Our first night

[oceanreward 20]

So, the wife & I paid our first ever visit to a club at the weekend. This was the very first time for us both as we are total newbies to the lifestyle. We had discussed at length over the last few months what we were happy to do, we set boundaries but went with a complete open mind because we weren't exactly sure what to expect but were certain we were not going to go past our limits this time.

 

So we got there & got checked in to our room (this club has separate hotel rooms for those wishing to stop over & it's an hour & half drive for us). We got ready, shirt & trousers for me & our lass in a stunning Basque & stockings under a velvet dress. We were shown round by one of the club staff who was very helpful. By then a few couples had started to arrive so we grabbed a drink & sat down. Now we had already decided about how far we were prepared to go if we met a couple that we liked but we sat & watched for a while just to get a feel for the night & how a club night went. After a few hours a few of the ladies vanished off to the locker room & returned looking stunning....lace, leather, boots, heels ??. There was one couple that caught both of our attention but they seemed very popular with other folk as they arrived so we didn't bother them. We had a look around the play rooms but by then it was getting way too hot for our lass in her outfit so we went back upstairs where she changed into a baby doll & heels & went back down. We found a private play room & went for a cuddle & 20 mins us time & spoke about how we both felt so far & all was great....She felt sexy!

 

That alone made the evening for me as she's ALWAYS been so down & unconfident with her body but seeing her walking around in a club wearing a sexy outfit & not being bothered too much about her body made me so proud of her.

 

She fancied a massage from one of the members who runs the dungeon (his massages are legendary there we were told) so she hopped up onto the table & started to receive a light spanking from this gentleman while I watched (she likes a bit of light bondage so wasn't phased by this). After a few mins of this she beckoned me over & told me to stand infront or her & she gave me the greatest BJ ever whilst she was getting a rub down. To cut a long story short, she ended up naked on her back, with my cock in her mouth, the gentleman playing with her pussy & having both her boobs kissed, sucked & played with by him & another lady that asked to join us. She was in heaven. That was as far as it went other than the pair of us going to our room & having the best sex we've had in many a year.

 

Over all were we happy with how it went??? The answer is deffo yes. It was a great night even if it was slightly daunting to begin with. We know what we want from a night, we know we need to talk to more folk & hopefully that will lead to a bit more fun for both of us. The main thing is Mrs W was happy, her self confidence has grown no end so we can now start on building our experience up. We're planning on going back next month if we can get the time off together but we are in no hurry, we don't want to rush in & ruin the experience. I can see a lot of fun ahead of us both!!!

[GoldCoCouple 4,068]

 

The hardest part is always the walk thru the door. Thanks for sharing your evening with us.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

Pleased to know that it all went well.

[Newtothis9293 15]

We travel to sw pa often from Erie whats the club name you went to if you don’t mind?

[SW_PA_Couple 4,026]

We travel to sw pa often from Erie whats the club name you went to if you don’t mind?

The OP referred to a club in the United Kingdom, of course, and I made no mention in this thread of any club. But I can tell you that my wife and I are familiar with three clubs near us: DJ's Island Very Private Club, The Body Shop, and Party at Scouts. We favor none above the others. Apart from the different faults each has, they're all good places for meeting people.

[HMSV 15]

Congratulations.k

Your wife will grow in confidence.

Let us know how things go the next time you visit that club.

[Scaredstiff 129]

Sounds like you had a great first experience, so glad it went well for you! Funny how being a member here and reading the posts, taking the advice etc often results in a great entry into the swinging world ha ha.

Do you mind if I ask which club you visited? We are also in the UK, Midlands area.

[Allyandhubby 39]

So, the wife & I paid our first ever visit to a club at the weekend. This was the very first time for us both as we are total newbies to the lifestyle. We had discussed at length over the last few months what we were happy to do, we set boundaries but went with a complete open mind because we weren't exactly sure what to expect but were certain we were not going to go past our limits this time.

 

So we got there & got checked in to our room (this club has separate hotel rooms for those wishing to stop over & it's an hour & half drive for us). We got ready, shirt & trousers for me & our lass in a stunning Basque & stockings under a velvet dress. We were shown round by one of the club staff who was very helpful. By then a few couples had started to arrive so we grabbed a drink & sat down. Now we had already decided about how far we were prepared to go if we met a couple that we liked but we sat & watched for a while just to get a feel for the night & how a club night went. After a few hours a few of the ladies vanished off to the locker room & returned looking stunning....lace, leather, boots, heels . There was one couple that caught both of our attention but they seemed very popular with other folk as they arrived so we didn't bother them. We had a look around the play rooms but by then it was getting way too hot for our lass in her outfit so we went back upstairs where she changed into a baby doll & heels & went back down. We found a private play room & went for a cuddle & 20 mins us time & spoke about how we both felt so far & all was great....She felt sexy!

 

That alone made the evening for me as she's ALWAYS been so down & unconfident with her body but seeing her walking around in a club wearing a sexy outfit & not being bothered too much about her body made me so proud of her.

 

She fancied a massage from one of the members who runs the dungeon (his massages are legendary there we were told) so she hopped up onto the table & started to receive a light spanking from this gentleman while I watched (she likes a bit of light bondage so wasn't phased by this). After a few mins of this she beckoned me over & told me to stand infront or her & she gave me the greatest BJ ever whilst she was getting a rub down. To cut a long story short, she ended up naked on her back, with my cock in her mouth, the gentleman playing with her pussy & having both her boobs kissed, sucked & played with by him & another lady that asked to join us. She was in heaven. That was as far as it went other than the pair of us going to our room & having the best sex we've had in many a year.

 

Over all were we happy with how it went??? The answer is deffo yes. It was a great night even if it was slightly daunting to begin with. We know what we want from a night, we know we need to talk to more folk & hopefully that will lead to a bit more fun for both of us. The main thing is Mrs W was happy, her self confidence has grown no end so we can now start on building our experience up. We're planning on going back next month if we can get the time off together but we are in no hurry, we don't want to rush in & ruin the experience. I can see a lot of fun ahead of us both!!!

 

This is what we want so bad!! Congrats!!