I used to be that guy

[Jane1902 476]

Some recent posts have been from single/newly divorced males talking about their fantasies and dicks and wondering if they will fit in. Usually there is a collective groan and someone directs them to some of the other threads. We have all come across the single male that leads with dick pics and "wanna fuck?" I am wondering if these guys ever really learn. I have met some really amazing single guys but wonder is there any hope for those others way off the mark.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

I appreciate the way that you state your rhetorical question. A couple of the new members who arrived with dick pictures have received some much rougher receptions from other members. A guy might be a little too proud of his schwanz but we should collectively, when we are able, take opportunities to teach.

 

I do believe that there is hope.

[NCfromVA 19]

I'm a single male new here that would prefer not to be single and hope to change that ! One thing I have to say I've never sent a dick pic or showed one just because I have one. Sure if some one asks that's different but I always thought it a little disrespectful to just throw it out . Wondered if others were like that but I'm learning a great deal here and really liking the community .

[JandKinBoise 859]

There is hope. A guy that comes into a place like this and makes a total fool of himself isn't necessarily a bad guy, just very uneducated. People's first impression of 'swingers' is 'group of sluts'. To that effect, a dick pic is perfectly normal. Once a person realizes that many swingers are straight, middle class, educated, conservative folks, the attitude changes.

I had to coach a few guys on how to interact with a woman so they could make a decent impression. Men who don't have a clue about women, tend to assign their morals, values and standards to women. "Hey, I love looking at a pussy, I'm, sure everyone will love this dick pic".

There is a collective groan as the weekly new single guy pops in ready to fuck the world. Just because it gets old. There should be a large headline and link at the top of the forum. "Single men must enter here before using the forum" with some instructions.

[adamgunn 1,461]

Jane, you asked, "We have all come across the single male that leads with dick pics and "wanna fuck?" I am wondering if these guys ever really learn."

 

Yes, some of them do learn, turn into nice Lifestyle people. Others don't learn, get frustrated and go someplace else.

 

Unfortunately, they get replaced by new recruits almost immediately. My suggestion? Laugh at them, then move on. . .

[M1F2KTJ 473]

Some recent posts have been from single/newly divorced males talking about their fantasies and dicks and wondering if they will fit in. Usually there is a collective groan and someone directs them to some of the other threads. We have all come across the single male that leads with dick pics and "wanna fuck?" I am wondering if these guys ever really learn. I have met some really amazing single guys but wonder is there any hope for those others way off the mark.

 

There is no hope for the truly arrogant guys who think that just because they have a big dick that women will trip over themselves to have sex with them and they will be recruited by husbands to have sex with their wives.

 

There is the other category of men who are just inexperienced thinking that a profile or response like that is what is expected.