Unicorn or pro escort?

[WeRblk2curious 26]

First, let me thank everyone for the kind help they gave me thus far in the other thread.

 

My wife and I have recently met through one of the KIK groups an Unicorn, (Bi-Curious Single Female) and are attempting to set up an in person meet in a couple of weeks. She lives two hours away, so it will require us to make some effort to get this coordinated.

 

So far, all communication has been through the KIK app and we seem to be getting along really really well.

 

But one thing has gotten my gut telling me it may be a problem. We've asked for pictures as her Profile just has a breast shot and nothing else. The pictures she has sent haven't been live pics through the app, they have been shots in which she says "I've taken these a while back" or one shot she sent she said "This is one when I was a bit heavier two months ago".

 

So being the curious internet perv that I am, I ran her pics through Tineye and Yannex to see if she was just posting fake pics.

 

One pic came back as an exact match to a pic that was on an Ohio Escort Page, for an escort working in the area (page was last updated 2 years ago).

 

So my question is for the group: Is she a Unicorn, or could she be a Pro trying to solicit for a date? So far, no conversations have involved money, or hints of asking for any type of "sugar daddy / sugar momma" activity between us, quite the contrary the conversations, 60% of them have been non sexual ( discussing what we do for a living, what are days are like, what we did for the fourth, etc.)40% have been sexual, but equal parts flirtation and exchanging sexy memes.

 

Do Pro's troll swingers groups? is that even a thing? Or could this just be that she sent a one off picture and it isn't even her?

 

We have requested an online video chat with her, we hope to have that happen this weekend so we can put the issue to rest. But, I'd thought I'd ask for some advice in the meantime.

 

TIA!

[Chris&Suzanne 204]

I've seen several posting from single women on SLS, that seem questionable. I'm sure there are 20 year olds looking for people in their 60's..but not totally convinced. If it seems too good to be true, it probably is.

[njbm 2,871]

This may not end well, Caveat emptor.

[Guest]

Probably best to have a video call, or at least a telephone call with this women first, before travelling all of that way to meet her.

[PeterJ 948]

I find it impossible to envision a happy scenario under which the person with whom you have been corresponding would send the photo from an escort’s page. I don’t have personal experience with professional sex workers, but it seems unlikely this person is a pro. The ads I used to see in newspapers or on websites always had a reference to “generous” or some such.

 

My best guess is that you are being trolled by a person (more likely male than female) who gets satisfaction doing that sort of thing. I’d be surprised if the video chat ever happens, but if it does that would be a positive sign.

 

In any case, best wishes for you two in finding the partner(s) you are seeking.

[WeRblk2curious 26]

Thanks for all the sagely advice. So far, our requests for Video Chat have been met with excuses ( I was out studying late last night, didn't get home to late; My phone didn't notify me you were online).

 

At this point, we are of the unified agreement ( the wife and I) that if Video Chat DOESN'T happen by Weds., we are going to break all communication and chalk her up to being a flake.

She has no problem answering one off "Good Mornings" or " Good Evenings" but ignores the "Hey, there you are, let's video chat NOW" posts right after.

 

Our search as always continues. We just joined SLS and SDC, so here's to continued hope...

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

. . . Our search as always continues. We just joined SLS and SDC, so here's to continued hope...

These Web sites do not typically produce quick results. Persist and allow time. There will be an eventual payoff.

[BlackCouple99 17]

Hope everything works out for you but be very careful.

[padoc 1,703]

OP, several things to consider. Have you actually spoken to this person? Are you even certain it's a girl? There are some weirdos out there, even on this site, who like playing head games with people. Do pros troll swinger sites?? Absolutely! I have seen single female profiles that obliquely mention money or travel. Ive also seen single male profiles offering vacations or a cruise or other "considerations". We have also been to swinger clubs where guys have come in with women who were clearly rented for the night. I think the key to the matter is the evidence you discovered from Ohio. That would be enough for us to drop this contact like a syringe in San Francisco.

[Fla-swing99 136]

We realize this post is an older one but, we are new to this site and reading through many posts, new and old. First we are curious as to how things turned out for you? Did you cut off all comunications, did “she” finally video verify or even phone verify with you, basically, how did things go or not go.

 

We belong to a swingers site and we have found quite a few fakers/cat-fishers, etc. Our outlook on things is if we start to chat with anyone we have an interest in meeting and possibly playing with we, after some brief chat or emails or IM’s we go directly to the let’s all verify phase. Either we speak on the phone with them or we video chat with them. We don’t do weeks of endless back n forth emails dragging things on and on. When we get to the point of verifying, it’s not only for us to ensure they are real but for them to verify we are real as well. We want to make sure it’s not a guy pretending to be a single female unicorn or a couple when it’s really just a single male pretending to be a couple and things such as that. If they are real and interested there should not be any reservations about agreeing to a phone call or video chat. When we propose that to them and we get 101 excuses as to why they can’t or won’t, and we have heard so many excuses it’s rediculous, then we discontinue any further effort until we can all verify each other. Not sure who it was previous in this thread that said it but, it’s true, some people out there get off on playing those types of games.

 

That’s just our opinion on this issue, I am sure others may feel very different about it.

[WeRblk2curious 26]

We realize this post is an older one but, we are new to this site and reading through many posts, new and old. First we are curious as to how things turned out for you? Did you cut off all comunications, did “she” finally video verify or even phone verify with you, basically, how did things go or not go.

 

 

We finally did set up a lunch meet as she could never get the video to work. The Lunch meet happened, she was very nice and sweet, but she wasn't interested in me, just the wife. So we passed.

[JessicaJamison 861]

I think its more likely a dude stole some pics of an escort site and is trying to trick swingers into thinking he's a hot bisexual unicorn so you'll sext with him.  

[GoldCoCouple 4,065]

It looks like the original post hasn't come back since March so I doubt you will get an answer. Also,here in the USA, an escort does not always mean that they will have sex with you (that's prostitution and illegal). OK, they usually will, but paying for sex is still illegal in most states (unless you are just paying indirectly for dinner/movies/other activities).