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Last week the Penn state basketball team was playing in NYC. Usually it’s the football team that gets my friends excited. Several of my friends from Pa. were coming to town to watch the games. These are friends that introduced me to swinging. I was able to get 6 tickets, me and my husband, three girlfriends and a guy friend. Of course we told them to stay at our place. Penn State won the semi finals and our friends stayed for the Finals. Unfortunately my husband couldn’t make the finals. I invited a real good vanilla friend. Someone I know many years. Our team won which was great. My vanilla friend went home after some drinks after the game. My out of town friends came back to my place. We had a great time.

Now I found out that something was said to my vanilla friend. I had no idea. I got a call from one of my girlfriends apologizing that she MAY have slipped and said something to my other friend. I was stupid to mix the vanilla and college friends together. The last time they saw each other was before I ever did anything.

I am worried that others will find out and I don’t know if I can look my friend in her face.

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Worrying is pointless. There are a number of scenarios that can play out. Maybe it will never be mentioned because she doesn’t believe it. She could ask and you can deny by laughing and saying your college friends tell everyone that just to see reactions. If she presses you it might be because she is interested. That could be difficult to read. The worst thing to do is not being normal. If you speak to her during the week continue doing that. Don’t feel or sound guilty. Talk about what a great game it was.

On the plus side our best friends surprised me that they have been swingers for years. When I found out and then realized my wife wanted to join them. Looking back it has opened many new things for us. Some will say don’t do it with friends. For us it is the best.

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Acting guilty is the surest way to convince him that what was said was true. Just act normal around him and more than likely nothing will ever be said. If something is actually said, just play it off as a joke, but really, what would he really say...'hey, in talking to your friend, it was said that you two are swingers, is that true?'. I think you will be okay, just don't let it change how you are around him. The first time you see him again will be the hardest, after that it won't be anything any longer.

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The first reaction to learning something like this is usually a knee jerk judgement. Our vanilla conditioning reacts like ninja training. Fortunately, she has had awhile to mull this over. The human in her will start to think about swinging, free, open sex. Curiosity will reign over contempt unless she is a total bible thumper or mega-prude. My suggestion, when or if she approaches you..own it.

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That would be my biggest nightmare. We have been careful keeping our private lives private. We have friends that wanted to take the second cruise with us. We were going with a couple we met on our first cruise where we swapped spouses. They ended up not booking the trip and I was relieved. You can’t take back what happened. You can pretend that you don’t know she might suspect anything. If she brings it up if you are anything like me your coloring will go white or red. You can try laughing it away and say it was a joke. Or you can jokingly say if she wants to join you and your husband. Make it funny so she will think you are joking. If she says yes then you have another swing partner

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Your response to this is the normal response from most, especially those new to the lifestyle. It’s also something that most of us at one point or another has had to face at one time or another. While unable to tell you what the right reaction for you should be, I can tell you what we concluded when we were faced with this. We decided that any relationship that we needed to lie to maintain probably wasn’t worth the effort.

 

Don’t get me wrong, I try to never force or expound my point of view of any specific subject on any of our friends. But if asked I will respond with my honest opinion. The way we handled it was to answer the question with a question of our own, “That’s a rather personal question, what makes you ask?” My suggestion would be not to lie or deny. Either tell them the truth or refuse to discuss the subject as being too personal. If you lie they will most likely discover the truth at one point or another, and most will accept what you’re lying about more readily than they will the fact that you lied to them. You may also think about shifting from the defense to the offense in the way you handle the question if it ever arises, “Well (John/Joan) you surprise me, are you suggesting that you’re interested in having sex with us?”

 

Like has been mentioned don’t worry too much about what hasn’t happened. While you will want to be prepared with an answer if it does happen, don’t obsess on it.

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My husband says if she asks I should say yes we do and see how she reacts. His best friend knows and has enjoyed being invited to join us. I think my husband just wants her to know so we can ask her to join us

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Well, there's finding out and then there's slapping someone in the face with it. Since your girlfriends think they are living life in the fast lane with a one night stand, you are traveling near the speed of light (in comparison). All we can say is that we wish the world had more women like you...

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None of our vanilla friends know about this, but they know we have a vigorous sex life.

 

If a friend did somehow find out and wanted answers they weren't entitled to, we'd just have to phase them out. I'd like to think we've already screened out the busiest busybodies, though.

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If she brings it up again it might be because she is interested in it. I think most people would let it go after mentioning once. You can in a fun way ask her if she ever thought about playing with more than one person. Maybe she has a fantasy. If she does have a fantasy you then have to decide what you want to tell her. If she doesn’t bring it up again just forget it. I just wonder if you want her to ask. Have fun.

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Pretty sure she suspects. We chatted last night and I told her we were going up to Penn State today for Sat. Blue & White game. It’s a football game. It’s also a weekend of parties and tailgating. She asked if she could come. I told her we were staying at a friends place and there may not be room and others were coming too. She said she would take a sleeping bag. She had gone to a game before and she had a great time. I told her maybe next time we go up there she could come. I really felt bad telling her no but just didn’t want into the whole discussion. I chickened out.

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I saw this once, not sure where it is.

I did chicken out. I am not sure if I want her to know. I love her as a friend but she can talk. On the other side I hate to lie or hide things. It takes too much bought to keep a lie. It’s one of the reasons I originally confessed of what I did. I’m not sure how she would react too. I don’t need her to preach to me. Then again maybe she wants to join in. I also think it would be strange for me if she did join us or it could be fun. Meanwhile I’ll just cluck.

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I saw this once, not sure where it is.

I did chicken out. I am not sure if I want her to know. I love her as a friend but she can talk. On the other side I hate to lie or hide things. It takes too much bought to keep a lie. It’s one of the reasons I originally confessed of what I did. I’m not sure how she would react too. I don’t need her to preach to me. Then again maybe she wants to join in. I also think it would be strange for me if she did join us or it could be fun. Meanwhile I’ll just cluck.

 

Don't cha just love human beings, Board Members?

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Much like a security clearance, you should decide what information to impart to your friend on a "need to know" basis. You have to remember that this hobby is not acceptable behavior to the general public. Your friend talks and your activities would be way too juicy a tidbit NOT to talk about to others. Unless she comes to you and says, "I think you guys are swingers and I'd like to play with you" she otherwise does not have a need to know.

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I am not sure if I want her to know. I love her as a friend but she can talk.

 

Sometimes 'chickening out' is the right thing, it's just your subconscious telling you what you already suspect. Better safe than sorry, especially if she is a talker.

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Sometimes 'chickening out' is the right thing, it's just your subconscious telling you what you already suspect. Better safe than sorry, especially if she is a talker.

 

I am already ducking her calls. This is becoming a poultry post, I am a chicken and I am ducking lol. I think I joined here for advice so here goes. She is my bestie, like all of us we have had small lies before, how much can I lie? If she asks, and she will, I will continue to joke it away. I think she knows though. I am really having anxiety feelings. It’s not like I did anything I’m ashamed of. I’m just ashamed to tell her about my sex life. Now I’m laughing because I have told her things before and so has she. Think this is different. Maybe I should just hook her up with our other friend. Shit life is complicated.

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.... I think I joined here for advice so here goes. She is my bestie, like all of us we have had small lies before, how much can I lie? ....

 

Life can be complicated, but it does not have to be so. You still have some control / choices here.

 

Perhaps you could try a more benign approach, to test the waters so-to-speak. (As opposed to blurting out a full confession.)

 

If I have learned anything on this BBS, it is that open, honest communication can be a good way to build on a strong relationship (of any kind). However... Unfiltered or thoughtless communication, especially on a less durable relationship, could destroy it.

 

If you are already familiar with having discussions with this friend that are deeper that the usual, casual friendly banter, then maybe you could bring up topics such as non-monogamy, or polyamory (which may not equate to swinging, but is in a similar category). Discussing these and other similar topics with your friend should give you an idea about where they stand on the subject, and how they may react if you gave full disclosure on your "alternative lifestyle choices".

 

This also leads to another question.

Generally speaking... How open-minded are they?

Do they get upset at the mention of topics such as LGBTQ equality? Are they super conservative and devoutly religious? ... I have friends and family in this category, and they would likely freak-out badly if they knew that I even entertained the idea of non-monogamy as a permanent lifestyle choice.

 

I have made my choice, and am willing to live with the consequences. I do not feel the need to advertise it openly, and shout it from the roof-tops, but I am also at a point in my life (pushing 60, etc.) where I am less concerned about what others think about my personal choices (as long as I am not intentionally harming others).

 

You just need to decide, and be prepared for, what you can live with, and without... and act accordingly.

 

Choices & Consequences. Ain't life grand?

 

My personal business is just that. If someone is offended by my personal choices, and cannot accept it, then perhaps that is someone I do not need to associate with. I have been (loosely) associated with a very liberal religious community all my life. One thing I have gotten from that is the courage that gay people have for example. To live in fear of persecution for something you do not have a choice on is not much of a life. Today's climate towards homosexuality is WAY better than it was a century ago (at least some places recognize gay marriage now), but it is still not universally accepted. Truly Bi-Sexual people may have it slightly better, but not by a lot.

 

Non-monogamy is in a similar category (of acceptance)... But is it a choice? For all?

 

These days, I'd be inclined to say that openly identifying yourself as Polyamorous carries as much if not more stigma than being gay. ... Will acceptance of the Swinger Lifestyle ever be better, even completely accepted? I would think "Yes", just not in my lifetime.

 

Of course all this may also depend on how you see it. Is it just a sport? Something you can easily take or leave? Or is it really a part of who you are?

 

Speaking out though, and raising awareness, is the only way there will be any hope for common acceptance of any lifestyle, choice or not.

 

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As an educator, I am very guarded about with whom I share my personal lifestyle choices but I do have a few "vanilla" friends who know the real me and it hasn't caused any issues.

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Have you worried for no reason? Unless you didn’t post it. Did she ask again?

 

Yes she has. I’m not good at lying. I tried telling her I don’t want to discuss it.

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I really don't have any friends, now that I think about it. Many, many acquaintances, and I'm an open book with just about everyone...to an extent. I am as open with others as they are comfortable with. But I am very picky about whom I actually call 'friend'.

 

I think I have y'all beat. While I don't have any friends who might find me out, and I don't really care if any of my coworkers discover my secret, I do, however, have family. Had an awkward moment recently...I think it deserves its own thread, though.

 

Lioness, you've got a couple of options: you can be matter of fact about it and tell the truth - because there's no shame in it if you don't feel any - or you can take advantage of the outlandishness of the idea and lie. No shame there either.

 

EDIT: just saw your last post. It sounds like she's inquisitive, and the fact that you said you don't want to talk about it is as good as admitting that there's something to talk about. All I can suggest here is to keep your feelers out to make sure your friendship isn't suffering because of it. There's no need for it to; if hard feelings begin to develop, or persistent awkwardness, simply address it. Let your friend know that you've noticed your friendship becoming strained, and she means a great deal to you. Can you clear the air with her, please? If she presses you, just let her know why you don't want to discuss it. She may be hurt that you don't trust her with your secret.

 

Just focus on your friendship and things will be okay.

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My life has become complicated. I don’t want our life to be lived around swinging. With my close friend now knowing my conversations with her have become sex centered. She is inquisitive. I can just shut her out. I don’t want to chase away my best friend. I have said that I don’t feel easy talking about it with her. She keeps asking. She asks details that I haven’t even thought about. The parties with my college friends just happen. How many? Do I pick who or do guys just come over to me? I try to answer with short answers. I just say yes or sometimes to her questions. She asked about how about condoms and I said of course. I hate when I lie. I also haven’t told her that I don’t pick the guy because at the parties I am usually there for others than the guys. I am not going to go near that topic with her. I’m not embarrassed by it, I just don’t need to go there with her.

Now the other part that’s new. Our male friend. I know I could stop that. I don’t think I want to. I may want to in the future. It is still fun as long as it doesn’t overtake my normal life.

This was easy when it was 250 miles away.

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Don't forget that we were all "Vanilla" at one time, then someone introduced us to the idea. you yourself said the friends involved were the ones that introduced you to the Lifestyle. If you truly think she suspects and she was trying to get an invite.........well that sounds like someone's curiosity is peaked!(or titillated)

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How about: I really don't want to talk about this right now with you. Or turn it around and start asking her very personal questions about her sex life so she can also experience how awkward this feels from your point of view.

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How about: I really don't want to talk about this right now with you. Or turn it around and start asking her very personal questions about her sex life so she can also experience how awkward this feels from your point of view.

 

I’m laughing because we used to discuss details. We have been like sisters for many years. We had the three date rule that I didn’t always keep. And she would sometimes date guys for months before finally giving in. Still more awkward for me. Right now it would be easier giving you details than me giving her details. Before I got married I gave her the good, the bad and the ugly.

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I’m laughing because we used to discuss details. We have been like sisters for many years. We had the three date rule that I didn’t always keep. And she would sometimes date guys for months before finally giving in. Still more awkward for me. Right now it would be easier giving you details than me giving her details. Before I got married I gave her the good, the bad and the ugly.

 

I like the idea that she may be wanting an invitation. Or she is just nosy and wants a thrill. One thing I have to remember, always, is that the only way two people can keep a secret is if one of them is dead.

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After being in this swinging thing for a short time compared to many others on here I am beginning to understand that it’s not always the men who want to swap. I read all the posts about how you get your wife interested. For me it was my wife who planned and it was with her girlfriend. Who knows how that conversation started. We always had fun with them in a vanilla way. It’s hard to say we are closer now. We have always been close. Lioness you are also the one who initiated this for you and your husband and you did it with friends. I always thought guys were the horny ones.

Now to your friend. Maybe she is bringing up what she suspects hoping you will invite her. She already knows. If she was disgusted she would be running from the topic. When she asks next time about the subject ask her what she thinks of it. Be prepared for more questions. Try to answer in general terms not what you do. If it goes on and on it means she is waiting for an invite.

I’m going to finish by saying for us swinging with friends is great. Think you know that already.

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We decided that if she asked I would tell. She asked and I told her in very general terms that we have gone to parties. She did ask specifics like how many people. How many I was with. Did I watch my husband. Was everyone in the same room. She asked if I was with other friends. At first I didn’t understand. Then she asked if I was with my roommate. She made a comment that she doesn’t think she could do that. I told her nobody does anything the don’t want to. She was inquisitive. She didn’t ask to do anything and I didn’t invite.

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Yet.

 

Lol. You’re probably right. Don’t think I am ready for it YET. I feel things can only go bad at some point. I know it hasn’t caused a problem with my husbands friend. My feeling is the dynamic is different between me and my gf. I have said we are like sisters from different misters. Maybe it will be great. For me it would be awkward but aren’t all firsts awkward? My husband says I’m silly. Of course he would say that lol. My thinking is possibly inviting her to a party when we go. That won’t happen before the fall.

Maybe I’m just afraid at this time.

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Just out of curiosity, are you afraid she'll say "yes" or afraid she'll say "no?"

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Just out of curiosity, are you afraid she'll say "yes" or afraid she'll say "no?"

 

Just out of curiosity, are you afraid she'll say "yes" or afraid she'll say "no?"

 

If she says no it makes things very easy. We go on being best friends. Our relationship doesn’t change. If she say Yes, things do change and that can be good or catastrophic. I am afraid adding any new dynamic to a friendship opens up the door to something going wrong. If something goes wrong with my college friends I would be upset but I wouldn’t be devastated. I enjoy having them as friends but they are not my everyday friends.

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      I greeted him at the door and invited him to have a seat on the couch while I fixed some drinks for the three of us. I then joined him on the couch while Ellen puttered with supper. Ellen is not a drinker at all. It takes nearly nothing to get her hi. I tease her that a good solid whiff of a bottle cork is all it takes. This time however, she was taking full advantage of her beverage while she worked. Shortly, she excused herself to the bathroom and when she came back, it did not escape me that she had removed the bra from her very beautiful breast and her nipples were very extended. She returned to the kitchen duties while the conversation drifted on.
       
      Ellen got to a place with dinner that she could step away. She turned to JR and I and strolled to our seat on the couch. As she stepped in front of us, pulled up her T-shirt and lifted a lovely boob in each of her hands and presented one to each JR and myself. I was delighted that she could 'come out' in this fashion. JR and I rose to the occasion and worked on those delightful nipples for long minutes while Ellen’s head tilted back, her eyes closed and appreciative coo's came from her throat. She was enjoying a wonderful experience. I soon found that the panties under her loose walking shorts had also gone away. When I touched her wet pussy, her knees nearly gave out under her.
       
      'You guys are going to make me burn supper' she said and moved back to the kitchen. Something was sure getting hot, that is for sure.
       
      She was back several times before the meal was cooked and I could hardly believe how delighted she and I both were with how much she was enjoying herself.
       
      After the supper dishes were washed and put away, she again came to the couch for a 'double suckel' and JR and I were most happy to oblige. This one lasted for the best part of 15 minutes and I suggested that we take it to the bedroom. There were no objections so we headed that direction, shedding clothes as we went. I sat down on the edge of the bed. Ellen sat beside me. JR knelt down in front of her. I leaned her back and kissed her long and lovingly on the mouth. JR buried his face in her pussy. She went wild and came almost at once. Neither he nor I let up but kept the moment going for her.
       
      Before long she wanted to change positions so I slid back on the bed and she turned around and knelt down so she could take me into her mouth. She had positioned herself so that JR could stand on the floor by the bed and enter her doggie fashion. What a sight for me to watch my precious Ellen taking me in her mouth while my dear friend mounted her from behind. She was floating among the stars while the rhythm began to build. The two of them came together and slowly began to wind down a bit but she was not finished. She asked us to swap positions and this was accomplished in moments. She said that she wanted me to finish her. I slipped into her warmth and was rewarded by that 'pussy squeeze' that I know and love so well. Slowly, I entered most of myself slowly into her warmth but she was not in the mood for slow. She rammed herself back sinking my shaft all the way. I could see her head bobbing up and down on JR bringing him back to life. I didn't need much of this to take me over the top and I came with a loud groan and at the same time, so were my two best friends.
       
      We lay together for a long time, talking and touching. It was certainly a night to remember. We drifted off to sleep with the knowledge that there would be other times.
       
      Later, Ellen related that 'a girl hasn't lived until she has her husband in her mouth and a friend in her pussy. There is just nothing better, unless they trade places.'
      Alex n Ellen
    • By HappyCouple2308
      My wife asked me if an old friend of hers could come and stay with us for one night. He was only in town for a week and would be leaving the next day. She had not seen Matt for a long time. They were friends while she was in college. I can only assume that they had sex in their younger days, but I didn’t ask. He had since moved to California and was in town for work. With the children at our parents, we had all night to have drinks and “catch up.” Nicole’s cell phone rang at 6:30, and she seemed very excited to see her old friend. John arrived an hour or so later, and he seemed like a nice enough guy. Nicole greeted him at the door with a warm hug.
       
      We figured that it would be more fun to order Chinese food and hang at the house. I went to pick up the food, and while I was waiting I sent her a text. “So is this the night we try the threesome?” She quickly replied, “Don’t get any funny ideas.” When I return they were sitting at the table drinking a bottle of wine, and seemed to be enjoying telling the stories of their younger days. I just listened and watched as they drank more and more wine. After a few hours Nicole mentioned that we have a hot tub. There was snow on the ground, so it’s always nice to sit and relax in the hot tub. Matt was the same size as me so I gave him a swim suit and Nicole put on her brown bikini. This one did not do such a good job of covering her nice breasts. I thought to myself, maybe she is considering the idea of fucking the both of us now that the wine is setting in. I got in the tub first, followed by Matt. Nicole made her grand entrance carrying a bottle of wine and two glasses. I could see Matt’s eyes move to Nicole’s ample chest as she climbed into the hot tub. She joked how lucky see was to have two cute guys all to herself.
       
      We soaked in the tub for a while and laughed about the old days. More and more, Matt’s eyes moved down to Nicole’s boobs. Finally the wine got the best of him, and he asked, “Are those different?” We laughed and Nicole she that she had earned new ones. Feeling brave I chimed in, “Would you like to see them?” Nicole’s eyes got wide. “Stop,” she giggled. “Come on, they look really good.” I sat next to Matt and Nicole was across from us. To my surprise her hands moved up to the ties of her top and off it came. I was surprised and proud of her. My wife is sexy and should not be afraid of showing off a bit. “There, are you happy now,” she exclaimed. I noticed that she did not put it back on.
       
      “I need another beer,” I stated and went into the house for a few minutes. When I came out Nicole and Matt were sitting pretty close in the tub. My dirty mind was now spinning faster and faster. I could feel that the tension was building. Then Nicole moved in front of me and started to kiss me. I whispered, “We are being rude to your guest.” She smiled and turned to Matt. Slowly she pushed herself up in the water so he could see her chest. “My husband says that it is rude to make out with him in front of you,” she said. Matt said that he didn’t mind and to his surprise, Nicole moved to him and started kissing him. I leaned back so that I could get a nice view of her ass. I slowly began to rub her lower back and ass as she kissed Matt deeply. I could tell that her hand had moved to his cock and was rubbing it through his shorts. The wine made the nerves pass quickly. His hands were stroking her breast, and mine were stroking her ass. She leaned her body back to kiss me and Matt seized the chance to lick and suck her chest and nipples. I slid my hands into the front of her bikini and could feel that she was very turned on.
       
      “Let’s go inside,” she whispered. “It’s too hot in here.” We climbed out of the tub and into the house. In the dim light we started to dry off. We each removed our wet clothes and wrapped a towel around our waists. “Fireplace?” I asked. Nicole nodded and we moved up stairs. I sat on the couch and Matt sat a few feet away. Nicole went to the bathroom. Not wanting to lose the moment I told Matt to follow my lead. I slipped off my towel and began to stroke my cock until it was nice and hard. Matt followed my lead. Nicole came into the room and saw two very hard cocks that were begging for her attention. “This is not fair,” she said as she took her place on the couch between us. She took a cock into each hand and began to stroke and squeeze them. She seemed very pleased with her new play things. She could tell that Matt and I were both enjoying her skillful handy work! We moved closer together so that Matt and me could touch Nicole’s breasts and lick her neck. Her hands moved faster and faster on our cocks as she got hotter and hotter. My hand moved down her tummy to her very wet pussy. She moaned as I slid one finger in and out of her wetness.
       
      The wine and beer was overwhelming and now we were becoming drunk with the sex as well. With a quick motion my wife slid down from the couch and began to suck my swollen cock. I closed my eyes and leaned my head back as she skillfully sucked me off and jerked Matt’s hardness. I felt her mouth move away and heard the sounds of her swallowing Matt’s shorter but thicker manhood. After sucking on us for a few minutes, I got down behind her and begin to lick her now soaking pussy. Her hips rose to allow me easy access to her magical place. I moved my tongue in and out of her. I enjoy the muffled sounds of her moans as Matt fucked her mouth.
       
      I pulled over the foot rest and told her to lie down. Now, Matt and I would be able to have our way with her as she laid on the footrest. I continued to lick her pussy as Matt rubbed his cock on her lovely tits. She was shaking with pleasure from the overload of 2 very horny men trying to explore every inch of her body. I said to Matt, “You must taste how wonderful she is.” He traded places with me and began licking her clit and moving his fingers inside of her. I started to caress her neck and kissing her forehead. “Do you like this?” I asked. She could only squeeze my hand in response. She began to cum as I fed her my cock and stroked her breasts. Matt was now eager to enjoy more of her tongue on his cock. I took my place between her legs and slowly teased her with the head of my cock. Her skin was warm from the long hot tub and blazing fire. I pushed my cock deeper and deeper into her as Matt fed her his cock. I started to fuck her harder and harder as she swallowed every inch of Matt. I could tell that she had fucked him before and now all of the inhibitions were melting away. She would pull his cock out of her mouth only long enough to tell us how good it felt. “Do you want more?” I asked. “Ohhh yes,” she replied. I grabbed her hips and fucked her harder and harder. Her body moved back and forth matching my strokes. Matt’s fingered moved to her clit and she exploded as we tag teamed her pussy.
       
      “Man, you have got to feel how good this is,” I said to Matt. I could feel Nicole’s body tense up from the idea of fucking her old friend again. “Would you like that Nicole? I asked. She didn’t speak, but nodded her head in approval. Matt took his place between her legs and began to fill her with his thick cock. I was so turned on watching her adjust to her new lover. I sat a few feet away stroking my cock for her as she watched me. She reached for my hand and squeezed it as Matt pounded into her. We were all sweating and hot from this crazy encounter. “Fuck him,” I whispered in her ear and that made her even hotter. She grabbed his ass and pulled him deeper and deeper. “I am gonna cum” he exclaimed as her hands pulled him closer and tighter. He moaned as he filled Nicole with his hot cum. I could hear her breathing deeper and deeper as she squeezed every once from him.
       
      “Your turn,” she exclaimed. I turn her on her tummy and began fucking her from behind. The wetness and excitement was too much to bear. I grabbed her hips and as my hot load exploded inside her. Again, I heard the same sigh for her as she reveled in the idea that she had just made two men completely sex crazed.
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