Sex with someone new Physical or Psychological?

[findinganswers 369]

We are having fun playing with a group. One of the women asked the question if we can tell one woman from another. She stated that if a man is blindfolded and had sex doggie style we couldn’t tell one pussy from another. The guys all claimed that every puss is different. Some are tighter than others. They claim that once we started stroking it doesn’t make a difference. It made me think. I said I would like to prove that wrong by being with every woman at the party. The premise is interesting. I know that everyone moves and reacts uniquely, this would be solely the feeling of penetration.

[bryonboru 60]

From our experience blindfolded or not, every female feels different. It might only be a slight difference (wetness, internal ridges, angle, depth, grip), but it is a difference.

[scots 33]

I've always found them different, I'm sure women find all cocks different as well.

[NoAngels 334]

This has me thinking. I know some women are tighter and I think whose cervix is lower even though I think they move during sex. Now once you are in and as you say stroking some women are wetter which is something you might feel if you are bare. A condom would negate any wet feeing. Ridges and angles might be there, I’m not sure if you really notice during the thrusting. Being blindfolded is interesting. Are lights out with blackout curtains the same as blindfolded. Ones senses change with deprivation of a sense. It can highten your other senses or disorient. The physical sensations are heightened with the visual stimulation.

I have been told women can not actually sense size unless a man is either very big or small.

[TricianMike 777]

I sort of understand the OP. Once there is penetration it is more the motion than size. I know I can tell a thick dick going in. Once someone is thrusting unless like you said it is too big or small it is just good to me. There is something psychological playing with a very large man. Exciting? Sort of. Scared? Sort of. You will know the difference if you are blowing him.

Now Mike has said he can tell the difference in women. He says there are tighter and some are not tight at all. There is also a difference in wetness and he swears that some women can grab his dick.

Without having a dick compare, I agree that there is a difference that I have felt.

[adamgunn 1,460]

I would suggest that the vagina of women is pretty much the same. If all I was doing was pushing my dick into a pussy, I'm not sure I could tell the difference. (Yes, there's the occasional one that is tighter or looser, and one I remember in particular was physically hotter, but . . .)

 

But sex itself is so much more than simple penetration. Different women have different bodies, and they all have vastly different personalities, from the flirting and talk before to what they are into during the act. That's why I like to have sex with different women. (And my wife felt the same about men and their dicks.)

[GMOFLEISURE 221]

Theres differences, but I don't usually pay close attention. Maybe I should now???

[cplnluv1 872]

Sex is very psychological. It is so hard to describe a physical feeling. I have tried to describe the feeling to Alan. He has tried to describe by saying a woman was tight or she was hot. He has told me when a woman was too big or loose that he couldn’t finish in her. He needed to be finished by a mouth and I will say he isn’t too small. Alan I will play with the same woman and afterwards we like to talk. We have never shared a man so I will tell him things about the men. We will talk about the physical traits and some physical feelings. Of course I can’t tell how he feels when in someone I can tell when someone is tighter, wetter or more excited by playing with her. Part of the fun for us is when I tell him how pretty a pussy is. I wonder if anyone has critiqued mine. Alan isn’t as interested when I talk about the men. When it comes to the men the physical part is excited by the psychological. For the most part size is more psychological than the physical. I get excited seeing one for the first time. That first inspection, the length and thickness. The curves, the head shape and the junk. That all comes into play in oral and much less so when we fuck.

[PSULioness 857]

The question was posted to men and new partners. I’m not a man nor have I been with someone new recently. I asked my husband and our friend if they can tell a real difference. They claim they could. They asked if I could tell the difference between guys. I said of course I can. We played a game to see if I could tell the difference with them without looking. I know both penises pretty well. After a little play to get us all “ready” I promised not to look. One entered me. I knew it was our friend. I heard them whispering and again I said it was friend. They tried to trick me. A third time, still the friend. The fourth time I knew it was my husband. Not very scientific. I said of course I can tell the difference but I’m not sure if I can feel a major difference. It had more to do with other factors.

[GMOFLEISURE 221]

The question was posted to men and new partners. I’m not a man nor have I been with someone new recently. I asked my husband and our friend if they can tell a real difference. They claim they could. They asked if I could tell the difference between guys. ...

 

I'd always assume a woman could usually tell the difference. Now I'm getting interested in the question & plan of akin some mental notes in the future.

[JessicaJamison 862]

My kitty is tight so men better know when they are in me.  

[Fitlakecouple 451]

Um, you are fucking the person - the whole person - not just a pussy (or a cock)... It's a whole body, mind, spirit experience.