Wife wants lesbian to turn her out!!!

[Agent Gama 21]

My wife, beautiful straight Girl has nvr been with a woman beyond college make out sessions.She is very sexual and often fantasizes about a woman eating her out and fingering her. She usually comes multiple times with this fantasy. Enjoying watching her climax and being pleased, we have come close to bringing a friend back to a hotel on business travel until the friends jealous lesbian gf pulled the plug. London and I are looking to hear about your similar stories of failures or even better success. She it’s getting antsy and I would love to make an introduction.

 

Gio & London,

[couplers 4,648]

Probably the best way for her to begin her fantasy would be to find a woman for some alone play, just your wife and her, rather than trying to involve you in any way. To make it honest, however, you three (or four if the woman has a husband or partner) should first get together to meet socially and put the other woman at ease that you are OK with it.

 

The only thing that gives me pause, however, is that you say your wife's fantasy is having "a woman eating her out and fingering her." Is your wife willing to reciprocate?

 

Good luck, let us know how it goes.

[Agent Gama 21]

I don’t need to be involved, this is primarily about her! She craves being pleased and not as turned on about pleasing (selfish). I will say however that if it’s the right girl and the attraction is there, it would go both ways... at that point I may need to get involved (with her)... Or with the new toy!! We basically look at others as a toy...

[Jane1902 476]

I don't like being viewed as a toy. Just be real clear what you are looking for in meeting other women and that your wife may not reciprocate.

[Agent Gama 21]

Your perspective is interesting. Out of curiosity, what’s your perspective of how other couples view you or others they engage? I personally feel as tho, for us to make this work, it must simply be about the experience and pleasure. I’m absolutely not looking for any emotional bonds nor anything established beyond trust of boundaries, responsible fun, discreetness. I personally would not classify that as anything beyond a business partner due only to the human element. Strip down to the bare bones, as a king, I only wish to serve my queen a toy so I may relax and enjoy without putting in the work and so we can both enjoy the fantasy. Once finished, they are banished until next time they are requested.

 

For us, The other couple we engage with needs to have a similar perspective.

[Jane1902 476]

For us, The other couple we engage with needs to have a similar perspective.

 

This is why it is so important to be clear what we each are looking for. I am a FWB person, amazing sex and great conversation. We may talk and share other details of our lives but not necessarily mix them, and on occasion participate in vanilla activities too. I had a recent and sudden loss and I reached out to one of my partners for comfort, no problem. My toys have batteries and can't carry on a conversation.

[OpenMindedPair 35]

VERY erotic, healthy, natural and hopefully you get her that experience to enjoy. Let us know how it goes!

 

Most women have a bi streak at least enough to be a pillow princess at least once with a female they fond attractive.

 

That's from a great deal of lovers sharing their experience and desires of other women.

 

One ex gf would sleep with a woman I asked her to and even the bf if that made it happen. She said while comfortable and partying she's loved sex with women but she wouldn't date one as a monogamous romantic partner. If that makes sense

[Numex 2,420]

My wife's the kind of woman who likes the challenge of satisfying pillow princesses, especially new, reluctant, hesitant ones. With one it had to be a lot of alone play at first to make her comfortable. Others needed their man next to them kissing and saying it's alright. All but one now eagerly reciprocates, but my wife will still go down on her whenever she wants.

[mandjneworleans 19]

We have a number of women that would say. "I have never been with a woman, but would love to. I could receive but can not return the favor". Sometimes she changes her mind, then or later.

[couplers 4,648]

I don't like being viewed as a toy...

 

Don't presume that I am a toy, but let's discuss it because sometimes that is what I really want - being fucked silly by a guy or two just for their pleasure; interposed between a man and a women, I licking her as he fucks me; Lora spanking my bum... Sometimes, if you consent, it's fun being "used."

[ToeDippers 83]

You are where we were a short time ago. BEWARE.

Finding a Unicorn is very difficult. What you will find is plenty of men willing to help. You will get “women” or so they say willing to help. We made dates that never happened. Dates where only men showed up. We finally met a couple where it was prearranged that the men wouldn’t be involved, only watch. It sounded very sketchy. They put us in contact with other couples they had met who were looking for a first. Their contacts confirmed. We were still not sure.

At our date my wife and the other wife only went so far. Nude, kissing, some touching. No oral sex. My wife couldn’t go through with it. My wife claimed it was too freaky having two men watching. I say she just wasn’t ready to act it out.

Talk first. Make sure she wants to go forward and that it’s about her not you. Be careful who you meet. Not everyone you will contact is who they say they are. Unicorns are called that for a reason. Don’t rush. You may be surprised that someone in your own social circle will be willing. Be extra careful if you find someone you know. That brings its own cautions

[couplers 4,648]

Hubby and I didn't search online, personal ads or clubs for women. I approached acquaintances from the gym, coffee shop, bookstore, one from church even. We would date them together: take them to dinner, the theater, concerts, even on vacation with us (separate rooms) paying for everything and never expecting anything. We would never come on to her, but create opportunities for her to take it further: I would leave her alone with David to show I was not jealous and comfortable with it (and call her phone letting her know I was coming back), I would undress/dress in front of them both. While I was primarily looking for her to play with David (and hopefully letting me watch), we were open to her being Lesbian with me and to threesomes. Most didn't go anywhere sexually but were fun, some were willing to fuck hubby, a few get with me and two were lovers for both of us. Regardless, there were no hard feeling or regrets by anyone and we still occasionally get together with all of the women that we are still in contact with, one even openly discusses the adventures we three had in the presence of her husband.

[JessicaJamison 861]

My first time was in my early 20s, I met was at a gay club with my friend and the bar tender was a lesbian.  She was flirting with me and told me she got off in an hour.  I told her I was flattered but straight.  She looked at me hard and long and said, "so exactly how straight are we talking?"  I was shocked and said what?  She said tell you what the drinks are on me as long as you stay right there and let me look at you for the rest of the night?  At first I wanted the drinks so I stayed,  she brought an incredible flirt game.  By the time she was ready to leave I was drunk and enjoying the attention.  A guy came up and hit on me and I said no before he was done talking and he got mad and called me a stupid Duke, I mean it was a gay bar, so not sure what he expected, but suddenly Kate was there and said "that's right, and she's with me, so fuck off breeder" and kissed me deep.  My fucking world stopped, it was insanely passionate, so soft.  She swept me off the chair and out the door.  We were in her car and heading to her house before I realized.  When we got to her apartment we talked for a couple hours and had more drinks.  She asked what I did for work,, and I told her I stripped at the Deja Vu over on Dort Highway. She said she would have to see my show. She then asked why I was at a gay club that night, and I said my friends wanted to see the drag show, and then we were going to leave and hit the Back Room, another bar, to try and get laid.  Kate said, "I can get you laid".  I laughed and said "you are missing a dick babe."  She said "hold that thought."  She ran to her bedroom and a couple minutes later emerged completely naked, wearing only a bright purple strapon.  She then posed with it, and said "see, dick."  I think that was the first time i really looked at her, she has shoulder length hair but it was shaved on one side pushing all of her hair to the right side so it all fell down one side. She was pretty,, like really pretty. Her body was tight and her boobs were small and pert..  I laughed, and asked why she was naked.  She said I figured a stripper is used to seeing naked women.  I said "usually I am the naked woman."  She laughed and said let's see your moves, so I did a strip tease and lap dance for her.  When I was done, she was just staring at me, she said you are the most beautiful woman I ever met.   I laughed and said "well flattery will get you everywhere."  She leaned in and said "will it get me you."  And she kissed me again.  It was soft and sensual and when I kissed her back she became passionate.  I honestly felt very wanted, so I gave in.  Next thing I knew we were in her bed and her head was buried between my legs and I felt so good.  I came a bunch that night, she was like some kind of Pussy wizard, and we did use that strapon.  We also grinded and there was a lot of fingering, so much fingering, I love being fingered.  After that night I actually made partners finger me more during sex.  We spent all day Sunday in bed, talking, kissing, cuddling, rubbing, fingerings, and eating my hoo hoo.  It was like a never ending foreplay, a constant climactic build.  I loved that day, and I saw her a bunch more after that.  And thats how I discovered I was Bisexual.