Vanilla people can be so fucked up!

[intuition897 2,179]

Some chick on Facebook was trolling in one of my groups, saying from now on she only wanted to date married men. Exclusively. And her rationale? So she could blackmail them for hush money. Okay, so yes - obvious bait - but the idea of this made me feel physically sick.

 

I gave her some practical advice, and wished her luck.

 

Does this kind of shit affect anyone else like this? I know, I should just brush it off and scroll on. But it just sort of underlined how massively shitty vanilla attitudes can be. I am SO glad that Mr. intuition and I figured out how to do non-monogamy. People think I'm BSing them when I tell them how good my relationship actually is. We're sadly abnormal that way.

[agreatguy 269]

That is "pet in a pot" waiting to happen. It's fucked up! Hopefully Karma will catch up to her.

[adamgunn 1,460]

Just throwing it out there. Could it be that it was an old ugly guy just trying to get a reaction?

 

Yeah, just keep on scrolling . . .

[machiavel55 81]

Some chick on Facebook was trolling in one of my groups, saying from now on she only wanted to date married men. Exclusively. And her rationale? So she could blackmail them for hush money. Okay, so yes - obvious bait - but the idea of this made me feel physically sick.

 

I gave her some practical advice, and wished her luck.

 

Does this kind of shit affect anyone else like this? I know, I should just brush it off and scroll on. But it just sort of underlined how massively shitty vanilla attitudes can be. I am SO glad that Mr. intuition and I figured out how to do non-monogamy. People think I'm BSing them when I tell them how good my relationship actually is. We're sadly abnormal that way.

 

Ever met swingers that are so fucked up?.......just saying.....

[padoc 1,703]

"I saw you on a swingers site…Im gonna tell unless…." Our response would be a resounding Fuck You! Knock yourself out.

[parabola 24]

In a world with so much diversity with personal preferences, I get why married spouses stray. We have had our fair share of married guys within the lifestyle that were not honest about playing alone with other cpls to their significant other. The only thing we can do is be honest with each other and that is really all we can be responsible for. As far as this female goes, it sounds like she is asking for trouble. Being that vindictive and intentionally harmful to others usually always ends up in some sort of negative result.

[JandKinBoise 858]

I started my internet education the day after Mr Gore invented it. My 9800 modem didn't make it a fast experience.

Rule 1: Trolls;

When there is a discussion that is invaded, added to, or slid into, with a comment that causes an emotional reaction, this is planned. I could go on and on about feeding trolls but best to not react at all, and just move on. Someone is going to get frustrated, let it not be you.

[intuition897 2,179]

I started my internet education the day after Mr Gore invented it. My 9800 modem didn't make it a fast experience.

Rule 1: Trolls;

When there is a discussion that is invaded, added to, or slid into, with a comment that causes an emotional reaction, this is planned. I could go on and on about feeding trolls but best to not react at all, and just move on. Someone is going to get frustrated, let it not be you.

 

Oh she was a self-admitted troll. No question there, LOL. I'm still pretty naive - just a charming personality glitch that makes people kind of go, "Aw, that's so cute! She thinks they're being serious.", and then roll their eyes when they realize that naivete to that depth isn't really all that cute, it's just embarrassing - but I am getting better. I don't waste nearly as much energy as I used to, arguing with the internet.