Enlarging his cock

[wildones8474 21]

My husband has actively and aggressively been working on making his cock bigger for the past year. When we started opening up to multiple partners I think he became self-conscious about his cock size. Not a day goes by that he doesn't pump, hang, tug, pull, or something. And he has gained in length and girth. So of this is my fault because I've definitely started leaning towards the more well hung men. I've never said a thing to him directly about his size in any way but is there a point that I should. Yes he's made gains but he'll never be my dream size though we have friends who seem satisfied with it. I worry that at some point he'll harm himself and a broken dick is probably worse than a small one. Or should I just let him go at it? He seems to be happier with the improvements.

 

I'm a big gal and understand being insecure but how do I voice my opinion about his.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Best (maybe only) way to make your dick stick out more is to reduce the size of your lower abdomen. The length of an erect penis does not actually change. How much is available for poking into a vagina can change.

[del_sky 15]

It works?

[wildones8474 21]

It works... Not as fast as he would like. It's most obvious looking at pics. He was close to 7" long and 5 around. He's 8" plus by 6"ish now. It's bigger. He wants 10" plus and I don't think that's going to happen. There's fancy water pumps, weights to hang, oiling it up and rubbing it hard and god knows what else. Maybe it he started at 20 and not 40 he'd have something by now. I'm honestly worried he's going to pop a vein

[wildones8474 21]

It's getting bigger and it's not an optical illusion or body weight. There's groups of men doing this I guess.

[luvin eye full 140]

My husband has actively and aggressively been working on making his cock bigger for the past year. When we started opening up to multiple partners I think he became self-conscious about his cock size. Not a day goes by that he doesn't pump, hang, tug, pull, or something. And he has gained in length and girth. So of this is my fault because I've definitely started leaning towards the more well hung men. I've never said a thing to him directly about his size in any way but is there a point that I should. Yes he's made gains but he'll never be my dream size though we have friends who seem satisfied with it. I worry that at some point he'll harm him self and a broken dick is probably worse than a small one. Or should I just let him go at it. He seems to be happier with the improvements.

 

I'm a big gal and understand being insecure but how do I voice my opinion about his.

 

So you are leaning towards bigger cocks and you think he does not know? Do you even like your husband? turn your sad post around and see how good you would feel - really stop swinging and try to fix whats left of your marriage.

 

 

You know you did not even say if you liked him bigger - but you did say your going for the lager cock lol.

thats just fucked up and he knows it.

 

This post has less to do with him trying to get a big dick and more about how he is trying to get your approval to be with him - because you now have showin him he is not any good and will never be because it will not matter how big he gets you will just go bigger.

[luvin eye full 140]

actually just leve him so he can find a girl that will love and respect him for who he is.

[padoc 1,703]

Big girl huh?? Maybe you should drop some tonnage. Do that and you might find hubby's dick is more than adequate. At 7 inches he's above average and if it works (gets hard, stays hard, gets off)you've nothing to complain about.You think he doesn't know you're not happy with his dick size? Why do you think he working so diligently at a basically futile project. Take some responsibility, lose some weight, show some appreciation or as someone said above set him free from your unspoken derision.

[Jane1902 476]

What does this have to do with her weight? There was a suggestion he could look bigger if he lost some in the middle. I don't understand the bashing and telling her to leave him. In swinging some people go for different than what's at home so leaning to larger isn't so unusual. It's how they handle it between them. She has not complained about the size but is expressing a valid concern for injury with his exercises. It also sounds like a compulsion/ obsession he is having. Can you talk to your doctor or his and present him with the information. Google penile injury from enlargement exercises (thank you Al Gore for the internet) And of course let him know how special he is to you.

[luvin eye full 140]

What does this have to do with her weight? There was a suggestion he could look bigger if he lost some in the middle. I don't understand the bashing and telling her to leave him. In swinging some people go for different than what's at home so leaning to larger isn't so unusual. It's how they handle it between them. She has not complained about the size but is expressing a valid concern for injury with his exercises. It also sounds like a compulsion/ obsession he is having. Can you talk to your doctor or his and present him with the information. Google penile injury from enlargement exercises (thank you Al Gore for the internet) And of course let him know how special he is to you.

 

Hey Jane1902 - I see your point - But think she is saying so much more about how she really feels about him -

 

I wonder if he made it know-in by his actions that he only really likes girls with some thing she can never give - how would that play out .

 

Once poeple get to the point of openly saying there partners is

[Erik13 157]

7 inches long and 5 around is already pretty big...I'm not getting this.

[luvin eye full 140]

I agree it does not make to much sense to myself either - and after most of her other posts i am really confused now lol.

 

She seems to be a wife that loves her husband in other posts so why all the put downs about him now?

 

"My husband has actively and aggressively been working on making his cock bigger for the past year." Well yes from what the guys say it takes a long time

 

"When we started opening up to multiple partners I think he became self-conscious about his cock size." Well his size is bigger then a lot of guys so why would he get this idea? why do you think he wants a bigger one?

 

"Not a day goes by that he doesn't pump, hang, tug, pull, or something. And he has gained in length and girth." Well again i think they have to - so the gains do not go away.

 

"So of this is my fault because I've definitely started leaning towards the more well hung men." Oh what does this mean? so you only go after them now or you let him know you only want bigger men now? what does that mean?

 

"I've never said a thing to him directly about his size in any way but is there a point that I should." Why do you need to say any thing but good things about his size - does it bother you? did you not know he was his size and now your not happy?

 

"Yes he's made gains but he'll never be my dream size though we have friends who seem satisfied with it." WTF? are you saying he does not satisfy you - it sounds like your just putting up with it until something better comes along. actually this is a big red flag lol

 

" I worry that at some point he'll harm himself and a broken dick is probably worse than a small one." maybe not you will then have nothing to worry about because this will be your ticket to getting all the bigger cock you want and you will not have to put up with his small one any more -

 

"Or should I just let him go at it? He seems to be happier with the improvements." Up to you what do you think.

 

"I'm a big gal and understand being insecure but how do I voice my opinion about his." Well just talk to him - Eg:

 

Honey you know we have been together x amount of years and now that we a swingers and we communicate well - i want to have a talk about you tiring to get a bigger willy.

 

I'm worried you will hurt yourself, now it bad enough that i have to put up with that little thing and thank GOD i can get big cock from others, but if you hurt it then we will not be able to go together to the swingers ( put in where you go )

and that means I'll have to go alone - which you know i'm a little insecure about right. Any way you should stop because your never going to be my dream man - so why oh why even try!!!

 

I really think you should be happy that at lest some one likes your dick - but you will never be any real use to me so stop now please.

 

Wow.