Souria 15 Posted September 27, 2018 How can I convince my wife for swap? Quote Share this post Link to post
adamgunn 1,461 Posted September 28, 2018 You can't. If she's adamantly against it, that's it. If she shows any interest, go slow and be patient. Plenty of good advice about it on this forum, read the histories. Quote Share this post Link to post
JandKinBoise 859 Posted September 28, 2018 If every man who wanted to swing, was able to just sign his wife up, there would be a LOT of swingers. Real life marriage though, at least in the US is usually based on a mutual respect. So when the wife says she isn't interested in swinging, they stop at that point. Indian culture is a lot different, maybe another countryman can help more. Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,068 Posted September 28, 2018 If every man who wanted to swing, was able to just sign his wife up, there would be a LOT of swingers. Heck, a good percentage of the 'couples' that are out there are just this: men who signed up hoping that their wives will be interested. We've met more than one couple where the wife didn't know what was going on or was there with no intention of ever swinging. How can i convince my wife for swap Easy: first make your relationship one that is totally awesome. Make it so that the two of you can talk about ANYTHING and everything. Make sure that she trusts you and you trust her completely...like life or death completely. Start talking about your sexual fantasies and see what hers are (but you have to share too). Begin to act them out in the bedroom (whatever they are) and eventually ask if she is interested in making them come true. Now it is possible (read probable) that she might not be interested in swinging or just not 'wired' for it (most people just can't do it), in which case you are done and it won't ever happen. If she is one of the few, then set up a profile and start looking for other couples using one of the sites under 'Find Swingers' at the top of the page. Meet a couple you both like and you're there! Of course, this may take years just to get the love, communication and trust part down, but you have the rest of your lives and you never know until you try... Quote Share this post Link to post
scots 33 Posted September 28, 2018 How can i convince my wife for swap Depends what you want to swap her for? A new RV, a herd of goats? 5 Quote Share this post Link to post
Souria 15 Posted September 29, 2018 When we start doing sex every time she enjoy the swap thing. When i told her that feel someone is fucking u. She gone crazy. But after sex she said no Quote Share this post Link to post
venusshaw 123 Posted October 8, 2018 You have to break the morality voodoo. Everyone wants to have sex with multiples, they are scared about the consequences. Talk about the consequences and how they will not affect the relationship or the persona and you have an ethical slut who will say yes. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest Posted October 9, 2018 Do you want or to swap or do you want her to swing. Maybe find out what she would enjoy as a first step: MFM, swap, FMF, FF, hot wife, or maybe just baby steps, a topless resort or flirting at the bar with guys, or …. It’s always easier to get them where they want to go if you can find out where that is or at least, where they think it might be. Talk with her. Quote Share this post Link to post
venusshaw 123 Posted October 9, 2018 Not easy. It took me about 10 years from the seeding of the idea to having sex with anyone other than my husband. Yes, he brought it up, he convinced me - not that I required much convincing, and he had no personal agenda. He does not swing, I swing in his presence. I have the whole journey of how I became a cuckolding wife in my blog. You can read for free. If it helps then let me know. Quote Share this post Link to post
Payal 16 Posted January 1, 2019 It should not be difficult, we can guide you 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
