Does 60 go into 30?

[njbm 2,871]

A 30 year old couple contacted us on SLS. We are 60. Maybe they are just toying with us, but would you meet them? My wife has a concern with me playing with women of childbearing years. I am not fixed and while 100% condom compliant, I have had condom malfunctions.

 

I would meet, but the young couple may run for the exits.

[KuriousKitty101 20]

Hi there!

 

I definitely understand the concern! However, speaking as an almost-30 pair, we wouldn't rule out 60 year olds! Age is a number; if the physical and intellectual attraction is there, I couldn't care less what the birth certificate says! Hell, I've seen 50's, 60's, 70's in better physical shape than 21 year olds! (I - female half - actually have a shy crush on good looking silver foxes, and would welcome the opportunity to explore it!).

 

If you're concerned that they might be playing a cruel game, maybe you could test the waters by sending them a message prior to meeting. Perhaps comment about how you were flattered that they reached out, and would they like to exchange more revealing photos before meeting? It at least would give you some more information and a chance to gauge the situation.

 

On the other hand, I also totally understand your wife's concern! If you both are willing to even ENTERTAIN this couple, maybe discuss not doing full-swap with the Other Lady. On the other-other hand, I feel like a lot of swinger women (myself included) use a hormonal birth control back-up (IUD, the Pill) in addition to condoms for precisely that reason. Depends what you're ultimately willing to risk, and how much you trust the Other Woman to protect herself in case the condom fails.

 

Let us know what you decide to do!

[adamgunn 1,460]

They started the conversation, right? They know how old you are, right? Keep it moving forward, try for a coffee or drink date. If they turn you down after meeting you (or vice versa) what have you lost?

[lnw 145]

We are leary of much younger couples. Have had a couple of occassions now where they are all eager to meet and then ghost at the last minute. So we do not waste time with a couple that has a gap in age ranges.

[cplnluv1 872]

I could understand 60 contacting 30. On the side some men enjoy a cougar and women who enjoy a daddy.

[njbm 2,871]

Haven’t heard back after an initial flourish. Assume it went aground before meeting.

[Travelcpl 20]

A couple in their early 30s contacted us (56/61). They just happened to live in the same smallish city as one of our children (their age too), two states away. So we thanked them and explained that we had relatives there and didn't want problems. In retrospect we started thinking the whole thing was odd. Then again we've swapped with a (37/42) couple a few times and that was great.

[Shore2Please 611]

Someone twice my age would be off putting. I would only consider maybe a ten year difference.

[PeterJ 948]

My wife’s college roommate married a much older man, a physician who was in his early 60s when she was in her mid-20s. They got quite deeply involved in the early to mid-70s San Francisco swinging scene. She was beautiful and told me she once did 25 men at a party. But her husband, who I think was pretty decent looking for an old guy (though he wasn’t as old then as I am now :-) ) had no problem getting partners. Indeed, she was the one who had to deal with jealousy issues. The marriage (and her swinging involvement) sadly lasted only a few years before he died.

 

(They invited my wife, who was then single, to join them at least in going to a nude beach with them. She refused, though once we got together we frequented Gunnison Beach and she sometimes discretely masturbated there on the beach.)

[padoc 1,703]

Attraction is the key for us. We'd be hesitant to play with a couple the age of our children but….!We quit saying "never" a long time ago.