Labiaplasty infomation?

[skyguy6977 88]

Has any women here had a labiaplasty or know of any one that has? My GF is thinking about it and she wants to know if anyone has had any experience good or bad. My husband and I think she looks great, but she has a low self image.

Thanks

Deb.

[10ACN 16]

I was “conned” into taking a female friend to her appointment for one (she needed someone to drive afterwards). When I found out, I tried to talk her out of it, but she’d already paid and was determined. I saw it before and after and I gotta say, I prefer the before. It was all tidied up, but I just didn’t see the point. But then, I like “danglers”, “mudflaps”, etc. She was pleased. Seemed to me the money could be spent for better things.

[JandKinBoise 859]

If a person is self conscience of how their junk looks, it will affect the quality of sex. I understand how it could be seen as a waste of money, but we can't put ourselves in their shoes. If one feels confident and sexy when having their panties removed by his teeth, rather than cringing at what he might think, it's worth it.

[Numex 2,459]

.... I tried to talk her out of it, but she’d already paid and was determined. I saw it before and after and I gotta say, I prefer the before. But then, I like “danglers”, “mudflaps”, etc. She was pleased...

 

She could have just given the extra bits to you.

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

Then the two of you should both be working on helping her fix the self image problems instead of her fixing something that very few ever get to see. If her greatest self-perceived body 'issue' is her labia and this is what is causing her low self esteem...well there are other bigger issues here.

 

BTW, we've never seen a labia that we didn't like.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Of all the cosmetic procedures, labiaplasty is the one I can relate to the least, but then again as a guy I don't have labia and also being a guy have never seen a labia I didn't like . But, I do understand the power of self-image and how overcoming issues with that just through mind power alone can be a very very difficult thing to do. I believe the individual themselves always knows what's best for them, and if it is something they are truly doing for themselves and not someone else, then that's their decision.

[luvin eye full 140]

As already said by many - i would try and talk her out of it - i also understand why she wants to do it,

 

It seems to us that self image has gone wrong, instead of wanting honor , respect for self and others, understanding, love and everything else that is worth while having - we have sold our self's to the money makers that say we are not good enough and there for need to "fix" it all.

 

bit like the wish you were here song of the great pink Floyd,

 

How long will we ( as a society ) be blinded by this rubbish and continue to hurt others and our selves by cutting up our bodies -

 

To my daughters ( if you ever see this post that is ) Your beauty comes from the things you hold dear not the bits you can cut off or modify - Do not let yourself ever be fooled - you are worth so much more then a doctors car payment, and the same goes for my sons,

[HornyToronto 51]

Personally, I love to see a woman with large labia and find it a real turn on. Plus, they make great handles to open her up when muff diving.

[LoveLove 28]

Well, she's done it and she's happy and it's her body. I think there might be some need for the procedure for some women who feel that the parts are so large/wide/long that they are uncomfortable just walking around and existing. That's probably what the procedure was designed for. But...internet and porn being what it is, women have been exposed to pictures of what "ideal" pussies are supposed to look at...yet another thing to feel self-conscious about. I'm like what one poster said - I like my parts...there's stuff to suck on and play with and my partner loves all of it - and cums like a racehorse whenever we have sex BECAUSE he's fucking a lively partner who digs the hell out of him. Bottom line - at some point, the person or people worth having sex with are the people you connect with as a human being, not as a sex object.