Learning 160 Posted October 4, 2018 We put the lifestyle on hold for about 8 years while raising our kid. Well, he’s at that age we don’t feel guilty anymore about leaving him as he’s getting more invites for overnights and now we are like “it’s time for us again”. We ended the lifestyle going to a nudist swinger camp. We met an awesome couple that weekend who we enjoyed their company (dinner/flirting/nice grinding on the dance floor) nothing else though because I was two months pregnant and the partner was on her monthly. We keep in touch over the years with each other via Facebook. Honestly, it’s been a huge fantasy of mine to link up with them again as the chemistry of terrific. We are going to my 25th class reunion and we are staying about 3 hours from home which is near their house so we are meeting up for drinks. I’m nervous but excited as it’s been so long just wanted to share the excitement. Any tips always welcomed too... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Wornsilver 219 Posted October 4, 2018 No advice except "Enjoy yourselves," and keep us posted. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
ViSexual 1,008 Posted October 5, 2018 I guess the one thing I might suggest is, 'have no expectations'. Well, unless the four of you have been communicating about things you expect. There's always the tendency to want to try everything when you live a bit far apart and know it might be a long time before another opportunity. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Learning 160 Posted October 5, 2018 Excellent reminder about pacing. The good thing is that there’s no expectations and 8 years feels like it was yesterday. I think what will balance too is that we realize now swinging is not a race but a long stroll through the woods with some side trails. The opportunity will be there. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
