Wife's fantasy - Voyeurism. Suggestions?

[SYLVER 16]

Wife's fantasy is to watch another couple but not join in we are just recently exploring our fantasies and this one has her nervous. Any suggestions on how to approach this one?

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

Go to a club. You'll have your choice of couples to watch. No reason to be nervous at all.

[agreatguy 269]

There's nothing to be nervous about. This is about as tame as it gets. You don't expose yourself physically or emotionally. You just watch. Plenty of swingers like to be watched.

In a club there will most likely be a room set up for this. It may have couches surrounding a bed or something similar. Couples will start on the couch and if they're brave enough to be the stars of the show they may move to the bed. There may be a viewing area or even a big glass window you can look in. A club in our area that has a big viewing window expects couples to participate once inside the room. Stand outside if you just want to watch. Clubs may also have a play area set up with beds and sheer curtains around the bed or rooms with a sheer curtain in the doorway. Let the club host know you are new and get a tour, they'll inform you of the rules. Ask questions if you aren't sure. They are there to make sure everyone is comfortable and has the kind of fun they want to have.

[lovefest04 700]

Nervousness is just excitement for the unknown. Ever notice how quickly, once we've experienced something, that nervousness turns to other positive feelings. Nervousness is simply part of exploration. Have fun, enjoy the feelings and then enjoy how you feel moving forward.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

The absolute hardest part about going to a club for the first time is the walk thru the door. Afterwards, when you look back on it, it will seem silly that it was so hard...but it's easy to say this after you have done it.

[harplitt 25]

Exactly how we broke in, which then turned into wanting to be watched. Blossomed from there.

 

GoldCoCouple is absolutely right. Go to a club, don't be afraid to watch others. Part of the reason they are there is because they like to be watched. You guys would be doing them a solid - same as they are doing for you by allowing you to watch them.

 

Club is the way to go. Good luck, and have fun.

[Stonecharles100 17]

Same situation here. Wife loves the idea of being watched. We do it in public quite often. I haven’t brought up the idea of a club yet. We discussed having someone film us. Just don’t know who to ask

[agreatguy 269]

Same situation here. Wife loves the idea of being watched. We do it in public quite often. I haven’t brought up the idea of a club yet. We discussed having someone film us. Just don’t know who to ask

 

I would think it wouldn't be that hard to find someone to film. There are plenty of voyeurs out there. Porn sites are full of amateur videos that are filmed by obvious novices. Lighting being the #1 issue. Finding someone who knows what they are doing may be a little more difficult but should be doable. If just being watched is the primary turn on with filming being secondary it should be fairly easy. Perhaps another couple who will film while they get turned on then you can do the same for them.

 

Filming probably isn't going to happen in a club unless you can sneak a camera into a private room. You might find someone there willing to film outside the club at a later date or time. Have a nearby hotel room set up then if the opportunity arises you could invite them back to the room. Perhaps an off premise club would be a better situation. Just let people know what you want and look for someone who has equipment or knows something about it. Be careful that you are the only one with the video though for obvious reasons.

 

I guess the most important question is which is more important, being watched or being filmed?

[Naughtyvanessa 49]

go to a swinger Club... have fun

[jnrswinger 62]

Nervousness is just excitement for the unknown. Ever notice how quickly, once we've experienced something, that nervousness turns to other positive feelings. Nervousness is simply part of exploration. Have fun, enjoy the feelings and then enjoy how you feel moving forward.

 

Remember "It only seems kinky the first time."

[BlackCouple99 17]

As the others have said go to a swinger club. My wife and I started going in February. Each time we went, we progressed in our experiences. The last time we were sitting in the main area and started kissing this led us to put on a little show for the small crowd of people still at their seats. Most people did not go out of their way to stare but it was definitely a thrill to have people watch us. My wife had noticed a guy watching her all night and she commented that she really got off letting him watch her pleasuring me.

[adamgunn 1,460]

About being filmed. I agree shouldn't be hard to find someone to film you. Whether they'd be competent to run a camera under the conditions is another thing.

 

BUT . . . remember if you don't control the equipment, it's likely the film will turn up on the Internet porn sites. Have them take the action with your camera. Of course with a phone without a tripod, you won't get that much quality. But perhaps that doesn't matter to you . . .

[Guest]

We had done several MFM and then ventured to our first visit to a couples club to decide if swaps were of interest and to see what else went on. Spent some time getting to know other couples in the bar area/ dance floor and then ventured to the playrooms as we saw others moving in that direction. Watched others going at it, felt good about it, found an empty bed and played just the two of us, knowing others were watching us. It was a good introduction. Next time we went, we did a swap.

[Bluespruce1 706]

Love love love being watched! We like to invite a couple of guys into the room with us and let them know that we want them to watch. I invite them to masturbate if they want. I also makes sure that my husband is on his back facing them so I can ride his cock with my pussy in their face. I can cum by just opening my legs for them and watching their cocks swell as I put his cock in me. If i’m really turned on i’ll invite them to come closer so I can suck or jerk off their cock while i’m fucking.

[Naughtyvanessa 49]

You don´t have to do anything if you don't want to. It is fun to be there and only watch other couples...have fun with it.