njbm 2,878 Posted December 25, 2017 We are hosting two other couples at our home soon. One couple is full swap. We’ve played with them a few times and we have a comfortable rapport. The other couple we believe is soft swap. We’ve had dinner with them, but never played. They have played with the other couple, our full swap friends. How do we approach this? I wouldn’t mind playing with the two guest women and having my wife play with the two guest men, then rotate. Or should we just let it fly? The women would all play bi. Ideas? Quote Share this post Link to post
Numex 2,420 Posted December 26, 2017 Break the ice by making an alternating MF circle for oral stimulation. Keep changing the order so each combination is achieved. There is probably a formula for calculating the number of possibilities, but I don't know it. Go further and make some sort of ranking game. Or when someone orgasms they do something else. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
lnw 145 Posted December 26, 2017 Sit in a circle starting with Husband 1 (H1). Next to him is Wife 2 (W2) Next to W2 is H3 Next to H3 is W1 Next to W1 is H2 Next to H2 is W3 Essentially, the husband is sitting direct opposite of the wife Now you can begin alternate fun with someone on either side of you without being with your spouse. Can be as soft or full as you want. And switch up from the person to your right to the person to your left. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
EastInWest 1,524 Posted December 29, 2017 Now you can begin alternate fun with someone on either side of you without being with your spouse. Can be as soft or full as you want. And switch up from the person to your right to the person to your left. This is a great idea, too bad we didn't have it when we had six ready to go! I found that having two mattresses in the same room was a huge help. If 1, 2, or 3 people need to break off, they have somewhere to get some space but still be with the group. Quote Share this post Link to post
Numex 2,420 Posted December 29, 2017 You can also break into two threesomes, one MFM, one FMF. Then start rotating out who is the single M or F. Should be fun. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Love2play 21 Posted January 8, 2018 Glad I came across this, first sixsome happening this Friday night 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
njbm 2,878 Posted January 8, 2018 True to swinger protocol, one of the couples cancelled. The couple we know better attended and a good time was had by all. We will keep these tips in our bag of tricks. Thanks! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
padoc 1,703 Posted January 8, 2018 We were at the opening night of a brand new swingers club. It was a bit stilted and no one was quite sure how to get the ball rolling. We knew three of the couples and Mrs Doc (bless her libido) was impatient to get the party started. She had the four guys squeeze side by side on a sofa and lined the ladies up on their knees in front of their men. at her signal, the girls began going down on their husbands. After a bit, Mrs Doc said "switch" and each woman moved down the line. She called it 4 more times before one of the guys came (wasn't me…I was 2nd. By the time everyone got off, we had an audience and the party went on from there. Im not sure there is an exact protocol but sometimes an ice breaker is necessary. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
Chris&Suzanne 204 Posted January 8, 2018 My parents and most of our neighbors always had house parties (this was in the 50s just out of WWII . Not much money as they had all just bought houses) My friend was staying at my house and all the parents were having a party. I guess they thought we were asleep but looking through a crack in the door we saw them playing Under The Blanket As close as were could figure on women would go under a blanket and the rest of the group decided what clothing she had to hand out before she could come out from under the blanket. Of course it was always panties, until the women figured that out and just remove their paties first. So the group would switch and decide on skirt (or other piece of clothes) so the woman would haand out panies first, then bra, then top, which only left the skirt for last. Many of them ended up naked or nearly so. They were very young 20s low 30s We never saw them swing ot even kiss the other couples, but I am sure there was a lot we missed. Quote Share this post Link to post
Jane1902 476 Posted January 12, 2018 Somehow how I started thinking celebrity pairings and I came up with this: Barak giving it to Melania, Donald and Hillary, and that leaves Michelle and Bill, perfect. Role play the pillow talk and tweets following that one. Quote Share this post Link to post
njbm 2,878 Posted January 14, 2018 Interesting matchups. I think two couples would have fun, but not Donald and Hillary. Quote Share this post Link to post
PSULioness 857 Posted January 15, 2018 I see it never happened so you still have that to look forward to. It can be exciting thinking of the possibilities though I think plans never work out the way it is planned. The plan when it happens is to let it happen. It’s better to be spontaneous. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
njbm 2,878 Posted January 15, 2018 Whatever we think is going to happen is not what happens. One of our mottos in the LS. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post