gaga2018 27 Posted August 25, 2018 Hello Friends. I have always the curiosity to know when you started to swing and if you swing after you have kids, do you let them (guys) finish in your wife/gf?? Did you have to talk to your partner in order to convince them into doing it? Thanks and you are the best Quote Share this post Link to post
adamgunn 1,461 Posted August 25, 2018 Gaga, we started swinging when we were empty nesters. The guys always wore condoms for disease prevention purposes, a habit I highly recommend. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
ViSexual 1,008 Posted August 26, 2018 We first swapped with a couple who were our friends back in the mid 70's. There was little risk of STD's and our wives were on the pill so we didn't even think about condoms. I didn't need to talk my wife into it, it just happened. Quote Share this post Link to post
cplnluv1 874 Posted August 26, 2018 Why do you feel you have to talk your wife into letting someone finish in her? Many women can not tell the difference during sex if the man is wearing a condom. That is not to say that I always have the guy wear a condom. Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,068 Posted August 27, 2018 We have a strict 'condom only' rule. While Ms. Gold isn't going to get pregnant now, it protects against STDs (you never really know if someone has one or not, even if they have been tested) and against emotional issues (keeps the other guy from getting 'too personal'). That's just how we decided to roll... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post