Need advice on wife not really enjoying oral sex on her!! Thanks

[mncurious 20]

Howdy everyone! For those concerned about us, we are doing just fine! Thank you for the support. I’ve really liked many of the posts, threads, insight, pics, and most importantly positive support from the community. Thank you.

 

My wife and I were talking about how we can both take the things her boyfriends show her during sex and how I can improve my own sexual skills. One area I LOVE is going down on my wife and love the taste and smell. Unfortunately, my wife is either indifferent at best or if not totally clean, actively against it. She prefers firm hard pressure and not just me licking and sucking between her legs. Given I love it, does the collective wisdom on here have any tips for me so she can enjoy it more, please?

 

Thanks for the advice on the post or in a PM. We did think about maybe using a dildo inside of her at the same time but that’s it. Maybe a palm massager?

[JandKinBoise 859]

Many women require penetration to orgasm. Try inserting 2 fingers, palm up while eating her. Find the g spot and rub it while licking. See if that helps.

[kcjones 59]

My wife orgasms almost exclusively from penetration, but we have learned that her clit simply isn't as sensitive as other women. She likes direct clit stimulation, especially using my tongue to apply a lot of pressure, then "Flicking" it. Sucking on it, draws more blood to the area, and therefore makes it more sensitive as well. Also there is the site OMGyes.com which has about 12 different videos/stories from women describing and instructing how they self pleasure.

[adamgunn 1,461]

Just to let you know, OMGYes has a one-minute introductory video, then they want you to pay $39 for full access.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

Just to let you know, OMGYes has a one-minute introductory video, then they want you to pay $39 for full access.

This sounds like worthwhile information.

[couplers 4,718]

Good advice here. My observation is that in your situation, you like a sexual activity that your wife doesn't, is a great reason why people agree to and practice some form of nonmonogamy. Perhaps your focus should be on a woman who wants that kind of attention.