High school sweethearts options?

[LJ90 15]

Hello everyone, I finally confessed to my gf that I would like to have a mfm with her and she was ok with it, like, she wasn't angry or something...

 

We are together since high school and we were each others first. We are 28.

 

In sex she likes sucking my thumb while I'm fucking her doggy and she likes getting her ass massaged and touched...I have bought her a realistic dildo and after confessing her my fetish, I asked her to suck it while I'm pounding her...she was wet as fuck, that made her very very horny.

 

When I asked her about threesomes, she told me that mfm is more possible than fmf only because she is not sure if she could handle another girl touching me, beside that, everything is ok.

 

I suggested her that we should try having mfm while on vacation...

 

What do you guys think?

[MrSaxon 39]

Pros and cons to the vacation thing, as anonymous is both. You don’t know a random dude that you think you’re picking up, so you don’t know what kind of baggage he might bring. Positive is you’ll never have to see him again if it’s weird, but you’ll have to see each other so make sure you communicate first.

[LJ90 15]

You are right, but the problem is that we dont want anyone known already...we want someone who is not our friend/neighbour and maybe we (i hope) can manage to find someone who will be ok even on vacation...maybe we could use some dating sites to speak a little with a potential person in that area before we come to that location...?

What do people suggest? Who is the best to be the first one to include in mfm beside friends?

 

Btw, she def agees now.

[adamgunn 1,460]

I think you're wise not to do friends . . . it can get messy when it's over.

 

The vacation thing is good, depending on the locale she can start chatting with a guy and see where it will go. But be prepared to have him say no when he finds out it's an MFM she wants. Very touchy negotiations.

 

Get yourself a paid subscription on SLS or Kasadie and advertise where you're going. But the problem now is with FOSTA, you'll only get responses from other paid members. A swing club is always a possibility if there's one in the neighborhood you're going to.

[LJ90 15]

Yes, i think she could mention in chat whats the situation and immidietly solve the problem if the guy is not for that.

 

We are from europe, i would like to get some more info about european dating sites...most are for usa, i mean most people are from us (you kinky ppl :P)

 

Btw, i was thinking that she could wear an anklet while on vacation and maybe get some attention to the right ppl?

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

First, you both need to talk more about this...seriously talk, not bedroom talk. Make sure that your relationship is great, not just good, with an abundance of trust and communication. If at this point she is still interested, then you need to decide if you are looking for a MFM, FMF, or couple to fulfill your fantasy. If you want a couple and to do this on a vacation, we would suggest Desire in Cancun, but don't go EXPECTING anything to happen (that's the best way to ruin a vacation). Expect to have fun and know that there is a chance that more could happen (and it very likely will, just don't put pressure on either of you by trying to force it to happen). If you want a MFM...well you can find that just about anywhere (single men looking for women and/or couples in the L/S are as common as cheeseburgers at McDonalds). Throw a rock and you will find one (usually by signing up on a lifestyle website...see Find Swingers at top of page). If it is a FMF you are looking for, there's a reason single women in the L/S are known as unicorns. Good luck and let us know what you are looking for and how things progress.

[LJ90 15]

We talked about relationship and everything...we want it (mfm) but its not a must, its something we would like to happen naturally on some vacation or something like that...she would try fmf too but she is not sure she could se other girl touch me but its not something she wont do either. So, mfm is primary, i would like her to experience one more cock at least, we can (i think) spice things up a bit too

[Funguy796 44]

Hello! Like others, I would be very careful about friends . . . lots of ways this will forever change things. I would go on a vacation and plan this out, discuss it and have options to back out if either of you change your minds. I personally enjoy being the 3rd in a MFM threesome, however, many guys are not. Definitely need to go to a paid subscription on SLS and advertise and sort and select. Good luck!

[LJ90 15]

Tnx for advices, i will check sls too...hope there are ppl from eastern europe too haha