Planning our first visit to a club

[resnick 15]

I have a new girlfriend who is much younger than me. She is a gorgeous 30 year old latin beauty. She wants to go to a swinger's club and we have picked a date and a club. She wants to get fucked. She's had a bi experience in the past and may be open to that but I think she really just wants to get fucked by a stranger. I'd like to watch but it is all about her a far as I'm concerned. I'd love to get some advice on how to make sure she gets what she wants on our first visit.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

First off, welcome to the Swingers Board!

 

Maybe some more information is in order here. You want to "make sure she gets what she wants", does that mean just getting fucked, or do you mean something more specific like by a certain kind of guy or whatever? Since it sounds like she'll basically be playing as a single female, and those are in short supply at clubs along with everywhere else in the swinging world, then she'll have no problem having sex. Now, having sex with a guy that is perfect for her and she is really into? That may be a little more difficult. It's harder than you might think to find someone that you have really good chemistry with, which experienced swingers know is the most important thing for a good experience. It often takes some patience, since experienced swingers also know that rushing into things or not trusting your gut when the spark just isn't there rarely works out. If you go into a swinging experience thinking it will get better once things get fired up...it won't. So, assuming everyone wants that first swinging experience to be a great one (so hopefully there will be a second, third, and so on), then maybe slow down just a little here. That doesn't mean don't go to the club. Absolutely go to the club, just don't go with any expectations other than having a fun night together.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Nothing to add to the advice that cplnuswing has given. I will ad my greetings: to Swingersboard.