The Evening ended early

[TricianMike 772]

I know I have posted before about partners who finish before I do. We made plans to meet a new couple with drinks first. We met them and they were very much the couple we expected. Friendly, funny and I would say we could be friends with them. Easy to talk to we exchanged stories and had some laughs. After two drinks the husband suggested we go back to a room they already checked into. After agreeing things moved quickly to the beds. I could tell Mike was doing well in the next bed. In my bed things were going slower with plenty of foreplay which just wasn’t getting me anywhere until I took out a small toy I travel with. I could tell by the sounds being made the wife was having several orgasms. I had one more by toy than my partner. I wanted more and told him. He enters me and he finished before me. Mike noticed that I turned on my toy again and decided to stop doing what he was doing and ended up with me.

I don’t think they were happy that he stopped with her.

Was Mike wrong?

[Wornsilver 219]

I'm going to be really interested in the responses to this one because, not being there, I have to say I can't answer the question. Just not enough information, and I can imagine myself being in something similar and doing various things. One rule though, my spouse and our relationship comes first. Second rule, I can't control others' feelings.

 

If Mike did what you and he needed, that would be "right" in my book.

[Initwithher 40]

Well, it depends on how he shifted his attention from her to you. The phrase,"Seduced and abandoned," exists for a reason. If done properly, I would expect Mike to motion the other husband over to his wife, get them going and then turn his attention to you. If he just stopped and went to you. non-sequitur, well that is bad form.

 

There is absolutely the right way to handle this situation Bravo Alexandsandra, couldn’t have said it better

[TricianMike 772]

This was our first time with them. The husband finished and was already removing his condom and left me with my toy. I didn’t ask Mike to stop. I had heard what I figured was her having orgasms which Mike later confirmed. Mike took off his condom and came to me. The husband could have gone back to his wife but decided to watch us. The wife stayed in the other bed alone.

[cplnluv1 872]

If you have played long enough you would have run into situations like this before. Whether it was premature or just not long enough for you, you were prepared with your toy. I have been with men who had other problems, not getting hard. Tricia you said the other woman had orgasms with Mike, don’t you think she has her husband do the same to her? Whose idea was it to cut the evening short? Did one of them say something to make you leave? You started the thread saying you clicked.

[JandKinBoise 858]

Sounds like she was fully satisfied and you weren't. Your husband was just doing his job. If their feelings are hurt, they will probably talk about it themselves and if they cant reason the problem through, they may not want to do this again. I think though, that this problem lies with them (him) and not how you handled it.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

My SO comes first...both literally and figuratively. Your husband did the right thing.

[findinganswers 369]

It sounds like both ladies were satisfied. I don’t understand why anyone is angry. Your husband pleased her and when he saw or heard that you weren’t satisfied he came to the aid of the the most important person in the room, his wife.

Let’s face it, not all guys can go forever. I will be the first to admit I have cum before I wanted to. I wouldn’t be upset if someone else jumped in to finish what I couldn’t.

We play with friends, cumming fast is what it is. You are playing with strangers, if they are angry then move on. It was just a night. There will be other nights with other people.

[10thBadger 25]

On 9/1/2018 at 11:45 PM, TricianMike said:

I know I have posted before about partners who finish before I do. We made plans to meet a new couple with drinks first. We met them and they were very much the couple we expected. Friendly, funny and I would say we could be friends with them. Easy to talk to we exchanged stories and had some laughs. After two drinks the husband suggested we go back to a room they already checked into. After agreeing things moved quickly to the beds. I could tell Mike was doing well in the next bed. In my bed things were going slower with plenty of foreplay which just wasn’t getting me anywhere until I took out a small toy I travel with. I could tell by the sounds being made the wife was having several orgasms. I had one more by toy than my partner. I wanted more and told him. He enters me and he finished before me. Mike noticed that I turned on my toy again and decided to stop doing what he was doing and ended up with me.

I don’t think they were happy that he stopped with her.

Was Mike wrong?

Mike did the absolute right thing. Pat your man on the back. He saw you were not having as much fun and he said, that’s my woman and I am not gonna let her not have a good time. Mike jumped off the other woman like a BOSS!!!! then jumped on his woman/his wife and said let me handle things from here because you are the most important regardless of any situation.

 

I have heard on here so many times were the man or a woman gets so caught up what they’re doing with someone else’s spouse if they’re getting about their own spouse. And everybody wants to say it is the heat of the moment, newness, excitement, and extraordinary pleasure. But not Mike, he said even though I’m having fun, I’m not gonna forget about my wife. He did exactly what any man should do or any spouse should do . Go to the aid of their spouse and take care of them because as everyone said it here it is a team sport swinging and Mike to get to the next level.

 

Think about that, Mike was a full stride with another woman and had the presence of mine to look over at his wife and see her using a toy to help her self . And mike jumped off another woman and jumped on his own woman and probably looked her in the eye and said I got this because you are my number one priority.

 

Kudos to Mike, in the heat of passion he told the other woman ‘HOLD MY BEER’ I have to go take care of my wife regardless of the feelings you may have at this very moment.

[lcmim 1,082]

That is also one of the reasons to return to your partner at evenings end.

It is not all about reclaiming.

 

There  have been times , especially at parties that my lady has been sated and my playmates have been sated and I still have and edge.

 

 My wife and I end up  exhausted in each others arms.