Ladies, interested in Asian guys?

[Egi 15]

So we are Asian couple she is super cute and he is just a normal guy. It’s very obvious that anyone would love to bang her but how would you feel about your wife or partner banging some Asian guy? Ladies, would you have sex with an Asian guy?

[PSULioness 859]

Why do you have doubts?

[Egi 15]

No one really interested in him but her

[agreatguy 269]

How do you know no one would be interested in you?

[Egi 15]

Because it never happened.

[agreatguy 269]

Sorry, Can't help without more info. The short responses to the questions asked may indicate several possible problems including that you are not an outgoing or approachable person or may have confidence issues or communication problems. It's simply speculation but all of those factors will make someone loose interest far quicker than your ethnicity. You might want to start there.

[venusshaw 123]

People don't bang by ethnicity, nationality, color or any distinguishing features, though they may preferences. Some may like to have sex with your wife and your wife with him, but their partner may not with you. Would you deprive your partner to have her fuck? If not, that will be very selfish and the relationship is transactional, not transformational.

[luv2was 117]

So we are asian couple she is super cute and he is just a normal guy. It’s very obvious that anyone would love to bang her but how would you feel about banging your wife/partner some asian guy? Ladies, would you have sex with asian guy?

It takes all kinds for the world to go round.

 

The Swing Lifestyle (the "LS") is not a whole lot different than "normal" ("vanilla") life in many ways (but not all). One similarity is that there are many ways to experience it. There are no hard and fast rules about how a couple or individual participates.

 

While there are trends, there are almost as many ways to experience the LS as there are people in it. I can only guess, but I'd say that a "full couple swap" (or perhaps a "soft-swap") is maybe the most common trend, but a "3-some" is very popular too (one less person in the mix to get a full match with everyone).

 

Based on my observation there appears to be quite a fetish element out there for Asian women. There may be quite a few women out there who have a fetish for Asian guys also, it may be that you just do not see it advertised as much.

 

Try putting yourselves out there, and see what you get back. You could even try asking the same questions you ask here, as a sort of "icebreaker". Swinger websites are easy to interact with, but may yield mixed results. Visiting a Swinger's Club (as a M/F couple) is a really good way to get an idea of where you both (as a couple) may fit into the LS, but even that is not a guarantee, as it may depend on who is there that particular night (among many other variables). (There is a nice list of Swing Clubs on the SLS web.) If you do not get good results in a reasonable amount of time (several weeks?, months?), try changing your strategy... including how you present yourselves.

 

Confidence is an amazingly powerful aphrodisiac.

 

Participating in the Swinger Lifestyle can take a lot of patience... especially in the beginning.

 

While you (as a couple) are waiting to make that (elusive?) connection, especially if you both are new to the LS, try getting better educated. This BBS is an excellent place to start, and will offer a lot of good suggestions. Exploring this website together could be a really fun way to find out more about the LS, and what you both want out of it.

 

Best of luck to both of you.

 

Please let us know how things go (or not). The best thing about this BBS is that through the sharing of experience (both good and bad), we all learn a bit more about how to best navigate this lifestyle. To some degree, until non-monogamy becomes more socially acceptable, we are all pioneers here.

[lcmim 1,086]

My wife isn't here right now, but I am going to give you an answer from what she has told me and from what I have seen of her actions.

 

1. Forget worrying about being an Asian Guy. It would not be either the first or most important thing that she would take note of.

 

2. Be pleasant and conversational each gentleman she has been with has been just that a gentleman able to carry on a conversation.

 

3. Be complimentary and attentive, not overly so, but enough that she will know that you are interested. This includes, if it seems appropriate, an actual proposition. Well worded, she will appreciate the fact that you put yourself out there. Most of the time she does like not having to be the initiator . It ay not bear fruit immediately, but you will be on her radar.

 

4. Be patient. Each lucky guy has started out with her telling me, "He is really Sweet." or "interesting " or "funny" It may not happen that night, but I know from then on it WILL happen.

 

5. Be Clean. Bad breath or bad body odor kills her mood.

 

All the other garbage that people obsess over are, at least for her, non issues.

[hotwife70 595]

Same here, we're both Asian & definitely most guys would love to bang my wife since she is super cute & sexy with 104 lbs tight body but I wasn't so sure to myself.We've never being the lifestyle but willing to give a try since she agrees to to go along.

[Heyae 15]

Asian couple here...I know what are you talking about but keep on trying. We met a few couple that willing to play with Asian male.

[lcmim 1,086]

If you guys are having issues just because of where your people come from you are hanging with the wrong folks.

 

I would like to suggest that you stop self identifying as Asian and just be males.

 

I am German and proud of certain parts of that. Speak the language a bit and am immersed in the history. BUT I do not think of myself "von deutscher Geburt" when meeting a lady. That would get in the way.

 

You must have a job with some interesting points,things of which you can speak intelligently, hobbies, sports, art, music , heck if done well, even religion and politics. You can use the interesting things about your particular Asian origin as icing on the dessert as you want, but not the seven course meal building up to it.

 

If it is like you seem to think that the entire rejection is built upon your lineage, then you need new friends, as the ones that you have are fools.