Do you think about the cocks

[New2itall 16]

For the guys. When there's more than one cock do you look at other cocks and would it bother you if say 2 of the 3 cocks are bigger? Seeing your wife get fucked by a much bigger cock than you?

[MadlyInLuv 94]

For the guys. When there's more than one cock do you look at other cocks and would it bother you if say 2 of the 3 cocks are bigger? Seeing your wife get fucked by a much bigger cock than you?

 

We haven't crossed this bridge yet, but I can tell you that my wife has had all sizes prior to marrying me 20 years ago. One of her previous boyfriends was very big.

 

Bottom line: there is a whole lot more to attraction and pairing up (mating) than size of the unit. Most women look at the big picture and how all the elements add up from personality to humor to body and everything in between.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

The only thing I'm looking at is if she is happy and having fun and enjoying herself. If she is achieving all of those things with a guy who has a big cock, then great. Same goes for guy with average size cock, same goes with guy with small cock, etc. It's not just about the cock, it's about the whole package and the experience.

[ErikaAndPeter 104]

My husband is averaged sized (although a little above average for an Indian guy), so approximately half of all men are better endowed than him. It does not seem to bother him in the least when I enjoy a bigger cock than his. In fact, he encouraged me to try much bigger men, and even helped me "prepare"by using BBC dildos on me.

[4iscompany2us 25]

For us it isn't about size. That is one of the last things my wife looks at when perusing profiles. In fact she relishes the mystery. I have the good fortune of being a member of the 8" club so she actually prefers something smaller for some fun. Our last boyfriend was barely 6" but he had the most awesome upward curve to his erect penis. He could give her g-spot a working over that made me wonder at times if any hotel guests would call the police. She always had to have an absorbent pad underneath when fucking him because she would squirt pools of female cum with him. At first I was a bit intimidated but eventually fell into the comfort zone enjoying the fact that she could find this pleasure in her life. Happy wife, Happy life

[luvin eye full 140]

I think when some one see's some porn and the reactions to big cock from the girls ( and if you do not have one lol )

Your outlook is wow the big cock is the be all and end all - and for a very small amount of girls it is -

 

Now here is the catch in swinging couples there is love and attachment - so this will over ride every thing.

My point is this - i have seen big fellows go soft when they have heard myself and there wife playing and i'm only half a foot long. ( he was way bigger ) Also the other thing is about reactions of girls when getting it from the big guy -

 

i see this all the time on nearly every site - and it just amazes me that some one can say wow i never seen my wife / Gf ( or what ever pairing your in ) do that or this ( normally a lust thing ) - What Really - Your SO has never shown you this side and you say you have a good relationship and great communication. ?

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Now there is a difference to love making and sex for fun sure but have you not done both? with your SO.

Sure she may yell out holly fuck that's big lol and yes she feels it more or what ever - but surly the lust of it is the same as for her own husband?

 

lastly i have seen my wife with bigger guys and go off on them - but i have never been surprised at her reactions because she has the same with me - even if the feeling is different remember this the mind is bigger then dick

[agreatguy 269]

For the guys. When there's more than one cock do you look at other cocks and would it bother you if say 2 of the 3 cocks are bigger? Seeing your wife get fucked by a much bigger cock than you?

 

I'm slightly above "average". Never really had any hangups about my size. It is what it is and I can't do anything about my size. Can I?LOL. What I can do is keep trying to improve my skills.

 

We recently had our first full swap at a club. The guy had a bigger cock than me and I heard my wife say several times that he had a big cock when she was blowing him and she just about begged him to put that big cock in her while he was eating her pussy. I thought it was hot. If a big cock turns her on then it turns me on. The guy had skills too and he was aggressive the way she likes so she got fucked good. I liked knowing she was enjoying it and hearing her tell him to give her that big cock and fuck her harder. She came several times for him and even commented on his size afterward when we checked in. It came down to she was hot for him that night and had a great time. That's what it's all about and we do this for the variety right?

 

I fucked the guys wife. She was decent but honestly my wife is a better, more passionate and active fuck. I'd swap with them again just so my wife could have that guys cock if she wanted it.

 

She and I fucked at the end of the night and she made a point to tell me she like feeling my bare cock filling her with my cum best. I know that is the truth. If we met that couple out at the club next time and she wanted to fuck him again I'd be fine with it. Hell, I might go run him down for her. My wife has a nice tight pussy and some really good head skills. My wife is always picking out the hottest looking women in the club and asking me if I'd like to fuck her so she's not insecure about it either. If I found a gal that competed with her skills or looks, yeah, I'd be pursuing her as well but will always go home with my wife.

[JandKinBoise 859]

I always paid close attention to the invited guy's cock. Size was never a concern for us but erections were. We had to modify our approach several times until we found how to avoid stressing a guy out. Moving too fast was always our problem. My wife enjoyed walking into a room, shedding her dress(her only piece of clothing)and hopping on the bed. Wet and ready. A little intimidating for a guy who is trying to remember what she said her name was.

[adamgunn 1,461]

My wife always said it wasn't the size, it was what he could do with it. So, no matter what size the guy was, I figured she'd find a way to have fun. And she did, almost every time!

[AngelandTiger 364]

I'm a bit above average, but honestly, it's just up to what Angel is into. We have friends with slightly smaller, slightly bigger, and one with a truly, astoundingly massive cock. Sometimes she just says to me, "I need X's monster". I LOVE watching him impale her on that thing, and according to him she's the only one who can take him down to the balls. She has no Idea how she does it...the first time she was terrified, but then got so turned on she was bouncing on him screaming "take me down!". She's totally gone when she fucks, and most often has no recollection of what happened after she became mightily turned on, so I'm always there in room for her protection. Seeing her take a giant cock is an incredible turnon for me as well, but she's not always up for it.

 

It really does depend on her, but I can tell you that there is no hotter thing for me than to watch her being penetrated. After that, I LOVE to watch a man take her down HARD.

 

 

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[NoAngels 351]

I think it is normal to notice other men. I have only watched her with one man and he was an average size. At a recent party I noticed one guy who was way bigger. My wife didn’t play with him. I don’t if I was glad or not

[NoAngels 351]

After answering this post before, it made me more aware for the next time. Over the weekend we got an unexpected invite, just us and two other couples. The invite came from the original couple we met. The other couple was at the party we went to last week. I had a good time with her, my wife was not with him. My first thought was I was happy she wasn’t. He is younger and I didn’t care for his way. Our hosts agreed they thought the same thing when they met him. They assured us he wasn’t that bad when you get to know him. They told us that they were the firsts for them and they swore they would never meet them again. They have. It was a rainy weekend so we agreed to have fun.

About his size, I have seen plenty of men, flaccid in locker rooms. I notice but don’t think anything. This is the first time I saw one that size hard and my wife was going to have it. It was funny at first.

[Eddiem 139]

I think us guys are more concerned with cock size than the ladies are. Of course they would like to try a different cock perhaps bigger than yours but we also like variety in them. That being said... I personally like seeing the journey the other guys cock is about to take (into my wife) and yes from time to time the cock is perhaps 2-3 inches bigger and thicker than mine and she really enjoys it. She has never (to my knowledge) had an enormous cock (10+) but she has "fantasized" about one that big. Fair enough... I often think more about the amount of cum a guy has. We normally play "covered up" but from time to time bareback. Ok that aside...some guys fill up the condom like a water balloon.

[NoAngels 351]

I think you are right that guys are more concerned. My wife and I have had an open marriage for a few years. Until recently we didn’t discuss our friends. It’s so much better since we have. I wondered more than worried about the size of her men. I am average I think. I watched her with this big one. I thought it was too big for her. I realized his size when she started sucking him. I even thought it hurt when he entered her. I then saw it didn’t. After we talked and she said she had been with bigger. I never knew.

[NWAtlSwing 526]

At 5'1" there is only so much depth to her. She can take two in her at once. Personally, I think men are much more into size. It is a primate thing. Chimps will test each other out.

[Shore2Please 613]

My husband has made comments about other men's size. Of course it is something you notice if a man is large. Women notice too, not meaning it is something I want to play with.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

I love and crave my wife to experience bigger cocks than mine.

[Ngafuntimes 23]

If I want tight pussy why should she not want a big cock? Since I love to watch her getting hammered really hard, the way she likes to be fucked, a bigger cock just adds to the show.

[Eddiem 139]

If I want tight pussy why should she not want a big cock? Since I love to watch her getting hammered really hard, the way she likes to be fucked, a bigger cock just adds to the show.

 

 

You are so right. The show when I can catch a fleeting glimpse is quite impressive with some well shaved guy with a large cock teases then enters the SO, her eyes roll and while it appears uncomfie at first she quickly takes it all and writhes in enjoyment - quite obviously as her hips gyrate and move toward his body.

 

One guy I recall was fucking her next near me and I was most amazed at when he actually pulled out and came (1/2 liter) LOL...

[older couple 132]

Swinging with my wife for 42 years after 46 years of marriage, I like watching my wife enjoying herself. The only thing I worry about when she takes a massive cock is he going to hurt her? She confesses that some have hurt like hell at first, but over years and lots of practice, she has learned how to relax her vagina and let it stretch. Then she has the fun of her life. She says to me the size doesn't matter to her. It is what he can do with his equipment and how often he brings her to orgasm, leaving her very well satisfied. So, I don't worry about the size of a man's cock.

[padoc 1,704]

When Mrs Doc addresses a newbies concerns about a nude beach she says, "there's always someone older, shorter, fatter than you, there is also someone younger, thinner with bigger boobs." That's how I feel about cocks. At a club or a party, there are always some bigger than mine and some smaller too. We had an early experience at Trapeze where we met a very attractive couple. When we went back to play, she discovered that his dick was less than 3 inches long soft and didn't get any bigger when erect. That was a night where I had a waaaaay better time than she did. She has since asked me to try to avoid "stubbies". She also prefers less than 10 inches, any more and it hurts. Fortunately, her preferences fall within the normal range so I have thankfully not had to become the penis inspector in our marriage.

[PlowMyGirl 31]

We will only have threesomes with people that have much bigger cocks than me, my gf doesn't see the point otherwise. And yes, I look at them all the time. Sometimes I cum during sex solely from looking at a huge hard dick. One time I gave a hand job.

[Sophy 571]

Personally penis size has never been a big concern to me, however my husband loves watching me perform with guys that have big penis, for him is a big turn on. I always play along and "explicitly express" how they feel and fit inside me at the moment.

[MikeyP 17]

I like watching my gf take big penis too because her pussy is so tight. Thinks about kissing or anal with a guy disgusts me, but looking at a big hard penis by it self turns me on. I came one time just from watching the other dude cum. My gf was giving me head while having sex and he pulled out and came a bunch on her boobs and stomach. I came right after from looking at his penis and seeing all his jizz dripping off.

[MadlyInLuv 94]

I find that, more often than not, the men are much more focused on sizes than the women.

 

Likewise I've figured out that people hold their own bodies to a much higher standard than any potential partners. In other words -- we've met some muscular and fit people. We are fit enough, but we aren't gym junkies. None of the muscular types held us to the standard they were holding their own bodies. We are still new at this and most of it so far has just been meeting people, but they are clearly less concerned about us than they are about themselves. The men are WAY more concerned with penis size than the women even though it's not going to affect them. :p

[NoAngels 351]

I sort of wish she finds a guy smaller than me. I know it’s been said we guys think more about the size of the other guys more than the women do. I know I am average. Doesn’t mean I don’t have size envy. I don’t want my wife hurt. I am pretty sure she isn’t going to be stretched out permanently.

[Cheetah 85]

I love big cocks in my pussy, and a real BBC from behind as he pulls my hair, but small cocks for anal sex at least the first cock. After a small cock cums in my ass, my husband can take a turn since he is pretty big.

[jnrswinger 62]

You are so right. The show when I can catch a fleeting glimpse is quite impressive with some well shaved guy with a large cock teases then enters the SO, her eyes roll and while it appears uncomfie at first she quickly takes it all and writhes in enjoyment - quite obviously as her hips gyrate and move toward his body.

 

One guy I recall was fucking her next near me and I was most amazed at when he actually pulled out and came (1/2 liter) LOL...

 

Oh, please!! No human can cum half a liter that's a huge exaggeration!! That's just over a US pint!! You would be hard pressed to piss that much. (Trust me, I know all about bladder size and workings having had green light laser prostate surgery and my urologist and I have had several conversations about the subject of ejaculation since the surgery can result in retrograde ejaculation - it goes the wrong way into the bladder - no big deal compared the alternative.) According to the WHO the average human ejaculation is about 3 ml- just under 2/3 of a teaspoon. Hyperspermia - exceptionally large ejaculations - is defined as anything over 5.5 ml or just over a teaspoon. Men and circumstances differ but the total range can be up to 10 ml or 2 teaspoons. It may look a lot spread all over someone but collected together it's not. A pint/half a liter is just not physically possible - not even close.

[NoAngels 351]

 

10cc or a Lovin’ Spoonful?

[Funcouplecolora 19]

Both guys of the couples we have been with were the sane size as me. 7”. Would love to watch my wife take something biger.

[EastInWest 1,524]

Men and circumstances differ but the total range can be up to 10 ml or 2 teaspoons. It may look a lot spread all over someone but collected together it's not. A pint/half a liter is just not physically possible - not even close.

 

Texture/consistency and where the cum is going has a lot to do with how this "looks". I tend to shoot two or three ropes and, possibly in part because of diet, they're very sticky and thicker than paint. Our regular play partner, on the other hand, tends to spray a fairly, let's call it a watery load.

 

The first time we tried swapping, Mrs. E hadn't had anyone else in her mouth in almost ten years. She was so used to the way I came that it caught her by surprise and almost all spilled out of her mouth. That definitely made it "look" like a huge load, when it was just very wet. On the other hand, the sticky stuff is a lot more visible on the body/face.

[machiavel55 81]

You see, New2itall posted that question because for a lot of men, the presence of bigger cocks can be unsettling, but in the case of your husband, because of your lifestyle choices as a couple( and it's great that we all can choose what we prefer), it is actually very exciting.

[skyguy6977 88]

I am a small person and I told sky a long time ago I love all cocks large and small. He loves watching me and recording the moment and joining after. I am not very fond of large cocks for anal sex, but I will try. deb.