"My Introduction" to Swinging Story...

[Eddiem 139]

This can be a long story so I will try to keep it short enough. I thought I would tell of my intro to swinging and what this has done to me. The good, the bad, the ugly (Sorry Clint). The reality is there is no ugly or bad. An old friend of mine, very conservative and his wife, even more so started in the LS perhaps 7 years ago. I was introduced to this by my friend (husband) after we met for drinks while I was in town. We ended up as "ex- athletes" drank more than a few cocktails when he told me he had something on his heart. He then dropped the LS bomb on me. Never more was I more curious as to why, when, what etc... all the details including his feelings, emotions etc... when his wife was with someone else.

 

He did a great job of explaining the "rules" and how the ladies have full control, you need to protect yourself, etc... The stories he told not only intrigued me but helped me understand what I and my wife were missing. However I needed to take this very carefully as he warned not everyone understands. The reality is he lived in a more than 9-5 household with adult children, work long hours and have little intimacy if at all. They met a couple at a party whom introduced them to the LS and after a few dinners, drinks etc... they tried the same room, same bed swap. It went wonderfully.

 

Well after hearing all the details I retired to my hotel room and could not sleep a wink. I thought about each detail, picturing them in it and of course everything we as a couple may be missing.

 

Well it went about 3 months and I sat down with my wife and told her that I had something really deep to tell her. We opened a bottle of wine (followed by some rum after my courage dropped) and told her. She was shocked but also understood to an extent why they were doing it. She wanted details so I relived it again. Well she could not sleep either and we ended up having some great sex that nite :-) So it was helping us already as we were suffering from much of the same my friend was.

 

Well about 1 year later we met up with our friends and we ended up discussing why the LS and what it means to them... well we all shared common stories of bored sex lives, about not thinking about the other person being pleasured (all about them) etc... The takeaway was that we were more open to hearing and talking about our own sexuality.

 

That being said... after she (wife) heard from our friend´s wife why... my wife´s mind opened enough. A few months after we took a sex test one of those online things... and one of her fantasies was to visit a sex club. Well I told my friend and he invited us to a party that they were attending. We agreed we would not push each other into any sexual acts (between friends) but to see, get the vibe etc... from others. The party was interesting, nice people but went a bit quick for me. These couples all knew each other and most were a bit older than us. The guys were lining up to flirt with my wife. Nothing happened but we kept the spark going for the LS.

 

A few months later we got the guts to visit a sex club. I have written about that "bad experience" already so no need to re-post. That being said we then attended another out of town party when on travel. Our friends set it up, we had a great dinner with some nice people and well my wife ended totally getting into her role as a true sexual animal. For me... I loved it. Having sex with just anyone is less interesting than if the sparks are flying and things are just right. More importantly watching her take her guard down, dressing sexy, having a line men in line for her. She loved the attention and I loved the fact she was getting it. It took her a while to understand that I was ok with it and still loved her and cared. It was not about me... about her.

 

Well our party experience was amazing. The emotions, the atmosphere and the people were ... well awesome and hard to explain. The crossing point for me was when we finally agreed to do something with someone. I basically backed off, she was being ravaged by a man (perfectly her style). He was a true gentleman. Just the sight of her taking his cock and it entering her as she screamed with ecstacy was amazing. I felt heart broken but more in love than ever before. When he finally pulled out, she ripped off his condom and he shot load after load onto her stomach and she surprisingly pulled on his cock and instinctively started licking it. It was very erotic. Just when it felt the night was over it just started. I had received what I was looking for and my wife asked if she could go off and check out the other room. (we agreed to only play in the same room). I said yes and I would join her in a bit. I did and she was waiting for me to say ok when she took another guy while having one in her mouth. Amazing... I joined in and TBH was awesome.

 

Ever since we have been more open, not 100% active in the LS yet... but have loved every minute of it.