Birthday Play?

[MixxedCpl360 29]

My birthday is coming up on NYE and more than likely we won't be celebrating it with any lifestyle events. So that got me thinking...Do any of you make it a point to play or seek a play situation on either's birthday to celebrate?

[adamgunn 1,460]

Once, on my wife's birthday I got a couple that we were regulars with to meet us at a Dave & Buster's for games, then they went home with us for more games.

 

It wasn't a regular thing, but she really appreciated that particular birthday present.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

We had a playmate that we celebrated our wedding anniversary with(July). I would take off my wedding ring and lay it on the nightstand. She would put in on his finger as he waited above her before.

[MixxedCpl360 29]

Well almost had play time on my bday. My wife made surprise plans to have our first play session with a couple we have been talking with for quite a while now and almost played with a couple months ago. But Murphy's Law is alive and well and my wife got sick with something the day before and cancelled the plans. Apparently they came to our town anyway and hooked up with another couple for play. When she told me of the cancelled surprised it was like the air filled up and was knocked out in the same instant. Once again very close to our first play session only to see something get in the way. I am definitely not holding my breath on a play session anytime soon cuz if luck would have it something will come up to spoil it. This is the 3rd planned/attempted play session that never happened. This is so frustrating.

[Fi86 78]

I don't normally plan a LS event of any sort as my birthdays are generally low key. But I always make sure I have sex on my birthday, usually with a friend or a friend's husband staying the night with me.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

...but just think how special it will be once it happens.

[MixxedCpl360 29]

...but just think how special it will be once it happens.

You might be right but the ways things have been going I'll be doubting it all the way waiting for the other shoe to drop lol. Not until the panties drop will I allow myself to get my hopes up. I definitely have the "if we do we do if we don't we don't" attitude. But of course I want it to happen.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

Yep, you'll be doubting it right up to that moment when you start thinking 'OMG, it might just happen!' Then it will be 'it's happening, it's really happening' followed by 'it happened!' and finally 'did that really happen?'. Don't worry so much about it. As long as you are both on the same page, it will happen. Trying to force it will just help things go sideways. Just let it happen naturally and it will happen...

[Guest]

We both treat birthdays as very special days. Hubby knows I enjoy MFM a great deal so he has taken me places where we get a room and indulge. Correspondingly, I tend to dress very sexually for him when we go out on his birthday, give him what has become our traditional birthday blow job (BBJ), which may occur in the car in a parking lot or in a park or whatever.

[luvin eye full 140]

some times i think we as a group tend to make everything we do about swinging - for me i do not want to go out swinging on a spiel day - those are for us -

i'd rather be with my family celebrating the b/day and so would my wife - swinging is not what runs us - its just something we have a hobby in.

[mphil17 35]

some times i think we as a group tend to make everything we do about swinging - for me i do not want to go out swinging on a spiel day - those are for us -

i'd rather be with my family celebrating the b/day and so would my wife - swinging is not what runs us - its just something we have a hobby in.

 

:applause:

[lcmim 1,082]

"swinging on a spiel day" -

 

Typo or yiddish?

[magnum 78]

Being a single male that plays with a couple regularly, I have been asked by them to come play on his birthday...

[luvin eye full 140]

"swinging on a spiel day" -

 

Typo or yiddish?

 

Typo lol