You Know Where in Fayetteville, NC

[NC_Seniors 519]

Does anybody know anything about this place besides what’s on their Web site? Thank you ...

[two4youinswva 3,068]

The only thing I know about them is they have been around for quite a few years now I believe. Seems like they've been posting events on SLS for 10 years or so now.

[NC_Seniors 519]

Anybody else?

[two4youinswva 3,068]

Looks like it's going to be up to you to take the plunge and bring back a report for the board.

[NC_Seniors 519]

two4youinswva said:

Looks like it's going to be up to you to take the plunge and bring back a report for the board.

 

OK ... we did and here it is! ?

 

We went to the club -- our first EVER experience in the LS -- this past weekend. It's in what was certainly warehouse space behind a chain furniture store on one of the major roads (Bragg Blvd) in Fayetteville. The street in front is reasonably well lit and there's ample parking in a shopping center lot across the street. (The same person/group owns the warehouse and the shopping center, so it's OK to park there.) The club offers a round-trip shuttle bus from/to about a dozen hotels in the area, which indicates to us that they must get a lot of out-of-towners.

 

Once you step inside, it's easy to forget that it's a converted warehouse. We thought the facilities were nice. There's a good-sized dance floor with a stripper pole; PLENTY of seating for eating/meeting/talking; a small room in the corner of the main area that offers a little more privacy due to the fact that you have to enter through "love beads" hanging from the ceiling; an interesting dungeon where the curtains can be closed OR left open; coolers where you can keep your beer or white wine cold; a bar where the bartender will hold your non-cold drinks for you so you don't have to keep up with them all night; lockers for which they provide the lock and key; and some beds -- also with curtains -- that face the main floor for those couples who might want to get "frisky" around a larger crowd. There was an ample supply of pretty good food and a soft drink dispenser. At midnight, they changed out the corn dogs, chicken & pasta, and meatballs for bacon, scrambled eggs, biscuits, and gravy. There's a DJ booth and he played an interesting mix of music all through the night. Maybe the most interesting thing was the shadowbox ... a room where whoever's in there can be seen from the dance floor only in silhouette/shadow. All kinds of activity went on in there, some involving both sexes and other involving only women. You can see plenty of pics on their Web site (YKW| NC Swinger Clubs | Fayetteville)

 

In the back of the place are the various playrooms. They all have a theme (e.g. Las Vegas, 80s) and some of them have not only a bed but another play area such as a swing, sofa, or love chair so two couples can share the room without having to share the bed. There are also two Sybian rooms; a sex machine room; two rooms with a plexiglass wall between them for watching what goes on; a theater with mattresses where they show XXX movies all night; and gloryhole rooms for both men AND women. (Don't wanna leave the ladies out!) In the middle of all this is a dance platform with another stripper pole, couches to watch whoever's dancing, and another DJ booth. The pole got plenty of action during the night, and it wasn't just from the females! ? Again, you can see pics of all this on the Web site.

 

As for the staff, they were as friendly and courteous as could be. All first-time visitors were given a tour and a glow bracelet and we guess it worked, because most of the times that a staffer passed us, they made sure to ask how we were getting along and if there was anything they could do for us. The owners also made it a point to stop by our table to introduce themselves and welcome us to the club.

 

We were surprised by just how low a percentage of the people who were there actually had sex. There was some dirty dancing, hot kissing, and groping in the public areas, and after about 11:00, the playrooms were occupied constantly without much turnover. We DID see some sexual activity out in the open, but it seemed to us that the majority of the people there came just to party in an uninhibited atmosphere and then take it home.

 

The only negative thing we'd say is that the club should maybe turn down the lights in the back play area to help create a sexier atmosphere. Having said that, we realize they might not be able to do so due to safety issues and/or fire department regulations concerning evacuating the building.

 

Overall, we found the club to be a great place to visit and we can certainly recommend it to anyone in central NC who's looking for their first exposure to the LS.

 

PS We've posted another thread more about our personal experience in the First Swinging Experiences forum.

[two4youinswva 3,068]

Great review! Thanks for sharing and giving good details about the venue.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

Yes, great review, thanks for sharing that. Makes me want to go

[ViSexual 1,008]

I really enjoyed your review of the place. But I always thought it was FayetteNam, not Fayetteville. OK, yes, I was stationed there at Pope back in the sixties and seventies. In fact, my first date with my wife was at the Pope NCO club on February 4th, 1972.

 

Now we didn't begin to enjoy the lifestyle until several years later and after we moved from NC after my discharge.

 

I was wondering if you two would mind telling us how you became interested in exploring this new adventure?

 

OK, I'm already looking forward to reading about your next adventure! Thanks so much! ~

[NC_Seniors 519]

I was wondering if you two would mind telling us how you became interested in exploring this new adventure?

 

Don't mind a bit!

 

After many years of marriage, we got to a point where we started talking more openly about our sex life and some fantasies that include other people. At some point, our female half wanted to include toys when we're together and we've had lots of fun with that! During a short stay in Amsterdam, we went to the Red Light District just to see what it's all about. When we returned home, I (the male half) started researching to see if there's a swing club in our hometown where we could go just to watch.

 

That's when I discovered both this Web site and SLS. The SLS site listed You Know Where (YKW) -- along with other NC clubs -- and it's less than 90 minutes from us. We started talking about what we'd like to get out of a visit to this place and if we could ever actually do anything just between us in front of other people. It turned out that we both had some curiosity about voyeurism and to a lesser degree exhibitionism. The more we talked, the more we both discovered that the other one had some desire to experience things beyond just V&E with other couples, so we joined SLS and started actively looking for what we think are compatible matches. We also made one visit to YKW and joined their member site, and we're slowly making some contacts with other members. At this point, we haven't had any physical interaction with others, but we're hopeful that it will happen one of these days either at the club or through a connection we make on SLS.

 

And that's our story!

[ViSexual 1,008]

Awe, how sweet! If I might make a suggestion? Take your time and enjoy each new level completely.

[SteelRidge 19]

I know this is an old post, but thanks for the review of YKW. I want to take my wife there on a first time experience and it sounds great for us.

[PonderingCouple 58]

I know this is an old post, but thanks for the review of YKW. I want to take my wife there on a first time experience and it sounds great for us.

 

Agree totally; great description and lovely background story - thank you so much!