Erik13 157 Posted April 16, 2018 The single guy my wife played several times with now has a new GF. We have kept in touch with him as he's a really great guy and became a good friend. The other night she invited him and his new GF to come hang out with us at the bar...she has no idea. We told her we all met at a neighborhood party. We all hit it off but she's vanilla for sure. As the night went on he got rather tipsy and got touchy with my wife. His GF gave some strange looks but didn't think much of it. Now she wants the four of us to hang out on a regular basis. I don't know if we should pursue this friendship or not. I just don't want something said by mistake and him to lose the new relationship he has. Quote Share this post Link to post
adamgunn 1,460 Posted April 16, 2018 A problem for sure, which is what you might expect when mixing LifeStyle and vanilla relationships. I think I'd have a talk with him. Either he needs to keep his hands off your wife (and vice versa) or he needs to confess to his girlfriend. 9 Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,066 Posted April 17, 2018 Yes, he either needs to pick vanilla with his girlfriend or a different flavor that doesn't involve his GF... Quote Share this post Link to post
Erik13 157 Posted April 17, 2018 A problem for sure, which is what you might expect when mixing LifeStyle and vanilla relationships. I think I'd have a talk with him. Either he needs to keep his hands off your wife (and vice versa) or he needs to confess to his girlfriend. I agree about the confessing part...he played with my wife before he even met the gf. And the touching was just harmless arm around the shoulder stuff, but you're right. Quote Share this post Link to post
