Our first Bliss Cruise Infinity 2019

[Beckybigtits 20]

My wife and I just booked our first Bliss Cruise for April 2019. We are extremely excited for this cruise as this will be our first time ever doing anything like this. We’re going on 8 years of marriage and really like the idea of trying new things, just very nervous about trying new things. We’re super strong in our marriage and are looking forward to going to meet and greets to ease into the “swing” of things. Lol.

 

At the end of the day, this will be an awesome cruise away from the kids and a great chance to relax.

[njbm 2,873]

We’ve been on two Bliss cruises. They are fun. Have you two “swung” before?

[divenaked 325]

We are also going to be on this cruise. It will be our second Lifestyle cruise.

[Outsiderelic 15]

We are also going on this cruise. I have cruised 5 times before a long time ago and all vanilla. This will be our first LS cruise. After being in the LS for 2 years it seems like a good idea.

[lnw 145]

We've been on 8 lifestyle cruises and have 3 more booked. First one was an eye opener and you can bet we were as nervous as you are now. But in reality, it is a no pressure environment (as long as everyone is respectful and I would say 99% are). Best things we can recommend in case you haven not thought about it or read othewise:

 

1. Set and respect each other's boundaries prior to the cruise. The less rules, the better but you both need to be on the same page on those. Communicate those rules when it seem like when talking to another couple that things will progress to the next level.

 

2. Go with no expectations other than to have one hell of a sexy time with each other. Don't force things to happen; those never turn out well. Let things happen organically.

 

3. Go to the many meet and greets hosted about 5PM each each on sea days. They will be posted in a daily flyer you receive each night in your cabin for the following day.

 

4. If you think you might have sex or some sort (soft or full) with others, pack protection. The ship will have some but selection is not great and, at times, they run out.

 

5. Circulate and talk to people. Introverts need to move outside their comfort zone or they will generally be overlooked. Introduce yourselves, let others know you are new, first time cruisers, ask for their tips and tricks... gets things going.

 

6. Pools will be clothing optional but most will be nude. Pools are NOT clothing optional when the ship is in port.

 

7. The only sex that takes place is either in the playroom with some 50+ beds or in your cabin. Sex anywhere else is prohibited. So you will not see sex orgies unless you go to the playroom or host one in your cabin!

 

8. It is ok to say "no" when asked to be touched or anything else. People in the LS generally know to ask for permission before doing anything but not everyone will abide by that. So feel free to say no when you are not comfortable with what is going on.

 

9. Make up contact cards (think like business cards) with a picture of you, first names, profiles names and sites, and email you use for this fun. Some print their cabin number on the cards. We write it on the back so we can use the cards on future cruises.

 

Tons of other info but this should give you a start. We had little prior info for our first LS cruise. Now we are regulars and love it.

 

Go and ENJOY!!

[njbm 2,873]

Great tips by lnw!Just want to add three small suggestions. If they have speed dating or massage classes (sign up early), attend. Great way to meet people.

 

When you eat dinner, sit with other people at random. Even if those people at the table are not a life style match, they may lead you to meet others.

 

Most of the Bliss cruises gave us a free white board to put on our cabin door. It helps if someone drops by your room and you are out. Our last Alaska LS Cruise did not provide one, wish we brought a small one.

 

Hang loose, don’t force anything and remember to have fun with your spouse!

[njbm 2,873]

We have signed up for this Bliss cruise, also.

[yourluvrman 28]

See you onboard. This April Bliss cruise will be my 13th LS cruise. November will mark number 14. February will make #15. As you can tell, it can be habit forming. :-)