Watching and being watched.

[sanantonioga 17]

My boyfriend and I are both interested in the voyueristic side of swinging. Watching and being watched. Is this the right category for us to explore? We don’t think we want to swing, but are ready to explore new things together.

[agreatguy 269]

My boyfriend and I are both interested in the voyueristic side of swinging. Watching and being watched. Is this the right category for us to explore? We don’t think we want to swing, but are ready to explore new things together.

 

It's a common jumping off point for many couples. If that's where it stays for the two of you, great!

Clubs are a good venue for this. Most, I think, will have play areas dedicated to voyeurism/exhibitionism.

[peekaboo 45]

My husband and I, even back when we were dating, started out in the swinging world by being exhibitionists and voyeurs. We both always loved having sex in front of open hotel windows (yeah, I know, I don't necessarily recommend it). Its good fun. We eventually upgraded our play to soft swaps (touching, etc), MFM and the very rare full swap (only two times so far), but 90% of our experiences are simply having sex in the same room as another couple or couples. Watching and being watched is a great starting point. I'll never forget our first visit to a swinging club when we just simply watched people and eventually got it on ourselves in front of others. Even now, when we get a hotel somewhere, we often get double beds just in case we meet another couple or somebody to bring back to the room.

[sanantonioga 17]

Thanks guys! We are going to be in Vegas in January. Any recommendations?

[peekaboo 45]

Avoid the Green Door.

[EVF2029 15]

Watching and being watched is where we are at now as well. One of our shared fantasies is to go on vacation with another couple (preferably near a nude beach) and spend all our time unclothed - playing sexy board games, cooking together, watching movies, laying out, and enjoying performing for each other.

[Guest]

We started with MFM and had a few before venturing into a couples club. We used that as an opportunity to watch and be watched our first visit. Went again, thinking worse case, it was fun and joined in with some other couples along the way.

[kellimc 229]

Watching and being watched is one of the reasons I got into the lifestyle and stay in the lifestyle. The thrill of being watched especially has never worn off.

[venusshaw 123]

Watching and being watched is one of the reasons I got into the lifestyle and stay in the lifestyle. The thrill of being watched especially has never worn off.

On our first visit to Paris, we paid 75$ per person to watch a show that we thought was going to be a sex show. Two girls appeared shook a bit of their ass, took of their bra and left the stage. We felt cheated and vowed that never pay again to watch a sex show. Show it to them and they will show it to you - all for free. Since then we have been doing it all in the open, between us and with others.