Tri-sexual or Bi-sexual Why even label

[Ckeroticfun3 20]

The world and media have taught us to label. Personal observations suggest that in small groups where people don’t feel judgmental labels seem to wash away.

Being said, I have never thought of myself as bi sexual. Meaning I never look at men and think “wow I’d do him” or what a body or feel an attraction. Nor do I want an emotionally bonding paired relationship. Certainly not bi .

I love a woman’s presence and the sense of excitement between men and women. That’s hot. Yes in this case I’m straight as can be.

 

When in a very erotic moment or when there has been a severe depletion of a woman’s presence/desire towards me, the idea of stroking with a guy or a M/F couple is super erotic and exciting. Even sucking his cock with her or turning her on by having her watch us play or devouring both as they fuck each other ( super hot) . Be sure this is not out of creating jealousy but in sharing. As a result I find simply having a sexual environment with an open minded couple where we all strive to explore and play with each other, in a very comfortable manner, as the most rewarding.

This seems to be more like tri-sexual rather than bi sexual as it is more the exploring of pleasure and enjoying the exploration rather than an emotional or attraction type bond. Maybe this is more sex positive. I just have to say some people may be poly sexual and have those deeper feelings linking more to no-sexuality and others ( like myself) simply list for the “ let’s try great sex and explore all avenues “. ( safe & sane of course)

 

Yes I may be crazy. But at least I sex positive & comfortable with it.

 

Hope to have some fun chats.

 

S

[ViSexual 1,008]

You're not crazy and you're not alone. I'm, actually, the same way. One of my most memorable swinging situations was the very first time my wife and I swapped with another couple. My wife and the other husband had sex first in private and then me and the other wife had our turn in private.

 

 

Then all four of us sat together and just had the best conversation we'd had in the three years we'd been friends. I think that swinging together brings a friendship to a wonderfully higher level.

 

 

But it wasn't long before we were all four together in the bedroom. Me and the other wife both enjoyed watching our spouses having sex. Then she and I had sex again. By the time we were finished, my wife and him were about ready for another interlude and I remember taking his wet cock into my hand and guiding it into her wet vagina. That was so hot. We were young but if this had happened years later, I'd have had my tongue enjoying their connection too.

[JandKinBoise 858]

Labels are needed to ensure the group of naked people are on the same page. Our brains are wired very differently and each of us has our opinion and feelings about sex. Sure, if everyone was just like you, there would be no need for labels. Bisexual is probably the most widely defined sex term since people fall all over the bi range.

[PeeTWheatstraw 122]

I consider myself to be an open minded individual. I don't like to limit my thoughts or my sexuality. I identify as heteroflexible because Im only attracted to women but depending on the situation I might play with a guy. As a single man in the swingers scene, I learned that the more open minded I was the easier it was for me to find a date on Friday nights.