Want to have a MFM in Desire Resort with left out guys

[Gorgegon 17]

Hello

 

We are going to Desire Resort next weekend, my wife is NOT in to girls (100% hetero like me) and we would like to have a MFM here.

We have been in several swinger trips or clubs and we have noticed that some guys are left alone while their wives play together. We are considering inviting one both males to join us.

Males: Is this something that you would consider doing?

Females: Would you allow your husband to go with another couple while you are enjoying yourself with another female?

 

I know that a MFM is easier in a club that single males are accepted but we like challenges...

 

What do you think if after we introduce ourselves to the other couple, and the female tells us that she is looking for bi action to propose to both of them our plan? Is this better?

 

Thanks

[njbm 2,906]

I am a very optimistic person, but having a threesome at a couples resort may be difficult to pull off. It’s easier at a club on a night on which single males are admitted. I think a couple swap is more likely. We like to say whatever we thought would happen is not what happens. Good luck and have fun!

 

PS: if the woman of the couple is looking for a bi experience and your wife is not, I think that couple would likely look for another couple. For you to play with her husband and your wife while the other wife has nothing to do is sort of rude.

[Fitlakecouple 451]

My wife and I met a couple at Desire this past spring. The couple told us they were very pleased with the MFM they had in the playroom one night. It happens. You just need to find the right couple.

[padoc 1,704]

On our 1st trip to Desire we met a couple at dinner the first night and hit it off. Unfortunately, Mrs Doc ran out of gas and needed to call it an early night. She said, "maybe we'll see you two later this week". The other couple was very understanding and then out of the blue, the wife asked, "may we borrow your husband for an hour or two". My wife was surprised but quickly aquiesed and the 3 of us had a blast so it does happen. As for inviting one or more of the husbands whose wives are playing, why not? The worst that could happen is that one or both may say no. Im guessing you'd have a pretty good shot at your MFM.

[Guest]

We have done this at Desires and at our local couples club. The only cautionary note is to make sure the other man has permission to do so from his wife. Strange as it may be, the first time we did it at a local club, that became an issue. Now, you would think that would be his responsibility, and his sin, but that wasn’t the case.