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By Guest FunintheSnow
A comment on the thread/poll about same vs. separate rooms reminded me of a question that's been on my mind--in your experience, what tends to happen when one pair finishes having sex in same-room play? Does the other pair feel pressure to finish up?
Edited to add: Yeah, I know someone's always going to finish first, barring wild coincidences. But I couldn't think of a better way to put it.
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By foozballnow
In your experience with swinging, either being the guy yourself, or the woman experiencing it, when does the guy normally cum? Do you have the woman perform oral and cum through there so you last longer for sex? Do you let the woman get you started with oral but only cum during sex? Or do you skip oral completely and just cum through sex. Normally we cum through sex, but sometimes the girl is really good at oral so I (male) don't know to make her stop or let it go...Just curious what the rest of you do in a similar situation.
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By Spoomonkey
I was talking to a friend here about an experience we had with a single male some time ago. It was a first "play" situation and we were clear that condoms were expected.
The guy turned out to be fairly well endowed; the kind of gear that requires the larger size wrapper. When "condom time" arrived he pulled out one of the cheap thick skinned, average size condoms that you might buy in a truck stop bathroom.
Needless to say - it didn't fit.
He couldn't put it on and maintain his erection.
This led to him asking (in a mock casual voice) if we ever play without.
End play date.
It struck me as a bit odd that a guy who said he had a lot of experience seemed to have no clue what condom size he needed. Was it a ploy to go without? Did he really buy one at the last minute when he knew ahead of time that there would be play? Did he simply have no experience with "safe sex"?
I actually use condoms that would have worked and did have mine with me, but the whole thing felt wrong to me. So - I let him flounder and leave. After all, I don't use condoms with Mrs Spoo and couldn't have been expected to provide them. I didn't feel very benevolent.
I have had men right before play come to me and ask if I had one. Spur of the moment situations can leave anyone in a bind. I have no problem with that and do carry extra just in case that happens. But this wasn't a "spur of the moment" kind of thing.
Mrs Spoo was upset as well and was glad I didn't offer one of mine.
What would you have done? And do you know what condom size works for you? How long did it take you to figure that out?
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By Spoomonkey
So the other day we were playing with a very good single male friend of ours... We had just gotten finished with "round 2" when I walked around the bed...
There - lying like a newly shed snake skin, still wet in the sun, was something that obviously wasn't mine...
"Ummm, I hate to be accusatory, but is this your USED condom?" It was a bit of a rhetorical question - after all, I don't use them with my wife and my wife doesn't need them since she doesn't have a weiner of her own...
"Well, technically, it isn't 'USED'" was the smart ass response...
"What do you mean it isn't 'technically USED'?"
"Well - I didn't finish with it..."
"Well..." somewhat speechless, "I'm still not picking it up..."
Now, to put this in perspective, this is a really good friend and we pick at each other quite a bit. Being the gentleman that he is, he picked up his condom and disposed of it.
My question is - when in the hell is a condom USED?
I am thinking if it has been wrapped around schlong, it is a goner... It's not "almost new" or "like new" or "gently experienced" - it's USED...
To be honest, now that I think about it, I am squeamish enough to say that if another guy brings a condom, pulls it out of the wrapper and hands it to me - I don't want it... It's USED enough even then...
What do you think?
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