting effects?? Quote Share this post Link to post
Lionheart72 2,190 Posted December 11, 2017 In my experience, when I am with my wife immediately after she's been with a guy, I can notice a slight difference. By the next day, that difference is gone. The vagina is a remarkably elastic organ. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post
sillyquestion 16 Posted December 11, 2017 This is something I've never even considered and I'm rather sceptical?? Obviously there are bigger/thicker guys and yes I can definitely confirm that you can most definitely feel the differences at the time? I have also heard the not rather nice 'finger' rating, but nothing about any lasting effects?? Does an average penis still feel as tight to you as it did before you had been with larger guys? Quote Share this post Link to post
sillyquestion 16 Posted December 11, 2017 In my experience, when I am with my wife immediately after she's been with a guy, I can notice a slight difference. By the next day, that difference is gone. The vagina is a remarkably elastic organ. It's as if she had never slept with a larger guy full stop? Fully back to original rightness as if you were her largest partner to date? Quote Share this post Link to post
Lionheart72 2,190 Posted December 11, 2017 It's as if she had never slept with a larger guy full stop? Fully back to original rightness as if you were her largest partner to date? Yup. No difference at all. She's had bigger guys. She's been gang-banged. She's had a kid. Took a little longer to bounce back after the kid, obviously. Seriously, you can pass a 10 lbs baby through that opening and it still returns to it's original shape given time. A dick is nothing in comparison. Still, if your lady is concerned, have her look into Kegel exercises. Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,065 Posted December 12, 2017 Most women at some point have had a child...that's a baby's head passing through the vagina, much bigger than ANY dick out there, and they still are 'tight'. The vagina is designed to stretch and then recover, so while a well endowed man may make a vagina temporarily 'looser', it usually returns to normal within 12 hours. Quote Share this post Link to post
Myzyri 38 Posted December 12, 2017 GET ME A SCIENTIST! Well, you're in luck... There's one here! The answer is yes and no. For short term, the vagina can stretch and stay "larger," but it will go back to it's regular size over night. Think of the vagina (and anus) as slow-acting rubber bands. They'll expand to accommodate whatever is being inserted, but they'll return to homeostasis overnight. A prime example of this is "the gape." You have sex with someone anally or vaginally and pull out. The "hole" will most likely be gaping open because the vagina isn't a mouse-trap. It doesn't snap shut immediately after intercourse. Within 30 minutes, it will look pretty "normal" again and by the next morning, it's back to it's normal size. What can make it stay "big?" Trauma. When the tissue rips, it can repair itself with a little extra room. Your body is smarter than you are, so, let's say your wife bends over, you think you're being funny, and you ram a lubed fist up her unsuspecting vagina. She screams and beats the fuck out of you. She looks down and her vag is stretched to the point of being ripped. As it heals, it will allow for a little more room. Why? Because her body needs to fix the damage, but it's also leaving room for the possibility of this happening again. If it happens again, there will be some more room and hence, less damage to repair. Think of a gunshot. If you get shot, you'll have thicker scar tissue to cover up the wound. A major part is that the body isn't designed to repair flawlessly, but the other part is to make the wound location more resistant to future damage. This is where pregnancy plays a part. Women who've delivered babies vaginally will sometimes be "looser" forever (if they do nothing about it). That kid pulls, stretches, and rips the vagina. It may not be evident outside, but there are tears within the tissue for sure. Many women do nothing about it and they eventually shrink down to almost normal. One or two kids and the difference is almost unnoticeable. If she's a baby factory and is cranking out kids every year or two, her body is going to adapt. This does not mean she's going to have some cavernous trench twat, but she'll be "looser." Of course, all of this "loosening" can be staved off with a wide variety of regimens. The most common is kegel exercises. Next are kegel weights. Another option is electro stimulation whereby electrodes are placed around the vagina and the muscles are forced to contract. It's basically a "forced" kegel exercise. My wife does this and she finds it pleasurable, but she also uses a very low setting. Some women hate it and say it's outrageously painful. Different strokes for different folks, I guess. In the end, your answer is yes and no. Yes, they can get "loose," but they tighten back up quickly unless there's been some sort of trauma. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post
sillyquestion 16 Posted December 12, 2017 GET ME A SCIENTIST! Well, you're in luck... There's one here! The answer is yes and no. For short term, the vagina can stretch and stay "larger," but it will go back to it's regular size over night. Think of the vagina (and anus) as slow-acting rubber bands. They'll expand to accommodate whatever is being inserted, but they'll return to homeostasis overnight. A prime example of this is "the gape." You have sex with someone anally or vaginally and pull out. The "hole" will most likely be gaping open because the vagina isn't a mouse-trap. It doesn't snap shut immediately after intercourse. Within 30 minutes, it will look pretty "normal" again and by the next morning, it's back to it's normal size. What can make it stay "big?" Trauma. When the tissue rips, it can repair itself with a little extra room. Your body is smarter than you are, so, let's say your wife bends over, you think you're being funny, and you ram a lubed fist up her unsuspecting vagina. She screams and beats the fuck out of you. She looks down and her vag is stretched to the point of being ripped. As it heals, it will allow for a little more room. Why? Because her body needs to fix the damage, but it's also leaving room for the possibility of this happening again. If it happens again, there will be some more room and hence, less damage to repair. Think of a gunshot. If you get shot, you'll have thicker scar tissue to cover up the wound. A major part is that the body isn't designed to repair flawlessly, but the other part is to make the wound location more resistant to future damage. This is where pregnancy plays a part. Women who've delivered babies vaginally will sometimes be "looser" forever (if they do nothing about it). That kid pulls, stretches, and rips the vagina. It may not be evident outside, but there are tears within the tissue for sure. Many women do nothing about it and they eventually shrink down to almost normal. One or two kids and the difference is almost unnoticeable. If she's a baby factory and is cranking out kids every year or two, her body is going to adapt. This does not mean she's going to have some cavernous trench twat, but she'll be "looser." Of course, all of this "loosening" can be staved off with a wide variety of regimens. The most common is kegel exercises. Next are kegel weights. Another option is electro stimulation whereby electrodes are placed around the vagina and the muscles are forced to contract. It's basically a "forced" kegel exercise. My wife does this and she finds it pleasurable, but she also uses a very low setting. Some women hate it and say it's outrageously painful. Different strokes for different folks, I guess. In the end, your answer is yes and no. Yes, they can get "loose," but they tighten back up quickly unless there's been some sort of trauma. TRIGGER WARNING Thank you so much for your reply to my thread. I just have two questions for you if that's alright. 1) Just to confirm: you're saying that if I had previously been a woman's largest partner, and she then has sex say twice in standalone encounters with a significantly thicker guy - when we have sex let's say a week or a month later, she would feel exactly as tight to me as she had when I was her largest partner? She wouldn't be more easily stretched or loosened in any way? 2) On trauma. My partner was actually assaulted once in the past. It was a single time and she was seen by a doctor who didn't suggest surgery or anything other than antibiotics to clear up the infection. While there was some evidence of blood, as far as I know there wasn't significant tearing - would this still make her looser? Or could she remain the same tightness? What would be likely? Thank you so much. Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,640 Posted December 12, 2017 Hi guys, I have a (probably stupid) question I need to ask. From your experience of swinging, does vaginal tightness change after a woman has been with a thicker (girthier) guy? There's no guy girthier than a baby's head. All three of us women in our poly family have had children come out the same way they went in. Surprisingly, the guys have said it is just as tight (and in Clair's case tighter) than it was before. It's muscles that provide the tightness, it's not like a rubber hose. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
PeterJ 948 Posted December 12, 2017 “Your body is smarter than you are, so, let's say your wife bends over, you think you're being funny, and you ram a lubed fist up her unsuspecting vagina. She screams and beats the fuck out of you. She looks down and her vag is stretched to the point of being ripped. As it heals, it will allow for a little more room. Why? Because her body needs to fix the damage, but it's also leaving room for the possibility of this happening again.” Hee, hee! In the scenario described above I think it’s a safe assumption that it will not ever happen again. Indeed, if I did that to my wife, I’m pretty sure she’d never let me get near her pussy again for the brief interlude before our divorce became final... Quote Share this post Link to post
cplnluv1 872 Posted December 12, 2017 I was going to mention giving birth and I saw it already posted. My wife also has toys bigger than me and they haven’t spoiled her. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Myzyri 38 Posted December 12, 2017 TRIGGER WARNING Thank you so much for your reply to my thread. I just have two questions for you if that's alright. 1) Just to confirm: you're saying that if I had previously been a woman's largest partner, and she then has sex say twice in standalone encounters with a significantly thicker guy - when we have sex let's say a week or a month later, she would feel exactly as tight to me as she had when I was her largest partner? She wouldn't be more easily stretched or loosened in any way? 2) On trauma. My partner was actually assaulted once in the past. It was a single time and she was seen by a doctor who didn't suggest surgery or anything other than antibiotics to clear up the infection. While there was some evidence of blood, as far as I know there wasn't significant tearing - would this still make her looser? Or could she remain the same tightness? What would be likely? Thank you so much. 1. Correct. She would feel exactly the same as she did before. I guess another thing I forgot to mention is that while women can train themselves to tighten up with keels and whatnot, they can also train themselves to loosen up as well. Maybe she's just been using a very large dildo or vibe routinely. 2. The assault trauma probably wouldn't cause her to be looser and if it did, it would be unrecognizable to you unless the guy had an elephant cock. I'm not trying to be funny, but unless it was huge and caused some major damage, it wouldn't have any major effect. Quote Share this post Link to post
sillyquestion 16 Posted December 12, 2017 1. Correct. She would feel exactly the same as she did before. I guess another thing I forgot to mention is that while women can train themselves to tighten up with keels and whatnot, they can also train themselves to loosen up as well. Maybe she's just been using a very large dildo or vibe routinely. 2. The assault trauma probably wouldn't cause her to be looser and if it did, it would be unrecognizable to you unless the guy had an elephant cock. I'm not trying to be funny, but unless it was huge and caused some major damage, it wouldn't have any major effect. Thank you. So unless we're talking legit BBC porn star size penis for the assault, there wouldn't be any change in tightness? Any tears would heal and this wouldn't make her looser in any way? Also, am I right in saying that the trauma you referred to in your original post would only really be applicable to giving birth or fisting? No cock in consensual sex could cause trauma that leads to loosening as you referred to? Thanks so much for your reply. Quote Share this post Link to post
sillyquestion 16 Posted December 12, 2017 “Your body is smarter than you are, so, let's say your wife bends over, you think you're being funny, and you ram a lubed fist up her unsuspecting vagina. She screams and beats the fuck out of you. She looks down and her vag is stretched to the point of being ripped. As it heals, it will allow for a little more room. Why? Because her body needs to fix the damage, but it's also leaving room for the possibility of this happening again.” Hee, hee! In the scenario described above I think it’s a safe assumption that it will not ever happen again. Indeed, if I did that to my wife, I’m pretty sure she’d never let me get near her pussy again for the brief interlude before our divorce became final... Your wife is still tight? Not any looser? Quote Share this post Link to post
Myzyri 38 Posted December 12, 2017 Thank you. So unless we're talking legit BBC porn star size penis for the assault, there wouldn't be any change in tightness? Any tears would heal and this wouldn't make her looser in any way? Also, am I right in saying that the trauma you referred to in your original post would only really be applicable to giving birth or fisting? No cock in consensual sex could cause trauma that leads to loosening as you referred to? Thanks so much for your reply. You said it was in the past. "Time heals all wounds." So, there shouldn't be any change in tightness now. She should have reached homeostasis ("normal") by now. Now it's getting a little out there. See, I don't know the exact details, but basically there are a million possibilities. Giving birth is different from having a "cunt punch" fisting session. During birth, the woman's body usually knows it coming and does some preparation to minimize trauma. Donkey punching a lubed fist into a woman is going to cause some serious damage. The amount of damage is going to come down to how prepared was she for it? And how violent was the trauma? Basically, what's your situation? Is she super loose now and you think she's cheating? If you can give me more details on your situation, I can try to give a better answer, but overall, for any kind of normal sexual contact, you shouldn't notice a difference in "tightness" or "loosness" after several hours. The vagina snaps back to homeostasis relatively quickly. As for trauma, unless it was horse-cock trauma with major damage, it should go back to normal pretty quickly. Maybe I didn't say it correctly... There may be some loosening with trauma, but we're not talking about her going from a thumb-sized hole to a watermelon cannon. It might be a millimeter or two wider once it's healed. The body always does its best to get back to that "homeostasis" level. It always tries to get back to it "normal state" as best as it can no matter what happens. Quote Share this post Link to post
Myzyri 38 Posted December 12, 2017 In the scenario described above I think it’s a safe assumption that it will not ever happen again. Indeed, if I did that to my wife, I’m pretty sure she’d never let me get near her pussy again for the brief interlude before our divorce became final... You wife is a bad sport! Whenever mine bends over naked, I lube up a pumpkin, drop it in the pumpkin cannon, and fire it right at her snatch! She loves it! Well, sometimes she's a little upset when I aim high and she gets a greasy pumpkin in the ass. Dear god, I hope you realize I'm kidding... We tried fisting once. Couldn't get in and she wasn't enjoying any aspect of it. She tried on me since I'm a superfan of prostate massages. Yeah, I can totally understand why it wasn't enjoyable for her. She didn't get in all the way either and I still didn't shit right for a week! (Two days actually.) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
sillyquestion 16 Posted December 12, 2017 You said it was in the past. "Time heals all wounds." So, there shouldn't be any change in tightness now. She should have reached homeostasis ("normal") by now. Now it's getting a little out there. See, I don't know the exact details, but basically there are a million possibilities. Giving birth is different from having a "cunt punch" fisting session. During birth, the woman's body usually knows it coming and does some preparation to minimize trauma. Donkey punching a lubed fist into a woman is going to cause some serious damage. The amount of damage is going to come down to how prepared was she for it? And how violent was the trauma? Basically, what's your situation? Is she super loose now and you think she's cheating? If you can give me more details on your situation, I can try to give a better answer, but overall, for any kind of normal sexual contact, you shouldn't notice a difference in "tightness" or "loosness" after several hours. The vagina snaps back to homeostasis relatively quickly. As for trauma, unless it was horse-cock trauma with major damage, it should go back to normal pretty quickly. Maybe I didn't say it correctly... There may be some loosening with trauma, but we're not talking about her going from a thumb-sized hole to a watermelon cannon. It might be a millimeter or two wider once it's healed. The body always does its best to get back to that "homeostasis" level. It always tries to get back to it "normal state" as best as it can no matter what happens. Well really I have two issues. Both very much in my own head. 1) Wondering whether her having sex with a larger partner twice could make her feel looser to me as compared with if I was her largest partner? Is this possible? I think you've indicated not in a previous post. 2) She was assaulted, I presume not with a horse-cock. There was no preparation for it, very much an assault. Even if it was a fairly large penis though (I don't know, am I right in saying that you would expect her to return to her previous level of tightness? You mention a millimetre or two wider, but would that necessarily have to happen? Could she not just heal back to her original state and not have it have any impact on tightness? Internally would she be looser? As far as I know there wasn't major trauma tbh. While it was obviously emotionally traumatic and there was a small amount of blood, she was seen by a doctor and no work was performed. In your opinion could this make her feel looser? Thanks Quote Share this post Link to post
Myzyri 38 Posted December 13, 2017 1) Wondering whether her having sex with a larger partner twice could make her feel looser to me as compared with if I was her largest partner? Is this possible? I think you've indicated not in a previous post. No, it's not possible. She'd be back to normal by the next day. If you went immediately after the huge guy, you might feel a difference. A few hours later or the next day, she'd be back to normal. 2) She was assaulted, I presume not with a horse-cock. There was no preparation for it, very much an assault. Even if it was a fairly large penis though (I don't know, am I right in saying that you would expect her to return to her previous level of tightness? Yes. Unless this happened in the last week or so, she'd definitely be back to normal by now. You mention a millimetre or two wider, but would that necessarily have to happen? No. It depends on how girthy and violent the assault was. But most likely, it's not going to happen from a standard rape. You'd see something like this from a violent gang bang, a perpetrator with a massive cock who was extremely aggressive, someone who was using extremely large toys and being very aggressive, etc. Assaults are usually violent, but for any damaging stretching to occur, it would have to be pretty far outside of the norm. Could she not just heal back to her original state and not have it have any impact on tightness? She probably did. Internally would she be looser? Absolutely not. The internal portions are more elastic and will return to normal faster than anything else. As far as I know there wasn't major trauma tbh. While it was obviously emotionally traumatic and there was a small amount of blood, she was seen by a doctor and no work was performed. In your opinion could this make her feel looser? Thanks Based on what you've said, no, I don't think it would. AND, even if it did, it wouldn't enough for you to even notice. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
PeterJ 948 Posted December 13, 2017 You wife is a bad sport! Whenever mine bends over naked, I lube up a pumpkin, drop it in the pumpkin cannon, and fire it right at her snatch! She loves it! Well, sometimes she's a little upset when I aim high and she gets a greasy pumpkin in the ass. Dear god, I hope you realize I'm kidding... We tried fisting once. Couldn't get in and she wasn't enjoying any aspect of it. She tried on me since I'm a superfan of prostate massages. Yeah, I can totally understand why it wasn't enjoyable for her. She didn't get in all the way either and I still didn't shit right for a week! (Two days actually.) Yes, I totally assumed you were kidding. But it was such a hyperbolic description of the act that I tried to picture in my mind’s eye how my wife would respond. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Rngr 21 Posted December 14, 2017 Going out is an entire different deal than going in so my wife says. Yeah an 8 pound baby can come out but I'd bet the house that you couldn't get it back in. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
M1F2KTJ 473 Posted December 23, 2017 I was the third for a couple. When we were all naked I noticed that he was very much bigger than me. I looked like a thumb to his arm. There was no going back. I was too horny. I wanted to fuck her. They let me go first. After seeing his cock I was surprised by how firm she was. She acted very horny by having me fucking her. The only time I feel small is after another man cums in her. She is so lubricated that I can barely feel her and I'm sure she can barely feel me. My wife has had men that were noticeably bigger than me but has never been permanently stretched. Quote Share this post Link to post
M1F2KTJ 473 Posted December 23, 2017 I was the third for a couple. When we were all naked I noticed that he was very much bigger than me. I looked like a thumb to his arm. There was no going back. I was too horny. I wanted to fuck her. They let me go first. After seeing his cock I was surprised by how firm she was. She acted very horny by having me fucking her. The only time I feel small is after another man cums in her. She is so lubricated that I can barely feel her and I'm sure she can barely feel me. My wife has had men that were noticeably bigger than me but has never been permanently stretched. Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,640 Posted December 23, 2017 ... They let me go first. After seeing his cock I was surprised by how firm she was... That's because a woman's vagina isn't like a tube, it has lots of fold, like a scrunchy, and muscles that can contract it. Take a good look next time you're down there. (I must admit that I really didn't fully understand until I started playing with other girls and licking pussy.) Quote Share this post Link to post
sillyquestion 16 Posted January 10, 2018 I was the third for a couple. When we were all naked I noticed that he was very much bigger than me. I looked like a thumb to his arm. There was no going back. I was too horny. I wanted to fuck her. They let me go first. After seeing his cock I was surprised by how firm she was. She acted very horny by having me fucking her. The only time I feel small is after another man cums in her. She is so lubricated that I can barely feel her and I'm sure she can barely feel me. My wife has had men that were noticeably bigger than me but has never been permanently stretched. That is to say that your wife's 'default' tightness for lack of a better word was exactly the same and that the noticeably larger penis didn't change her even slightly? It's as if it never happened? And when you were the third - the other woman was definitely tight despite her partner being larger? I always see the vagina compared to a rubber band and that does worry me because after being stretched beyond its previous limit every elastic band I've ever come across has been looser thereafter? This definitely isn't the case with vaginas from your experiences? Can a girl who has been with a significantly bigger guy still feel as tight as a girl for whom you are her biggest partner to date? In general, not just after swinging Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,065 Posted January 11, 2018 I once dated a woman who was afraid that she was 'too loose' (probably baggage from her ex...who knows). As a result she religiously did her kegal exercises. The first time she had an orgasm while we were having sex, it practically forced my penis out of her (insert, withdraw, orgasm, door slammed and locked). Darn near hurt myself (okay, maybe it did hurt a little) since I suddenly had no place to go. Given the option, too tight is way worse than 'too loose', but I can't recall one being 'too loose'. Quote Share this post Link to post
dan63 106 Posted January 12, 2018 That is to say that your wife's 'default' tightness for lack of a better word was exactly the same and that the noticeably larger penis didn't change her even slightly? It's as if it never happened? And when you were the third - the other woman was definitely tight despite her partner being larger? I always see the vagina compared to a rubber band and that does worry me because after being stretched beyond its previous limit every elastic band I've ever come across has been looser thereafter? This definitely isn't the case with vaginas from your experiences? Can a girl who has been with a significantly bigger guy still feel as tight as a girl for whom you are her biggest partner to date? In general, not just after swinging You know, many times I have been accused of over-thinking things, but I think you have me beat. I personally have a little bit smaller than average cock. Fortunately my wife has a very nice tight pussy (Other playmates have told me this and I agree). Since we have been in the LS she has had the opportunity of be with a few men who were definitely MUCH larger than average. I will say that when I have gone immediately after these men, yes there is some looseness, but really no more so than after her and I have had a nice long session together. As far as any long term lasting effect, absolutely NONE!! She has had two children, both of whom were C-section and she believes this definitely contributes to her continued tightness even at 52 years old. Quote Share this post Link to post
PSULioness 847 Posted January 15, 2018 I sure hope it doesn’t happen and I don’t want to worry that it might. Quote Share this post Link to post
sillyquestion 16 Posted February 8, 2018 I once dated a woman who was afraid that she was 'too loose' (probably baggage from her ex...who knows). As a result she religiously did her kegal exercises. The first time she had an orgasm while we were having sex, it practically forced my penis out of her (insert, withdraw, orgasm, door slammed and locked). Darn near hurt myself (okay, maybe it did hurt a little) since I suddenly had no place to go. Given the option, too tight is way worse than 'too loose', but I can't recall one being 'too loose'. Prior to the orgasm, when you were just having sex with her - was she tight? Her default tightness so to speak - did she only tighten up during the orgasm or was she nice and tight throughout? Did she feel loose at all? Quote Share this post Link to post
ErikaAndPeter 104 Posted February 8, 2018 I have had bigger men, had bigger dildos, and given birth. I have always tightened up again. The only difference is that, after being repeatedly exposed to bigger men, my vagina can easily accommodate them without discomfort. Quote Share this post Link to post
FunOzCouple 40 Posted June 16, 2018 Hubby's commented on a number of occasions when i've been with a partner whose been 'carrying' and hubby has gone in straight after that its definitely a bit loose compared to usual. Usually happens when the larger of the two (ie our swing partner) has had their way with me for an hour or so thats when the looseness come into play. Quote Share this post Link to post
Numex 2,416 Posted January 5, 2021 The tightness of a woman's vagina isn't affected by the size of the dicks she's usually taking. It's just is the way it is. But it also doesn't matter. The wife of one of the couples with whom we play has a very loose pussy. Especially when I go sloppy seconds with her, it is an immense struggle for me to orgasm because there's no friction. I must work hard, but love it. Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,065 Posted January 6, 2021 If a woman's vagina could be permanently stretched out, most women would never have a second child. ? 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
discreetplay 235 Posted January 6, 2021 My experience is this - as a woman has a lot of sex she tends to loosen up. This happens because a a couple factors (1) when a woman becomes aroused, her vagina loosens up in anticipation of penetration and (2) as a woman gets aroused and cums, she gets very wet. That lubrication makes penetration easier, and friction is less, making it feel looser. The only thing I've seen that causes any permanent looseness (is that a word?) is having kids. I've been with a handful of women pre-kids and post-kids. Vaginal delivery does make a vagina looser than it was prior to having kids. With that said, so what? do her from behind with her legs together. Put her legs in the air and together. I've never heard a man complain that the vagina he is sliding in and out of is too loose, too this or too that. Non-psychotic guys love being inside a woman regardless. I had an ex that would get so wet we needed to put a towel down. Between her cum, my cum, my saliva...sloppy wet. Why would anyone complain about that?? I think I should text her. Quote Share this post Link to post
twohots4u2 188 Posted January 7, 2021 (edited) In all my years of swinging and sex, I only met one gal whose pussy seemed loose, but that was only on the second or third session of the evening, and also when her pussy was full of my cum. One gal who was my swing buddy for 11 years always snapped back in seconds after bring fucked by a very big cock, as can be seen in the before and after photos below. Edited January 7, 2021 by twohots4u2 1 Quote Share this post Link to post