Need someone to film us and club question

[Stonecharles100 17]

Hi all. New to the site. I haven’t got the wife on board with swinging yet, but she loves the idea of others watching. We frequently do it in public hoping to get caught. Also keep the windows open at night. Question is how do we approach someone asking them to film us? And at clubs do you have to play or can we just do the deed while others watch?

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

. . . at clubs . . . can we just do the deed while others watch?

Yes.

[Stonecharles100 17]

Cool thx! Think that’s what I’ll sell to her and go from there.

[adamgunn 1,460]

As far as wanting someone to photograph and/or film you, put a profile up on a swinger site such as SLS (you'll have to pay in this day and age,) and let the reader understand that all they'll get to do is watch. Select the person on the basis of their expertise with photography.

 

Then make sure they use your equipment, or you're likely to have your pictures spread all over the internet.

[Sawman 84]

Find photographers/videographers who specialize in boudoir shots and start there. If he/she can't do it you can get a referral. I would be intrigued at the work of a female videographer.

[PeterJ 950]

Question is how do we approach someone asking them to film us?

 

If the erotic value to you is simply to have someone taking pictures while you and your partner perform pretty much anyone with a bit of voyeuristic inclination will suffice.

 

If you want fine-art quality photographs of explicit sexual activity, I suggest you contact Vivienne Maricevic. You can Google her or check out her website, which is “sheshootsmen”. I’ve met Vivienne through mutual friends. She’s well known in the fine arts world for her photography of male nudes and her work is shown in serious galleries. But I also know, through a different friend, that she takes commissions to phtograph couples (and small groups) having sex. This couple shared her photos of their MMF session and I must say the results ere stunningly erotic and quite beautiful. The images were truly lifetime keepsakes. It won’t be cheap and you’ll have to pay her travel expenses from NYC or go there yourselves.

[agreatguy 269]

If you have an interest in a club you may be able to find your videographer there. You most likely won't be able to video in the club though. Just let people know what you are looking for. There will be couples or singles that will enjoy watching and videoing as much as you like performing. Get a room and have fun.

 

I suspect that you are more interested in the exhibitionism and just having it videoed than you are in high quality work. A lot goes into high quality productions and you have to think about everything up front or risk having to stop and start to get the shots and angles you want. Just watch some Adult Film School episodes.