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The hubby and I are new to this scene. Long story short, we had only one encounter where a tinder date joined my husband and I and now we want two add maybe 2 more men in the bedroom. Still rookies I guess, however, our challenge is finding people in the most safe way. Where do you guys suggest is the best way to find Men willing to participate in DP, group type stuff?

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Go to the Find Swingers tab on the top of the page and fill out a profile. Steer clear of guys with free memberships, the guys who pay are the guys who are much more serious about it. Once you join, you usually will get a ton of single guys looking to hook up even if that isn't what you are looking for. Finding guys in the L/S is like trying to find cheeseburgers at McDonalds...they are everywhere.

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GoldCoCouple said:
Go to the Find Swingers tab on the top of the page and fill out a profile. Steer clear of guys with free memberships, the guys who pay are the guys who are much more serious about it. Once you join, you usually will get a ton of single guys looking to hook up even if that isn't what you are looking for. Finding guys in the L/S is like trying to find cheeseburgers at McDonalds...they are everywhere.

What GoldCoCouple say is true. I will add that Web sites of this kind have facilities called "Hot Date" or "Booty Call" that will facilitate organizing something like this. You put a prospective event onto a calendar and men can answer the solicitation. Also will provide you the time needed to sort through the men to filter those not desirable.

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Honestly I’d say not tinder. Simple conversation with like minded individuals is what I’ve found best. That’s the most stimulating experiences I’ve encountered. Just my two cents. Online hookups have always been less than par.

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