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B&H    23

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Well, the longest week in a long time is almost over. Headed out for our first experience tomorrow night. We are both nervous as hell. Wish us luck...

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GoldCoCouple    4,065

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Breathe and enjoy whatever happens...and it might just be nothing more than a night out with your SO and an evening of talk (but it could be more, you don't know at this point). If you go into it thinking that it's just a fun night out, then everything else is bonus. Make sure you both know your rules and limits and don't exceed them and just enjoy yourselves...and then report everything back to us. Best wishes!

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What kind of experience are you expecting. Ours was an MFM. We had met the couple at a resort and gotten to know them. Later, they asked us to meet them and swing, but we had really never thought about it. Now, the male part of the couple was going to be in town for business so we decided to meet him for drinks. Ended up in MFM. Loved it.

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B&H    23

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We are following the model outlined by GoldCoCouple above. Night out, drinks, talk, observe, play together. Anything else is icing on the cake.

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B&H    23

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She asked me if I bought condoms. I’m thinking her nerves are disappearing...

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cplnuswing    4,713

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From your post above about your plans, you've got it figured out and are taking the right approach :fblike:

 

Have fun!!

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B&H    23

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We just did a final rule check. All good. Ready for takeoff. Still nervous.

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Baconheads    431

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We just did a final rule check. All good. Ready for takeoff. Still nervous.

 

So what are (or were) your rules?

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Well, I am going to have to say we were a bit disappointed. The facility and staff were nice and professional. But, finding people to talk with was not so easy. We found one great couple to talk to, but they were there more for the BDSM room. Factor in what seemed like a higher proportion of older, single, males who hovered, and we were underwhelmed. Kinda looking for some guidance here. Thanks.

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SW_PA_Couple    4,024

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Regret to read that your trip to the Body Shop was disappointing. I do remember the place as being BDSM-friendly. I guess they have not instituted rules about single men like some clubs have. Are you aware of the other clubs in the area — Party at Scouts and DJ’s Island? Party at Scouts has the younger crowd, has areas where you can escape the loud dance music, but is also inhabited by hovering men. DJ’s has the most effective single-male control. My other impression of DJ’s: they make a token attempt at clearing out cigarette smoke but it’s not entirely effective.

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GoldCoCouple    4,065

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Sorry to hear that it was less than perfect, but don't give up. It can take a bit of time to find what you are looking for, but it's awesome once you find it. Hope your next outing is much better.

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I guess the Body Shop came into existence after we left Pa for Florida. Try DJ's, we never had a bad time there. If you go east a bit, TJ's near Harrisburg was our 1st club and some of our first swinging experiences. A bit further is The Private Affair (TPA). People there are very friendly and the club is a blast. We actually skipped the Trapeze NYE party in FLL to fly up to PA for TPA's NY Eve. Mrs Doc was still picking confetti off her boobs next morning at the hotel.

 

Our initial rule was that as we progressed, we try everything TWICE!! That included all of the above mentioned clubs and led us to a lot of fun experiences. Don't give up because the first experience wasn't stellar. Part of the fun of this hobby is the journey.

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Well, I am going to have to say we were a bit disappointed. The facility and staff were nice and professional. But, finding people to talk with was not so easy. We found one great couple to talk to, but they were there more for the BDSM room. Factor in what seemed like a higher proportion of older, single, males who hovered, and we were underwhelmed. Kinda looking for some guidance here. Thanks.

 

We had a similar experience at Trapeze in Atlanta, but we weren't really that disappointed overall. We danced, we talked, and we had a great time in the back with each other. The disappointing or surprising part was how most of the couples weren't really talking to each other. I think that had to do with those singles standing all over the place hoping to get lucky or listening in. Respectful, yes -- but they certainly changed the dynamic.

 

We are going to go back on a couples-only night.

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