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The Onion's take on Pros and Cons of Open Relationships

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Con: Half the fun of cheating is the sneaking around

 

That statement makes me question the entire article. Half the fun of swinging is doing it with my SO, together, without having to lie or sneaking around.

 

Other cons: Finding out that staying faithful to your partner wasn’t what was causing all the problems

Probably not going to work

 

Pro: Getting rejected by everyone else will ultimately bring you and your partner closer (WTF)

 

Still, any info being out there is better than nothing, but talk about the opposite of a long article. Just wish we could comment on it....

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@GoldCoCouple,

 

The Onion is a satirical/comedy "news" site. Unless you knew that, and your reply was a satirically straight response to their satire... in that case, carry on :)

 

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