Friends with Benefits

[onefuncpl 22]

So has anyone become good friends with couples in the LS? For example, having a connection with the spouse, sexually and as a friend?

[two4youinswva 3,068]

I've mentioned this on here several times over the years, but our story is we have become very close to a small handful of couples, BUT, the closer we become, the less sex we have with them. Don't know why, but that seems to be the way it happens for us. We know of others that have the same experience.

[adamgunn 1,460]

We became very close to friends we met in the LifeStyle. Vanilla activities, travel, each met the other's kids.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Help me, onefuncpl. Has just of you "having a connection" with to a "spouse"? Or is it, rather, that both of you are developing connections with the play couple's spouses?

[onefuncpl 22]

I'm friends with both, when I mean 'connection', I mean that we are both, the husband and I, are chatty on text, volunteer in the community and just always have something to talk about. Our spouses both make fun, because we were all out at a club, and the spouse 'husband' and I were chatting with each other and other people, and they , our spouses, were on the sides being quiet but talking to each other about us being so chatty. It's no problem, it's just funny how opposites do attract for your life partner, but a similar personality in another person is good to hang out with sometimes that's all.

[onefuncpl 22]

OMG! Yes, we do have sex less and more vanilla fun. But that's with one couple, but the other couple, we still play regularly.

[Guest]

We have had “friends with benefits but didn’t meet them on LS or an older site.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

We've been 'dating' one couple for several years. Sometimes we go out to the movies/dinner/vanilla activity and have a great time then say goodnight, other times we get together just to 'play'. We call each other 'nbbf' (naughty bbf's). Occasionally the wives get together and do a spa day, community walk, or something. Sometimes the guys get together and work on the boat/house/cars. The only thing we do not allow is girl/guy cross interaction. There just isn't any reason for it to happen and just easier/safer/more comforting to keep things this way. So far things really couldn't get much better...