Tattoos & Piercings a Dealbreaker?

[littleredhead 16]

Hi!

My boyfriend and I are new to the swinging community, we reserved a spot for this Saturday at a very known Swingers club close to where we live. It usually attracts around 300 couples in a night and is a very luxurious place!

 

I'm fairly young for this community, I guess, being 21. I would say I am a very tattooed person. No vulgar tattoos, or anything. Just very tattooed. I also have about five piercings in my face, not too big or flashy, they look feminine. But they're there.

 

I am just wondering how accepted these things are in the community? I know this community attracts more open minded people, but are they openminded towards tattoos and piercings, or is it a turn off? Will people not approach you because it looks 'dirty' or 'unclassy'?

[Chris&Suzanne 204]

Some people like them, others do not.

 

Personally we are not big fans.

[Fitlakecouple 451]

And some people will think look at that hot girl with the tats and piercings. She'll never be interested in us - we aren't edgy enough. Point is, everyone is self-conscious to some extent. Be confident - rock your art - and stop worrying.

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

I don't think that you will have any problems. Some will like, some won't. Just make sure that you don't hide in a corner...meet people and have a good time. As long as you are out and about meeting others, the others that enjoy this will find you. Good luck and have fun (don't forget to report back).

[Ozzie+Harriet 84]

I am just wondering how accepted these things are in the community? I know this community attracts more open minded people, but are they openminded towards tattoos and piercings, or is it a turn off? Will people not approach you because it looks 'dirty' or 'unclassy'?

 

I've never thought about piercings or ink in terms of being dirty, not being classy or whatever and I am neither turned off nor turned on by them. For me, it depends on whether or not I would find the tats or piercings distracting when having sex.

[JessicaJamison 861]

In my opinion Tatted up women and men are a lot more fun.  So you two can bring your tattooed booties over here lol.  My husband and I love the art of it all.  

[Thegreyarea 100]

I know this is old but just wanted to add that it’s really personal preference. Personally I love tattoos. My wife had a tattoo she got when we first started dating. She was a nurse for years and wouldn’t get anymore. A few years back she hung up her stethoscope and started her own business. She talked about wanting to get more tattoos for a couple years. I finally convinced her to go for it and she got her first tattoo covered up on her lower back. Then she started working on a sleeve. Then a thigh tattoo. She now has an appointment with her tattoo guy every couple months to add more. I think tattooed women are extremely sexy, but I don’t care if you don’t have a single one. 

[kittyswinger 260]

My dilemma now is my bf is requesting me that we get some tats together. I never had one, but I would like to try one on my outer thighs.  He will get it done on him on same location as mine in a corny way.  But my SO is not a tats guy and we never had one but Im trying to be mindful of his feelings.  Should i give it a try?  Any thoughts?  Btw, we are in a parallel polyamory relationship so I could if I want to.

[Fitlakecouple 451]

If you want a tatt - get a tatt. But get what speaks to you. Don't get a tatt because a BF wants you to... BF's are temporary - the ink is permanent.

 

[enhancer 1,585]

Tattoos and piercings on people are the norm these days for many!  There is nothing unique about seeing people with them anymore.  If people have a problem with others having them they had might as well just hide in a hole somewhere. 
 

Neither of us have tattoos and other then her ears no piercings. Just not a big interest of ours.  Saying that it certainly doesn’t make any difference to us if others do.  It doesn’t make us any more or less attracted to them. If they have a sexy body then they are going to have a sexy body with or without ink.  Just like ink isn’t suddenly going to make their body sexier to us if it wasn’t in the first place. 
 

I am pretty sure we have played with more people in the lifestyle that do have tats then not, because they are just that common now.

[njbm 2,871]

Not fans ourselves, but if other people want them, go for it. We have played with tatted people, ok with us.  

[let's do it again 414]

Tattoos are no problem whatsoever, especially in the pubic area!  Piercings I don't mind, I just try to be careful when getting passionate not to RIP or tear them. I don't have any tattoos due to the fact that I  never seen anything that I want on my body forever. Piercings on the other hand, I would like to have some, but don't want to damage my junk to get one! Lol