IDK 15 Posted September 18, 2018 I figured that this one deserves it's own, especially after exploring a little more around here and the web. It seems easier to find the "whys" of a negative opinion of how the experience was. I've seen plenty that say they enjoy the experience. But the "why" is less common. I want to know more about the ones who enjoy the experience? What's the best part of it? How does your wife like it? Stuff like that. Quote Share this post Link to post
Numex 2,459 Posted September 19, 2018 MFMs allow my wife to enjoy herself and build up her sexual ego. That's enough for me, but there are benefits for me. I get to watch her perform, join in the fun. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post
Wornsilver 219 Posted September 19, 2018 Here's my deal--not only do I get to experience her getting something fantastic, but I get to then have "reclaiming" sex or whatever you call it. Quote Share this post Link to post
ViSexual 1,008 Posted September 19, 2018 It's mostly just getting to watch the one you love enjoying herself. But, for me, it's also my way of showing her that it's not just about me getting strange. Too many husbands use swinging for just that. And I think that too many wives don't really relax and enjoy themselves because, deep inside, they know that they're simply being used so their husband can get what he wants. Quote Share this post Link to post
Achilles84 20 Posted September 19, 2018 Started as a dare... Continued as a lifestyle. For me it's the adrenline rush of seeing my wife get pounded, then as someone mentioned, getting to reclaim her. But sadly she's so insatiable we've only met 1 guy who could last longer than 5 minutes. And he turned out to be an asshole. Ugh Quote Share this post Link to post
agreatguy 269 Posted September 19, 2018 1)She's my favorite porn star. I love watching her flirt then seduce then get busy. 2)It's an ego boost for me that other guys want her. 3)There is pride in our relationship that I can enjoy her taking pleasure from another man. 4)I get to be a part of it. 5)It's an ego boost for her to be desired and the sex for days and even weeks after is always intense. Sex in most forms is a turn on for me. I like watching and I like participating. Anytime that is happening I'm interested. If I'm involved even better How does she like it? She loves it or she wouldn't do it. I don't own her and I have never talked her into or forced her to do something she didn't want to do. I will agree with Achilles, when she gets going she is such a flirt, so seductive and gets incredibly turned on I think the pheromones she gives off just make guys cum before they even get started good. I've never had an expectation that because she gets to have MFM that at some point I'll get to have FMF. I'd love it but I don't expect it. We also swap so I get to have my fun with other women. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
Milehiclubcpl 18 Posted September 19, 2018 My SO of 10 years is also insatiable! And I love to see her flirt and seduce. She is so sexy....all the freaking time. She almost drips sex as she’s walking.....and acts so normal, but has this aura about her. She even multiple orgasms easily with only my oral breast stimulation. She said she believes she could orgasm with me just talking her through it. We also date others sometimes. That’s usually a hell of a story! AND, she also loves ass play! This is my first real post. I usually read others stories, but just had to step in here and add this! Ed Quote Share this post Link to post
adamgunn 1,461 Posted September 19, 2018 My wife and I had dozens of MFMs over the years. She and I enjoyed it for all of the above reasons. One thing that hasn't (I think) been mentioned is that extramarital sex leads to increased libido which leads to more and better intramarital sex. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post