Any embarrassing moments telling the opposite sex?

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Wondering if men wish to elaborate upon their experience of how women reacted when they disclosed their bicurious orientation? There has to be men out there who received a negative reaction? What were your experiences and how did you handle it? Women both straight and bi what are your feelings/concerns? I'm very curious.

[padoc 1,704]

Mrs Doc is not interested in playing with bi men. She doesn't know where exactly their dick has been.

[njbm 2,901]

I think that many bi men only have oral not anal sex. Is that a fallacy (phallusy)?

[Jane1902 476]

I prefer not to play with bi men, my comfort zone and I don’t want to get into a situation where my partner isn’t getting what they want. There are many bi men in my area. I don’t like it when someone lies. Put it in your profile, can be only curious or situational. Don’t make me guess what you think like minded is. Paddoc, do you ask if they ever had anal sex before playing with the mrs? I understand your preference but sometimes you are harsh in how you state it.

[lcmim 1,086]

Mrs Doc is not interested in playing with bi men. She doesn't know where exactly their dick has been.

 

It seems to me the only sure thing with straight men is that they have one more place to put it not fewer.

[padoc 1,704]

That was a semi direct quote. Frankly, I thought it a funny for her to express the fact that bi men tend to have engaged in more risky behavior than she is comfortable in engaging. Is that soft enough Jane??

The answer to your question is no. We simply avoid bi/gay men in a sexual manner.

[Jane1902 476]

So if a straight man’s dick has been in a woman’s ass that is ok?

[ViSexual 1,008]

Back to the original question for this thread. It sometimes amuses me how we can get side tracked.

 

My wife's reaction surprised me a lot. I've probably told this somewhere here before but here's how she found out that I would entertain bi activities.

 

I was writing a series of erotic stories for a website. I had created a married couple, characters that were very close to us, and this couple was involved in swinging with another couple.

 

When we were working, I'd get up earlier than my wife and write a story. Then, when she got up she'd read it and we'd discuss in on our morning walk before getting ready for work.

 

One morning the action just naturally had the two husbands playing with each other during the sex encounters of the four of them. After I wrote it, I thought of taking it out but it was just too much part of the story.

 

When my wife admitted, on our walk, that she thought it was hot I was really relieved. After that I continued writing with the husbands playing as well. Oh, and, I admitted for the first time about a few bi experiences I'd had in my life.

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Thanks visexual for getting us back on topic. I'm curious to read about other negative/positive experiences when disclosing MM curiosity to the opposite sex. How did women react?

[padoc 1,704]

Im beginning to think that reading comprehension isn't your strong suit Jane. Either that or you just want to pick a fight. To be clear, Mrs Doc likes ALL aspects of hetero sex. She does not like to watch a guy suck a dick, she has no desire to see a guy suck my dick or watch me suck his. She has no interest in watching any males engaged in bi/gay activities. To be equally clear, she doesn't care who sucks what, she just does not (for health concerns and yuk factor)want to be a part of that type of activity.

[Jane1902 476]

No I am not trying to pick a fight, just to clarify a position. You stated Mrs Doc doesn't play with bi men as she doesn't know where their dick has been. I presumed you meant in another man's ass. Sorry. Now I understand not wanting to watch or participate in any bi activity between men. I don't know if you are aware of the tone in your posts though. Personally I don't engage in anal sex, but if you do fine. I appologize for hi-jacking the post. Maybe the OP was more referring to telling one's primary partner/relationship and clearly this can be a sensitive subject.

[JandKinBoise 859]

This is just another padocked bisexual thread. If you simply ignore the troll, he'll starve and move on to a different bisexual thread.

Since he has never admitted to his wife he is bi, he has no reason to be commenting here, other than to cause stress. Simply scroll past his spew to keep the thread on topic.

 

 

At any rate, my wife was very accepting when I came out. There is a lot to the story I won't go into here but I wish I would have sat down and had a conversation about this a couple decades earlier. It could have avoided a lot of trouble. We played mmf for a few years, she was quite enthusiastic. Good memories!

[lovefest04 701]

My wife is quite happy about it. I never wanted to admit it to her or to suggest exploration in this area, and now only wish I had done so earlier. The fun we may have missed. But alas, no time for regret. She actually wants to take it a bit farther, to get me cross-dressing. When in New York on business, she took me shopping for a skirt, blouse and panties. It was really fun. I did dress up for her and she pegged me that evening. Very erotic. So, for us the idea of bi-sexual play rapidly expanded into other areas. On another business trip, when we walked by a bar with many cross-dressers, she wanted me to get dressed and take her there. I wasn't ready, still aren't, for that was too public for me, still very nervous in that realm. And, I'm not sure how I'd even manage that situation. I suspect I'd be rock hard and ready to suck all the dick I could find. sorta scares me when I consider it. As far as sex, she's 100% supportive of me playing with men. I guess I'm fortunate.

[Bluecat469 23]

I was pretty high when my wife asked if I'd ever seen another guys hard cock. I said yes I had. she asked when and where. Me, being very blitzed, told her there was an older guy I worked with that I saw in the locker room and he was huge soft. His ball were the equal of his penis. Later on we were chatting and he mentioned that he noticed me staring at his dick. I told him my GF at the time would most likely want to play with it. He the said how about you? I was kinda shocked because as we were talking I was getting a huge hardon and he noticed. He asked me if I'd like to see it. I just had to say yes. We both had our own offices w/ private bathrooms so he said come with me. We were in his office. He locked the door and we both went into his bathroom. He then said "go ahead. unzip me before I get too hard. I want you to see it growing". Now I'm 7 inches average thick and hard as heck at that moment. I wanted to see but I wasn't about to let him take control. so I asked him to unzip me first and pull out my cock. He did and then went right down on me. Anyway, now it was my turn. I undid his belt, pulled his pants down and saw the biggest fattest cock I've ever seen in person. Made me look like a baby dick. Leaking all over I just had to kiss it. He then came all over me. His cock was so big, ho and heavy. We played many times after.

 

I married my GF and brought him to our house. We all got stoned and I don't know what came over me but I asked my wife Lynne to go put something sexy on because I had something to show her. Surprisingly she came back with a see-thru nighty that just about showed everything she had. We just had aa daughter 6 months before so here already big tits were enormous. I'm so fucked up by then I asked Manny if he had anything to show Lynne. Just said for her to come over to feel him thru his pants and if she was interested she could take them off. Manny wasn't the best looking guy but very nice and respectful. Lynne's first word were OMG he's fuckin' huge. She just about tore his pants of. Fuck I screwed up. My Young wife was now in love with the Huge cock of a 60 year old dude.

 

I didn't lose her. but she always wanted me to fuck her and tell me she wanted his big penis in her. We played with Manny many times. I'd suck him hard while he sucked me and then I would fuck Lynne to open her up for him. She Loved him doggy with me underneath licking her pussy while he was long dicking her. His ginormous cock and balls rubbing across my face and tongue. Lynne's fav thing was to tease me. Telling me he's going so much deeoer than I could ever hope to and touching spots I never could. Teasing little ho. But she's my teasing little ho. lol

[Kkris 18]

You shouldnt have to apologize or explain yourself

[Newandnaughty 3]

Just a curious question. Let me preface that the bi guy thing is not for me, however, the wife loves women, so I’m nobody to judge anybody. I see one of the posters said he told his wife of a few of his previous bi experiences, would that be with another man and woman? Makes sense to me that if you’re playing with another man and woman at the same time, bi experience. Just you and another man, like the one in the office bathroom, gay experience. Right or wrong?

[1hotminute 72]

That story had me rolling bluecat. You should write more. Hard to have a boner and laugh at the same time though.

[1hotminute 72]

My wife was kinda surprised, but kinda not. I told her I’m not into solo stuff, just more during three way stuff. Mostly because she was worried I might go cheat on her with some dudes too. She’s the first partner I’ve told I’m bi.

[lcmim 1,086]

Just a curious question. Let me preface that the bi guy thing is not for me, however, the wife loves women, so I’m nobody to judge anybody. I see one of the posters said he told his wife of a few of his previous bi experiences, would that be with another man and woman? Makes sense to me that if you’re playing with another man and woman at the same time, bi experience. Just you and another man, like the one in the office bathroom, gay experience. Right or wrong?

 

Plenty of gay guys out there using a lady as a beard.

 

Bi or Gay it is , in the cases that you describe, a matter of self definition.

 

In my own mind I would say if there is legitimate interest in both genders then it would be Bi regardless of the current pairing.

[Numex 2,460]

Mrs Doc is not interested in playing with bi men. She doesn't know where exactly their dick has been.

What about guys who do anal with women? Maybe even her.