Odd but relevant questions...

[CheapAndEasy 16]

Hi there. The Mrs and I are neither experienced nor novices but we are new here. After a few play sessions recently, I noticed one or two things that made me question a few things I do subconsciously. So a few questions....

 

We're a single male friendly couple so we do occasionally have MFM's. Are other straight men comfortable doing oral on women after another man has been there, with his mouth or cock?

 

I've noticed that a number of men will circumvent oral on the Mrs if I have already been down there. I assume this is because of some homophobic fears, either of my saliva or my cock. What has been your experience with this? Do you allow your play partners to partake first?

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

I see that this is your first forum post so I want to say, "WELCOME to Swingersboard". None of the men in the social groups with which my wife and I circulate seem, under any circumstance, to be reluctant to do oral sex on a female. It does seem odd that you have noticed this reluctance. My only guess would be that you are maybe dealing with a younger, less-experienced set of men.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

I've never noticed any hesitations on just giving a woman oral sex after someone else has done the same for her, or even after she's been penetrated by someone else, but I think there is a lot of "it depends" involved too. Giving a woman oral simultaneous with penetration or after he's cum in her if it's bareback sex, i.e. creampie, then I think that's a bridge too far for many guys.

 

On all the scenarios, I suspect it's a subjective mental thing on how much "separation" there is between the male and female. If her pussy had a cock in it 10 minutes ago, then not a problem. If he just pulled out two seconds ago, then problem. Where that line gets drawn, if at all, just depends on the individual and their preferences.

[padoc 1,703]

Other than the creampie scenario, we've never experienced a man avoiding oral with Mrs Doc whether I or someone else had been there or not. I'm not interested in licking someone's cum from her. That IS a line on the sheets for me.

[adamgunn 1,460]

My wife and I had many MFM threesomes, I can't say as I ever noticed the other guy being reluctant after I'd been there. But often I didn't come, so they didn't care. About the best answer I can give you . . .

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

I've never noticed any hesitations on just giving a woman oral sex after someone else has done the same for her, or even after she's been penetrated by someone else, but I think there is a lot of "it depends" involved too. Giving a woman oral simultaneous with penetration or after he's cum in her if it's bareback sex, i.e. creampie, then I think that's a bridge too far for many guys.

 

On all the scenarios, I suspect it's a subjective mental thing on how much "separation" there is between the male and female. If her pussy had a cock in it 10 minutes ago, then not a problem. If he just pulled out two seconds ago, then problem. Where that line gets drawn, if at all, just depends on the individual and their preferences.

 

What he said. I was actually having a similar conversation with the guy I'm seeing recently. We kissed after I'd been sucking on his cock and he asked if guys tend to have an issue with that. I can't really recall situation where they have. That said, I later went to kiss him after I'd swallowed his cum and he seemed a little more reticent. So, I definitely think there's at least a subconscious line for guys when it comes to that.