Reading into a profile

[Shore2Please 611]

We are not big into swinging sites or posting looking to meet other couples. We met our first couple by chance. We were truly virgin to swinging, they said they were. We didn’t have to decipher profile meanings and guess who we were meeting. Our attraction was social as well as physical. We already had social fun before it went further. Other than my husband it has been the greatest sex since we were married. My husband is still the best. It was exciting and he was romantic. They aren’t close to us meaning we don’t play often. We checked out swinging sites. Most couples want same room play. From what I read men enjoy watching their wives. I won’t say anything negative about this. It’s just not for me. This forum gives insight to people who post. Some posts are too far fetched, some are sincere. The forum isn’t a hook up site per se. you just might find the right couple by reading posts.

[adamgunn 1,460]

You're very right, the swinger sites are full of fakes and flakes. Single men tend to be the worst, but a fair percentage are real. Some couple profiles are dudes who are trying to trick you. Weeding out the bad ones can be an exhaustive process.

 

There are some tips: Firstly, state clearly and up front in your profile that you are looking for separate room sex. Then, if more than five emails (texts, kiks, etc.) have gone by without a suggestion about getting together for an exploratory drink, you may be wasting your time. Before you meet, talk live with both the partners, you're less likely to be stood up.

 

What you want is out there, it just won't simply fall in your lap like it did the first time. Like almost anything else that is good in life, you've got to work for it.

 

Good luck.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

. . . The forum isn’t a hook up site per se. You just might find the right couple by reading posts.

More than one person (or couple) at this Swingersboard Web site has performed a seduction-by-conversation on my wife and I.

[Leftcoastcpl57 18]

While we're not super experienced we have been with about a half dozen couple over the 20 years my wife and I have been together. We have never done the online thing; it's always been face to face meetings. That being said, we were in environments that were perhaps less than vanilla, such as Hedo. Resorts like that tend to make hook ups easier. However one couple we repeated with many times over the years were vanilla friends we later became intimate with. They preferred separate rooms as the Mr. wanted it that way. We were fine with it and it made the reunion with my wife all the hotter. Same room or separate, it's all about what everyone is comfortable with and of course how well we know the other couple.

As far as online, posting here and putting up a profile on SLS is the extent of our cyber involvement. The SLS profile was established because we're booked on a Bliss Cruise in Nov. I have learned way more here than I could have imagined. People are real here.

[TricianMike 772]

Profiles are advertisements. When you go to McDonalds does the Big Mac look remotely like what you see in the ad? Have you ever met a couple that looked better in person?, were younger than what they said?, thinner? Taller? That being said there are plenty of truthful profiles too. You are correct that posts are more telling than profiles.

So what do you think of our posts? We are close lol.

[M1F2KTJ 473]

From what I read men enjoy watching their wives. I won’t say anything negative about this. It’s just not for me. This forum gives insight to people who post. Some posts are too far fetched, some are sincere. The forum isn’t a hook up site per se. you just might find the right couple by reading posts.

 

The only way my wife agreed to have sex with other men in front of me was that I promised and convinced her that I wasn't talking her into doing it so I could have sex with other women.

 

She said she couldn't bear to watch me having sex with another woman. I wasn't into reciprocation. I just had an insatiable desire to watch her getting fucked.