I'm really into wife sharing porn, what does it mean?

[VanCityJeeps 15]

I'm really into wife swapping porn, does that mean I truly want to do it or? I feel like my wife would like to but she's worried I'd expect a ffm in return.

[SW_PA_Couple 4,024]

Nothing about porn, wife-sharing kind or any other kind, is real. Have you asked her about her desires? She might surprise you. Have you expressed your desires to her. Women are full of surprises.

 

I see that you are a new member. WELCOME to Swingersboard.

[ViSexual 1,008]

First of all, yes, welcome to the board. I think your curiosity about wife sharing will be satisfied here.

 

Your wife is smart to suspect that you're using a possible sharing of her to later ask for your getting to play with another woman. It happens and it happens more than true swingers would like. And if your wife has that concern then it probably means that she might consider joining you in wife sharing but wouldn't be interested in anything else. OK, some would think that would be her being selfish but I don't. She's just being honest.

 

If you truly just want to enjoy sharing her then you need to first make sure that's the extent of your desires. The you need to assure her of it.

 

You might just suggest she comes to this board as well. If you look around, you'll find that there are a lot of husbands who truly enjoy knowing about, watching, joining their wives with other men and don't expect more from them.

[adamgunn 1,460]

Good answers from SWPA and VSex. You need to communicate with her, find out what her fantasies are, share yours with her. There's a quiz somewhere that both of you take and it shows shared areas of interests. - somebody please help with the website, I forget at the moment -. Both of you should take it.

 

If you do it right, it won't happen quickly. You'll need patience before you're both comfortable enough to actually have an experience with other people. Good luck.

[Funlatincouple 44]

Ditto. As all mentioned above, communication and patience is the key. We played/discussed the idea for little over two years before it happened. I called them baby steps. While fusterating at time for sure but loooking back I wouldn’t change a thing.

[GoldCoCouple 4,066]

Does it mean I truly want to do it or?

 

That's a question only you can answer...and then you need to ask your wife, but before doing so, read more about swinging here in the forum so you can be better prepared when you do talk. Make sure that your relationship is rock solid first before continuing as swinging in any form will magnify any weaknesses or flaws in the relationship.

[agreatguy 269]

adamgunn said:

Good answers from SWPA and VSex. You need to communicate with her, find out what her fantasies are, share yours with her. There's a quiz somewhere that both of you take and it shows shared areas of interests. - somebody please help with the website, I forget at the moment -. Both of you should take it.

 

If you do it right, it won't happen quickly. You'll need patience before you're both comfortable enough to actually have an experience with other people. Good luck.

 

Is this the quiz you referred to? Interactive Sex Questionnaire for Couples | Mojo Upgrade

[adamgunn 1,460]

Thanks, agreatguy. Yep, that's the one I meant.