fairladyz33 33 Posted June 15, 2018 my wife and i have been "hooking up" with a friend of mine for a while now, but lately I've been fantasizing about my buddy leaving his load in my wife. he talks about it with her all the time when they chat, and have barebacked for a while now. it's such a turn on ( i also fantasize about cumming in his wife but she dont like me) to watch them. she even teases me with it when her and i fuck. should i let him cum in her? 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
WesternSwing 504 Posted June 16, 2018 I say if it is a turn-on for both your wife and yourself and you're comfortable with your friend's health status (i.e. STI status) then why not? I'm curious, what about it makes you feel it might not be okay? Quote Share this post Link to post
JandKinBoise 858 Posted June 16, 2018 If she is fertile and on birth control, sure. I guess I don't see the problem. Is it some boundary you guys have? Quote Share this post Link to post
PSULioness 857 Posted June 16, 2018 I am guessing your wife is on birth control and you trust that all parties are disease free. Quote Share this post Link to post
adamgunn 1,460 Posted June 16, 2018 If you trust that all parties are STD free, you are a bit of a fool IMHO. Quote Share this post Link to post
njbm 2,874 Posted June 16, 2018 There is no reliable testing for HPV in men. And condoms are not 100% effective against it. No condom is 100% ineffective against HPV. The call is up to your wife. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
fairladyz33 33 Posted June 17, 2018 we're good with his heath (he gets checked regularly) we're also not sure she can even have kids since shes got some medical issues and birth control actually messes with her conditions so shes off. It'd really more of a fantasy, than anything. but she loves to tease me with it. Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,649 Posted June 18, 2018 It's important to the satisfaction of both the guys and women that we women receive cum, wherever it may be deposited. That's why we keep our play to our closed circle. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
Eddiem 139 Posted June 18, 2018 my wife and i have been "hooking up" with a friend of mine for a while now, but lately I've been fantasizing about my buddy leaving his load in my wife. he talks about it with her all the time when they chat, and have barebacked for a while now. it's such a turn on ( i also fantasize about cumming in his wife but she dont like me) to watch them. she even teases me with it when her and i fuck. should i let him cum in her? Well you have gone a long way already especially if they are discussing it. I too had this fantasy / fetish and TBH with the right person you trust and know well it is HIGHLY erotic. However our ground rules were that we would be in the same room. But to each is own. Our first threesome with an old friend that she normally would not be attracted to turned out that way and TBH it was the most erotic thing I have ever experienced seeing the head of his cock enter her, her expression and then when we was about to cum looking at her and me for approval (giving it) and seeing him tense up and explode in her. I did not examine the cum pouring out but she basically passed out from exhaustion and we lay there for hours reliving mentally the event. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
findinganswers 369 Posted June 19, 2018 If you are having sex bareback all the fears of std and pregnancy are already present. Even if he isn’t cumming he is leaving traces in your wife. When we first did this it was with friends. I didn’t know the etiquette. I figured I would pull out at the time. I was already stressed that first time. Nerves and how will I do. I thought we would use condoms and we didn’t. It was also my wife’s friend. There was foreplay and plenty of oral. We got to the point of me in her and her on top. We were both about to cum and I pulled out and she put me back in and started with the don’t stop and her cumming. Told her I was cumming and she held me tight. It was then I noticed my wife had done the same thing. I think you should respect what your wife wants. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
fairladyz33 33 Posted June 19, 2018 Well you have gone a long way already especially if they are discussing it. I too had this fantasy / fetish and TBH with the right person you trust and know well it is HIGHLY erotic. However our ground rules were that we would be in the same room. But to each is own. Our first threesome with an old friend that she normally would not be attracted to turned out that way and TBH it was the most erotic thing I have ever experienced seeing the head of his cock enter her, her expression and then when we was about to cum looking at her and me for approval (giving it) and seeing him tense up and explode in her. I did not examine the cum pouring out but she basically passed out from exhaustion and we lay there for hours reliving mentally the event. this pretty much sums up my entire fantasy lol 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
fairladyz33 33 Posted June 19, 2018 which i do but like i said she kind just gives me the run around when we talk about it so i really dont know what her thoughts are Quote Share this post Link to post
DaddyzGurl 31 Posted June 21, 2018 Yes! Yes let him cum in her! Yes! You'll probably be happy you did especially later when its your turn! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
fairladyz33 33 Posted June 21, 2018 Yes! Yes let him cum in her! Yes! You'll probably be happy you did especially later when its your turn! i know i will but she also has to be ok with it Quote Share this post Link to post
DaddyzGurl 31 Posted June 23, 2018 i know i will but she also has to be ok with it Awe I get so wet when I hear the "hubby's" catering to us woman's needs & desires! You are right & only a real man would say that! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
fairladyz33 33 Posted October 12, 2018 Hey all, I just wanted to update you all. We went ahead and tried it. At first it was awesome, she loved it and so did he. As eddiem said it was SO damn erotic. It happened when we were at a lake party. They were getting a little handsy with each other, so i told them to get a room. A short time after, my buddy comes up to me with a raging hard on asking if I care if he spends some time alone with my wife. I look at her as she smirks and walks past both of us teasing as she walks by. He grabs her butt as they head into the house. I follow in shortly after since she likes when I watch. I sneak into the room as they're making out, his hands slowly trace my wife's curves making his way to the bikini top straps. I feel myself getting harder as the top falls off and his hands touch her breasts. She moans softly as she goes to her knees pulling his suit down with her, revealing his hard cock. She smiles at him as she cups his balls and licks her way up his shaft to the head. I watch his cock disappear into her throat as he thrusts into her mouth. This goes on for a few minutes until he pulls his cock out out of her mouth, grabs her hips, spins her then bends her over and rips off her bottoms. He puts on a condom and teases her clit with his cock. I hear her moan as he slowly splits her pussy lips and enters her, stretching her out. I pull my dick out and start stroking it as he increases speed and thrusts into her. They switch up position and she climbs onto his cock, slowly sliding down his shaft. She quickly climaxes on his cock yellinG his name as she orgasms. She quickly pulls off him, yanks the condom off and goes back to riding him. She rides him faster and faster, until I hear him say to her I'm getting close, oh god I'm getting close, FUUUUUUUCK!!! I watch his balls thrust all his cum deep into her pussy. I then nut massively as i watch her climb off of him. It was absolutely amazing and we've done it a couple of times more since! Best fantasy ever. 4 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
venusshaw 123 Posted October 12, 2018 Congratulations! :sex:You've already done it then. Go the next step, and watch him come in her mouth, while she swallows them all. Your write up was good, but you did not complete. Did you watch the semen trickling down her pussy. What did she do with all that cum. Did you cum on her or wasted your stuff on the ground? Quote Share this post Link to post
fairladyz33 33 Posted October 12, 2018 shes already swallowed before so thats nothing new lol after she got off his cock she put her bikini back on and went down on me. pretty sure she sucked my soul out too. she left his load in for most the night. i love watching it happen now. especially when she keeps it in her 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
skyguy6977 88 Posted October 15, 2018 it is a very great turn on for my husband to see a man cum in me. 5 Quote Share this post Link to post
fairladyz33 33 Posted October 17, 2018 apparently it has become my favorite fetish lol cant say i want to stop it either 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
Numex 2,420 Posted October 17, 2018 after she got off his cock she put her bikini back on and went down on me. If your wife's up for it, you should dip into her pussy for sloppy seconds. A treat you should not miss. If you're up for it, you should go down on your wife to give her a second orgasm. A treat she shouldn't miss. If all three of you are up for it, do a DP, you in her pussy while he takes her ass. A treat for all. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
venusshaw 123 Posted October 17, 2018 Are you sure? No one comes inside me - condom is compulsory, except with my husband. They can cum on my tits. face and anywhere else, but no entry without condom. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
PSULioness 857 Posted October 17, 2018 I don’t know how you see your friend cumming inside. You may watch him him have an orgasm but if he is in your wife his ejaculation will physically be in her Hidden from you seeing. The question of cumming in or out is a little perplexing. If you are having sex without a condom you have thought about the risk of STDs. I would think you have already taken precautions for pregnancy. When I am having sex with a guy, or for that matter a girlfriend, I would want them to keeep going until they orgasm. I would feel cheated if a guy stopped before I orgasmed. I can’t imagine someone stopping just before I was going to cum. Not every guy gets me to orgasm but to stop just before wouldn’t be right. I don’t get the Rules. No kissing, no cuddling, no cumming. If I could take you in my mouth and let you cum why would I stop you from cumming in me there. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post
fairladyz33 33 Posted October 18, 2018 its watching him pump his cum into that gets me off. it did not disappoint. i left such a load in her mouth lol yes we all have taken steps when dealing with std's even though std tests arent perfect. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
BobGann 40 Posted October 19, 2018 You see the topic of bareback sex come up quite a bit. I think we can all agree that this lifestyle entails certain risks, regardless of how safe you are, not just STD/pregnancy type "physical" risks, but emotional and relationship risks as well if you get right down to it. It it up to each individual to assess what they are comfortable with and what is fun. If it is a turn on for you, and you are all comfortable with it, go for it, I say. Glad to see that you did and that it was as hot as you thought it would be! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
agreatguy 269 Posted October 20, 2018 It's a huge turn on to watch my wife. From the first flirt, the first kiss, the blow job to the penetration. She loves it all as much as I do but at the end of the night I have no desire to reclaim her with another guy's cum in her pussy. Not at all judging the guys who do get turned on by it. It's just not for me. Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,649 Posted October 20, 2018 She loves it all as much as I do but at the end of the night I have no desire to reclaim her with another guy's cum in her pussy. May I ask then, how long do you wait? Do you have some sort of cleaning ritual that defines when she is once again "fresh?" I understand that sperm can live inside a woman for several days and for me as a woman it is a tremendous post-intercourse turn-on the next day or so to think that that the living part of a man or two or three or (once) four, is inside of me, looking around. Quote Share this post Link to post
fairladyz33 33 Posted October 21, 2018 It's a huge turn on to watch my wife. From the first flirt, the first kiss, the blow job to the penetration. She loves it all as much as I do but at the end of the night I have no desire to reclaim her with another guy's cum in her pussy. Not at all judging the guys who do get turned on by it. It's just not for me. it gets me hard just thinking about them doing that lol Quote Share this post Link to post
fairladyz33 33 Posted October 21, 2018 May I ask then, how long do you wait? Do you have some sort of cleaning ritual that defines when she is once again "fresh?" I understand that sperm can live inside a woman for several days and for me as a woman it is a tremendous post-intercourse turn-on the next day or so to think that that the living part of a man or two or three or (once) four, is inside of me, looking around. thats sooooo damn sexy lol 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
1hotminute 72 Posted October 22, 2018 sounds super hott. Have you slid in there for sloppy seconds yet? It’s like your homeboy leaving you some lube up in there all wet then you can cum in her and when you pull out it’s like a mess. My wife would let me and my boy both cum In her pussy deep. Felt super good. Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,649 Posted October 24, 2018 I understand that sperm can live inside a woman for several days and for me as a woman it is a tremendous post-intercourse turn-on the next day or so to think that that the living part of a man or two or three or (once) four, is inside of me, looking around. thats sooooo damn sexy lol It is likely a result of my Catholic schooling, sex was taught totally from the viewpoint of biology and reproduction. It was mentioned that it might be enjoyable, but that we should ignore that. So here was I (and likely every other girl; boys had separate classes) getting wet thinking about exploring a boy's body while there's a biology lesson going on. So when I have sex with a guy I always think about what's going on inside on a microscopic level, even when not trying to get pregnant. It's also why it's so much more of a turn on for a guy to ejaculate his sperm into my vagina than into either end of my digestive system. Those sperm can live inside my vagina and uterus for days, while I suspect they die a quick and undignified death in my stomach or large intestine. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
EastInWest 1,524 Posted October 24, 2018 The conversations on this forum are always way better than any of the other swingers/sex forums out there. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
padoc 1,703 Posted October 24, 2018 Stomach acid or e-coli, not a pleasant choice for the swimmers is it?? Quote Share this post Link to post
fairladyz33 33 Posted October 25, 2018 i wasnt brought up through catholic school so i dont really see it that way but totally makes it better Quote Share this post Link to post
agreatguy 269 Posted October 25, 2018 May I ask then, how long do you wait? Do you have some sort of cleaning ritual that defines when she is once again "fresh?" I understand that sperm can live inside a woman for several days and for me as a woman it is a tremendous post-intercourse turn-on the next day or so to think that that the living part of a man or two or three or (once) four, is inside of me, looking around. Hey, sorry I just saw that you asked this question. I guess I wasn't clear enough in my answer. Since we use condoms with others it's really not an issue. I was just commenting on my perspective of that particular part not being a turn on. Again, not judging those who like it. We all like different things. Quote Share this post Link to post
couplers 4,649 Posted October 26, 2018 ... I guess I wasn't clear enough in my answer. Since we use condoms with others it's really not an issue. I was just commenting on my perspective of that particular part not being a turn on. Again, not judging those who like it. We all like different things.You were clear, I just wasn't keeping all the posts straight in my head as to who said what. I'm not sure that guys necessarily want to be second, it's just that they want to get their's too. But IDK, maybe from an evolutionary standpoint a guy is more likely to have his sperm win the race if he's second because his dick scoops out the first batch. From my perspective, if it's an FMF, I like to be second. A man has to try much harder to orgasm and I like to watch him struggle. One of my favorite sequences is to be licked by her as he's going into her from behind, then after all three of us have cum, suck him up and do missionary. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
ViSexual 1,008 Posted October 27, 2018 Now we did our full swapping back in the days that STD's weren't such a huge issue. And, all of our swaps were bareback. I fondly remember the wonderful feel of my cock in my wife when she was still full of another man's cum. Now, since then, I've gone down on her numerous times after I filled her but I never had the pleasure of going down on her after someone else filled her. Given another chance, I sure would. Quote Share this post Link to post
Alura 2,774 Posted October 27, 2018 Mr. Playmate and I had just filled the other's wife, and rolled off to recover. Mrs. Playmate was gasping for breath as was Mrs. Alura, but for a different reason. Laura placed a knee on each side of my head and said, "I have a steaming pussy full of come, Darling. I need your magic tongue." That told me she hadn't climaxed. Her vagina knew the way to my mouth. Holding the labia apart, she nestled them over my nose, letting loose a flood from within. I managed to sweep most away to run down my cheeks while I concentrated on making Laura yodel. While Laura was peaking, I felt Mrs. Playmate's warm mouth engulf me. Laura was holding Mr. Playmate's rapidly recovering cock, her lips headed for it. She rolled onto her back, pointed her toes at the ceiling and guided Mr. Playmate where she fully expected him to deposit another load. He did. Mrs. Playmate and I found each other again and added to one of my favorite swinging memories. Thanks to the Swingers Board for giving me the opportunity to relive those wonderful times. 6 Quote Share this post Link to post
gaga2018 27 Posted October 31, 2018 I should let him doing it. If he is health is ok and both of you want that why not? Its amazing watching our gf having pleasure 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
venusshaw 123 Posted November 4, 2018 No, I will not let anyone come in me, unless we are in a relationship and tested. I like cum in me, but that is a sacrifice. So after every fuck, my husband comes in me, but I am not satisfied without cum in me. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Aaron911 45 Posted February 4, 2019 I made the same mistake with my bestfriend and he ended up getting my wife pregnant so its definitely not a good idea. Quote Share this post Link to post
Lee714 82 Posted February 10, 2019 It would be a great visual if you could get a view of his throbbing cock delivering it's load. His cock would have to partially withdrawn though. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Bluespruce1 706 Posted February 10, 2019 I get a huge rush when my friends ejaculate inside her. I know that she loves it as well knowing that she has brought them to a full climax. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
Eddiem 139 Posted March 12, 2019 if you are comfy with him then yes... trust me it is the most erotic experience of your life watching another man tense up and cum inside your wife. I can only say... emotional roller coaster. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
Numex 2,420 Posted March 12, 2019 I made the same mistake with my bestfriend and he ended up getting my wife pregnant so its definitely not a good idea. How did you know it was his? Quote Share this post Link to post
Aaron911 45 Posted March 13, 2019 How did you know it was his? To be honest... we didnt know if it was mine or his... Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,066 Posted March 14, 2019 I was adopted, my dad is the one who raised me and was there while I grew up. Genetics are overrated, you ARE the father and nothing else really matters especially to your child. Quote Share this post Link to post
Aaron911 45 Posted March 19, 2019 I was adopted, my dad is the one who raised me and was there while I grew up. Genetics are overrated, you ARE the father and nothing else really matters especially to your child. Yes i completely agree with you! Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest Posted March 19, 2019 I enjoy it when a man comes inside of me but I don’t think it matters to my husband one way or the other, freind or not. On the otherhand, he does like it when I swallow their cum, whether its a bj or if I just go down and do it after they cum inside or elsewhere. Quote Share this post Link to post