His first time with a man

[TheBiggerMan 83]

Did you tell him that you would like to see him with another man or did he suggest it? How did it happen? What went through your mind when it was happening?

[Guest]

I'm a bisexual man so I told my GF that I like threesomes with men or women.

 

To be fair however if I play with another man then the girls I have dated seem okay about it at first, but jealousy can still happen.

 

At first it seems fun / open minded / not a threat, but I guess in a women's eyes they son figure out another man can give me things she can't.

 

Personally I'd never date another man, really I just like MMF threesomes but still its easy for a girlfriend or wife to become jealous.

[JandKinBoise 859]

I bet there would be very few women that would bring this up. Men will bring up the desire to see her with another woman, but not so much the other way. Being visually stimulated, men enjoy the beauty of 2 women. Being emotionally stimulated, a woman will rarely bring up wanting her man to have sex with anyone, man or woman. But at least with a woman, they can compete. Allowing or suggesting he have sex with another man is admitting she may not be everything to him. My wife never brought it up, any hint in that direction on my part went unnoticed.

[NerdsAreFun 229]

Yeah, see that mistaken assumption posted all the time. "If I'm with another man it's less threatening/likely to cause jealously/etc than a woman". But the reverse can certainly be true. Another man can be more threatening because they can't offer the same experience.