How likely is it that me and my girlfriend will both find someone at a club?

[Marchingt9 15]

We're both 22. I'm just all around average guy 6ft 185lb not muscular. She is the same weight and 5ft 4in. She doesn't want an older guy (40+), and I do not want a woman that is not attractive. I'm not meaning to ruffle any feathers, but I feel like this eliminates the majority of people at the clubs. So what is the likely hood that we find someone?

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

I can only think of one way to answer your question: you should make a few club visits. You will then be able to retrospectively assess the probability. Why more than one visit? Even people who have a talent for "finding someone" do not find someone every time. And club regulars are not likely to warm up to you until they have seen you and engaged in conversation with you on a few different occasions.

 

An extra observation: do not defeat yourselves. If you walk into a club holding the notion that nothing is likely to happen than almost certainly nothing will happen.

[padoc 1,704]

I don't know what kind of club you've attended but some of the most attractive people we've ever seen we've seen at Trapeze, Players Club, The Pleasure Garden and The Private Affair. Perhaps you need a better club or maybe….you have way too high an opinion of yourself.