Transition from soft to full swap questions

[2BFree 26]

Looking for general advice on this. Backstory, Mrs 2B and I have been happily married 5 yrs 7 total. We had our first lf experience together in November. I had some previous experience with any ex of mine who was bi. We had many threesomes,a gf for a year, and 2 soft swaps. My wife is bi, been in relationships with females before.

So in November, one of my best friends D (old co worker now at different location, same co.)and his wife J were apparently discussing getting to know me and mrs 2b a little better. We were already each other's go to couple for double dates, family gatherings, even the last 2 thanksgivings. We each have 3 kids who's ages rival each other. Great friends to nough of us.

D had told me before of the few threesomes they had before. It had been a while and his wife mentioned to him that she was attracted to my wife. Both wives are very sexy, so my buddy and i almost instantly agreed that we have no problem if our wives got it on. A week later we had our first soft swap at their house. It was great. My and mrs2b fucked like rabbits for a week. It was the same for them. It was really erotic and everyone was comfortable. We had a second encounter 2 weeks ago and it was great again. We started kinda late that night tho, so no new boundaries broken.

To the point, so the next day i Gerry s text from D asking if we'd like check outTrapeze, which the wife and i had already planned to do. So we agree. J (the girls chat almost daily) asks my wife what our limits and rules are? At that point we hadn't outlined any rules just going with the flow. My wife had mentioned she was neutral on whether she wanted to full swap as was I honestly. I felt no jealousy during our 2 soft swaps, i kinda view oral as foreplay, not that extreme to me. Thinking of intercourse however makes me a little nervous. I am turned on by it. Wouldnt mind trying out his wife at all in fantasy, but never considered it in reality as i truly look at J as my buddies wife, hot as she may be. Just a respect thing.

Last night during a rather intense love making session with mrs2b, she says "I want to see you fuck J. Do you want to?"

 

i said "I'm not against it, have you asked her about it?" What do you want?

 

She says "I wanna watch"

 

I ask "what if D doesn't just wanna watch me fuck his wife?"

 

She says "i guess ill have to sit on it" add she's riding me. We fucked till 2am dirty talking back and forth. It was fantastic.

Apparently I'm the last in the group to come around lol. I'm really ok with it, it just seems to be happening quicker than i imagined. Ive talked with my buddy who said they feel comfortable with us. I feel i need to talk with the wife when we're not fucking however to make sure everything is good. If so this next weekend may be when we cross over. Nervous and excited at the same time.

 

Anybody else cross over with good friends? Everything's been really fun so far, don't wanna rock the boat so to say, but i am nervous and i wasn't during the soft swaps. First time jitters maybe?

[adamgunn 1,460]

Normally, the wisdom is don't mess with your friends. But you've already been doing that, and (up till now) there's been no repercussions.

 

You've been taking it slow, the two of you have been communicating well with each other, the other couple is on board. Why not take the next hurdle?

 

Your nervousness is understandable, any time you try something new and a little uncomfortable you're filled with angst.

[2BFree 26]

The more I think about it the moreI wanna try it. Had a good talk with the wife last night and this morning over breakfast. I feel my apprehensions fading the more we discuss it. We agreed not to hold anything against each other and to stop if either one of us is uncomfortable. I've read swinging with friends can bring drama. They are great friends and would remain that way regardless of what happens. I believe that is my biggest concern. However we've already opened Pandora's box somewhat, and Im kinda anxious to see what's inside. We already had a really active sex life, but playing has amped it up to 10. I've always been a thrill seeker, into racing and extreme sports, so I feel I'm built for this. So hoping all goes well next weekend. Thanks for the advice.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

Normally we warn couples to stay away from friends as well, but as you said, Pandora's Box has already been cracked open. First thing I would recommend is outlining the rules and limits and then just keep on taking it slow. There have been successful couples that play with friends, you all just have to be careful and communicate with everyone involved. Let us know how things progress...

[2BFree 26]

I think my initial apprehension is concern about any potential drama in the future. We've been good vanilla friends for over 4 years so im hoping we are able to keep that intact. Everyone was comfortable after both encounters, and its still normal. We've had a couple vanilla evenings since the last time we played. The wives are really into each other, and communicate well. The only rules we've come up with so far are condoms during penetration, and same room so we can all experience it together. I do plan to keep updates on our situation here as it unfolds. This is a great forum, I plan on sticking around in general!

[EastInWest 1,524]

While I'm in agreement about the hazards with friends, it's how we got started, too. Oral/soft and then moving quickly to full swap once we realized we were having a good time with it. Your rules are roughly the same as ours and it's worked for us. Have fun!

[2BFree 26]

UPDATE: Well after last night were are now a full swap couple. It was AWESOME!

 

So 2 weeks ago we had plans to visit Trapeze with our playmates. Unfortunetely J had a death in her family and they had to travel out of state. So my buddy and i rescheduled a vanilla date nite of bowling and drinks with a group of friends. Their babysitter fell thru at the last minute. Mrs 2b and i decided to hang out at the bowling alley for a little while, have a drink, and wait for our playmates kids to go to sleep.

 

So we head over around 11.My buddy and I go to the garage to have some rum and a smoke while our wives were in the living room drinking wine and watching a movie. After a few shots we were all back in the living room finishing the movie. It's about 1am at this point and i know my wife really gets sleepy this time of night without stimulation so I'm thinking nothings going to happen at this point. Boy was i wrong.

 

All of a sudden D goes over to his wife, pulls down her pants, and starts eating her out. This gets my wife's attention and she starts giving me head on the other sofa. After a few J brings my buddy oct and tells him to sit beside me. We are both laying back getting blowjobs for a couple minutes then J leans over to me, and starts sucking me. My wife switches places and starts giving D a bj. This was my first time making eye contact with my wife with another dick in her mouth. It was tough not to cum right then asty that site. Also J is very talented so that watt making it any easier. They gave us nough double blow jobs and then the girls started eating each other out while we watched.

 

After they got each other off J came to me and my wife went to him. My wife and i are both giving oral. So while I'm eating J pussy, my wife turns around to join me between Js thighs. D sees this as his opportunity as my wife's magnificent ass i200ys pointed in the air, to go for. Next thing i know i see my wife getting entered from behind. J looks at her husband, pulls me up to her missionary, and i stuck my dick in as far as i could! So we stayed at it for about 15 minutes with each other's wives and went back to finish with our own spouses. Somewhere in there Mrs2b got her MFM as well.

 

Overall it was the most thrilling sexual experience I've ever had. All of us for that matter after chatting today with them. It felt surprisingly comfortable, effortless even. All the trepidation i had leading up to the event went away immediately. Like jumping right into cold water instead off wading. I guess that worked for me. My wife is my superstar. I feel so hot for this woman words can't describe it accurately. She mentioned this morning that this lifestyle was a longtime fantasy of hers. Well it did blow my mind, hers as well and we feeling right at home here. So we'll be sticking around. Thanx for any advice given

[adamgunn 1,460]

Congratulations, glad it worked out for you.