Starting at the Beginning is a good place to start

[NoAngels 334]

How we got here is a strange way. I want to thank our first couple for telling us about this forum. We are totally new to swinging not to playing around. My cheating and getting caught led to her own affairs. We finally decided to sort of cheat together. We did some googling about swing clubs. Neither of us wanted that. We found some swinger sites. My wife had been on cheating sites before. I never did dating sites. She registered on a few sites that had good reviews. I let her do the searching. She wrote a few couples and answered ads. We got scammed a few times. She had a problem with finding fakes. We met a few couples that seemed sketchy and we passed. We made dates where only the guy showed up. We stopped making hotel reservations because we always felt nothing was going to happen. My wife even suggested meeting one of her guy friends. I wasn’t into that. After all the disappointments we finally met a real couple. We met them for drinks and told them our story. They told us how they started. We joked about the fakes we both found. They told us about their first time. We laughed plenty. They were ready to do it. I had to make sure my wife wanted to. They invited us to their home. I suggested a hotel. I said I would pay.

I don’t know how much to say on here. It was fine and fun. It was also strange to see my wife doing things. The couple knew to take things slow and made sure we didn’t feel too odd. The biggest turn on was watching my wife play with a woman a little. It was a first for her. She didn’t do that much herself it was more the other wife.

If they are reading this, thanks.

[SAMnTINA 362]

It's not about cheating it's about sharing. You need to make sure you work out your issues before you involve others.

[NoAngels 334]

We know this is not cheating. We have worked that out. My wife never cheated. She had sex with others with my full knowledge. You might say I encouraged her to go out when I was on the road for business. Honestly I worried who she was meeting more than that she was meeting men. Her experiences led to new things in our bed.

[Numex 2,420]

Yeah, when you're both in it together it's no stress and a lot of fun.